PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Do you ever get bisexual/lesbian women who want services from you?
No, well not outside the context of a couple. But I dont see couples.
What do most clients ask for/seem to want?
Pretty standard vanilla sex. It's kind of funny how routine it becomes on my end. I go through practically the same series of things every time with only minor variations. But it's the same kind of stuff you'd expect from your girlfriend, kissy rubby stuff at first and then trading oral for a while back and forth a few times with other activities in between, about 20-25 minutes in I suggest 69 and depending how into it the guy is I'll often finish them in this position without having to do intercourse. If I can get away without having to have intercourse that's great. If the guy isnt getting off on 69 then I'll suggest intercourse because that usually does the trick in 10 minutes or less.
Do you make clients pay before or afterwards?
I usually leave it for after. Some clients will just take out the money without a word and set it down somewhere but if they ask about money I tell them "don't worry about it" and then handle it afterwards.
Have you ever had nervous men who can't get it up so they call it off in the middle of it? Do they get a refund or do they just not pay?
Yep, from time to time. If they decide to call it fairly early on, like in the first 15 minutes or so then I'll usually let it go without worrying about money, though it is much appreciated if the guy at least gives me a little something for my time. Regardless of whether or not he can get it up the fact is that I scheduled my day around him. My most requested hours are between noon and 3PM, so if I reserve an hour of that for someone and turn down 3-4 other guys that asked about the exact same time then Mr Floppy Dong just cost me the money I would have made from someone else.
I get the impression that some girls will expect full payment because of the fact that they did reserve that time for you. I'll usually just let them decide if they want to be a gentleman and be annoyed with them if they walk out without at least tossing a little courtesy money my way but I'm not the type to ride someone about money. Let it go and move on, less stress that way.
Sometimes guys will call it early on and leave me my full donation. On the one hand that's the proper way to do things, industry standard, as it were. On the other I always feel a little guilty for accepting full fee for 15 minutes but I also dont want to turn it down because regardless of what happens I can't replace the time that I scheduled for them.
Do you allow men to give you oral sex, make them use saran wrap/a dental dam, or just not allow them to give you face at all?
I dont really encourage it and I dont enjoy it, but I allow it. Some escorts do and some dont. I am under the impression that industry standard is that "DATY" is usually considered a plus. I dont make guys us saran wrap. I just dont usually let them do it for long before suggesting something else.
Did you ever have a guy who just wanted to give you oral sex and nothing more?
I'm going to say probably. I can't recall for sure but it doesnt sound out of the question. I'm fairly sure it's happened but can't recall any specific incidents that stand out in my mind.
What if 2 men wanted to both do that to you and then have you watch and masturbate while they suck each other off and 69? Or what if they did this and then started making out and then blowing each other?
Then they'd have to find another provider because I am a one at a time girl
Do you make men put latex gloves on if they want to finger you or do you not let them do this?
I don't make them wear gloves and I don't distinctly forbid "fingering" but I point out that I enjoy rubbing much more and that's usually enough to make guys just do that. 99% of the guys that come by seem like they want to please me and me suggesting things that I "like better" is almost always enough to get them to do that instead.
Do you use toys at all or if a man brings a toy will you let him use it on/in you? If a guy uses a toy on/in you do you make him put condoms on it?
No toys, please
Sex toys have always kinda creeped me out.
I was watching a talk show at work during break once where this guy who ran an escort service in NYC he said how if a man is going to cheat on his wife it's better if he has sex with an escort for pay instead of a woman who he works with, because it's less emotionally damaging to the wife, how do you feel about this?
He's probably right. The way I see it is that if a guy comes to see me there's no real emotional connection or anything. We dont see each other every day, we're not going out to lunch together, we're not going to keep seeing each other at work even if the affair stops. It's not something that's "developed" over time. No guy is going to consider leaving his wife for me.
On a scale between masturbating and having an extended passionette affair, i feel like seeing me is more akin to masturbation.
I do have guys wives call or email me from time to time
I just try not to get involved. Hopefully I don't answer the phone when they call. I did have one guys wife text message me pretending to be her husband but I had no idea who her husband was so when she was like asking if I remembered her/her husband I had no idea who it was at all so I didnt say anything incriminating.
Sometimes a guys wife gives me the impression that she thinks we're having an affair, like one guys wife was like "he's been lying to you, his real name is this and he has kids and has been married for blah blah years" and I am just reading it and like "uhhh, dont care"
and some guys wives seem more savvy to the fact that I am an escort and just want to talk to me for some reason. Or will email me and be like "don't email my husband anymore!"
Luckily that doesn't happen very often, I feel bad when it does but there's nothing I can do if a guy can't cover his tracks. I just dont call them or email them unless they call or email me first and I never communicate with the wife cause I don't know if I'll make things better or worse by doing so.
