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Social Anyone ever had a threesome -?

Omg. I believe in free love (done SAFELY, I have never had an STD in my life) so in college I was in threesomes and foursomes and orgies, lol. My favorite was with 2 other women. It was wonderful!!! But I’ve also been in a groping mass of people, it’s confusing and erotic and satisfying (humans need skin to skin contact, it is soothing)

Then, with my ex-husband, our sex life got stuck in a rut. We were both bored with it. I suggested swinging. So we got involved with the swinger scene. Sooo many times I was taking one for the team, fucking the less attractive male so ex could bang the gorgeous female. But sometimes I enjoyed it. I got to have girl-on-girl sex. We met people on sls.com and we met this chick in manhattan but she was more into me than him. She invited me over and introduced me to some of the best lesbian sex I’ve ever had. Scissoring, the works.

Another good app if you are merely looking for a third is Feeld. Sls.com is mostly couples, but occasionally they’ll have a “unicorn” (single woman) looking to join a couple.

It was fun, and I find it extremely hot to watch my partner fuck someone else. We are definitely planning a threesome in the future. It be awkward, because you have to pay attention to the needs of more than one person, and make sure everyone gets equal attention so they don’t feel left out. But still worth trying, I highly recommend it to anyone!
 
i'd love to have a threesome someday😵‍💫

on the ground rules of:
  • be attracted to both me and my bf!!! not one or the other only!!!
  • we have known each other/been talking for a while
  • know its no strings attached, and will never result in a relationship
  • wear a condom if you have a penis
  • you gotta host cuz my bf's house is small
i used to be fucked up abt threesomes but now that i've mellowed out i'd like one someday and my bf agrees we could try it if the circumstances were to arise. i have some people in mind, but id feel bad abt asking.

another thing is, i'd prefer to have a threesome with a trans man, as ive always.. uh... wanted to fuck one, but have only ever had sex with: one cis man. thats it.

trans women is on the table also, as i have a supremely attractive tgirl friend who is realllyyyy nice to talk to abt. sexual stuff ahhaa. but id highly prefer a tboy... however : most trans people i have met dislike cisgender people and do not wish to fuck one, ever ; which i totally get. however my bf is uh. cis male. so u see where it can get complicated yea.

for reference im a bisexual (male (whether cis, trans, or nonbinary) preference however both sexually and romantically) trans man.
 
CentipedeKarma said:
i'd love to have a threesome someday😵‍💫

on the ground rules of:
  • be attracted to both me and my bf!!! not one or the other only!!!
  • we have known each other/been talking for a while
  • know its no strings attached, and will never result in a relationship
  • wear a condom if you have a penis
  • you gotta host cuz my bf's house is small
i used to be fucked up abt threesomes but now that i've mellowed out i'd like one someday and my bf agrees we could try it if the circumstances were to arise. i have some people in mind, but id feel bad abt asking.

another thing is, i'd prefer to have a threesome with a trans man, as ive always.. uh... wanted to fuck one, but have only ever had sex with: one cis man. thats it.

trans women is on the table also, as i have a supremely attractive tgirl friend who is realllyyyy nice to talk to abt. sexual stuff ahhaa. but id highly prefer a tboy... however : most trans people i have met dislike cisgender people and do not wish to fuck one, ever ; which i totally get. however my bf is uh. cis male. so u see where it can get complicated yea.

for reference im a bisexual (male (whether cis, trans, or nonbinary) preference however both sexually and romantically) trans man.
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also forgot to mention, im mainly monogamous with some wiggle room for sexting friends platonically ONLY / sending nudes and fetish videos and posting them online, receiving platonical flirtation / sexual thoughts, etc. i tell my boyfriend about it also and he's cool w it. our libidos dont line up a lot, and also our desires for fetish i like (i can only get off to this fetish, and while he loves it also, it's not the forefront fetish for him) etc etc
 
Isn't this sex stuff complex?
I don't like to be touched, in general.
So it happened that I participated in a sexual act with two other people who both liked to be watched while they played bdsm games I suggested.
Not something I would like to do every week, or even once a year. But the three times I did were all interesting experiences.
 
Most guys don't know how to break the touch barrier. or go kino.
I find the easiest way to do is to touch the girl on the back of her arm just above the elbow.
as if you're leading or directing her standing side by side.
No more than a second or two.
 
ya’ll are familiar with my on-camera stuff lol. But in my personal life, in my 20’s, I had a few threesomes.
 
I've had 3x threesomes and 1x foursome. I much preferred the 4some I felt like it was least awkward and no one ever felt left out at ANY moment. It did end poorly for me because too much cocaine and I ended up losing it. Still lotsa fun.

2x of the threesomes was with 2 girls and 1x was with my gf and a guy that we met at a berlin techno club. That night might have gone better but I was pretty intimidated, he had the largest penis I've seen with my eyes. She also wanted me to make out with the guy which I didn't want to and that also made it a bit awkward because he was clearly down.

That same weekend, that same gf and I hooked up w a girl, and it was a bit awkward the girl we picked up was hot but bossy/annoying and basically competing with my girlfriend over me, not that my gf really cared. Berlin is a wild wild place fyi.

The last one was actually loads of fun and the wilder of the experiences. So I have an IG account and I dunno, I'm semi famous in certain crowds and this gorgeous chick who turned out to be a true exhibitionist starts following me randomly, she's clearly sapiosexual and attracted to me for my intelligence and passion about psychedelics and we start talking and she immediately starts sending me pics of her in all sorts of lingerie she's asking me what I want to see her do etc.. I barely took advantage of what she was willing to do, but we talked over several months and eventually she's visits an ex gf of hers in my city. I was invited over, and we all ate MDMA and 2C-B and a little meth.. and got pretty spun, very sexy, very quickly. It was very sensual and these girls were true lingerie enthusiasts. I would be fucking one, while the other would get up to change into different sexy lingerie and then they would switch and it was like that for like 5 hours. I must have seen each of the girls in 50 different pairs. In that case I know the chick was trying to really give me an experience I'd never forget. I never will.

Overall though, I'm pretty sure my days of that sort of promiscuity over. Or at least I don't seek out those kinds of experiences. If TMI my b.
 
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My ex and I have had a shared threesome fantasy for several years - him mmf, me mfm

We are like best friends above all, neither of us want to be in a relationship atm so we are going to find a bi guy to form a threeway. It's complicated but with gentle care, trust and comfortability we will take the plunge

Life is for living! I really want him to finally explore his bisexuality, feel free to make his dreams come true, and mine too. I will want to take meth and he's very anti drugs, so it's not without its issues

How it must be a constant dance to ensure all needs are met and respected...
 
I think I’ve already shared my experience in this thread. It was really just a mind fuck cause I knew my bf at the time wanted to watch me and another female get into each other. The look on his face as he watched us was got me. The girl already had a thing for me and was ok with what it was about. I think it’s important to make sure everyone is on the same page with something like this so that no one has expectations that gets anyone hurt. Idk if you could even call it a three some tho cause I think I was the only one that really got fucked. They about wore me out that night lol not in the way people would think…I mean like I was exhausted but in a good way haha

But we are all wired different and what works for one might not for someone else. Threesomes can be approached from so many different angles. Im a greedy bish with my man and I’ll never be someone’s side bish. If I was in a sexual relationship with a man and he wanted to bring another female into our bed I’d say hell yeah….you go boy! But he’d never get to touch me again cause I’d be gone. If I can’t be enough then you can’t have me at all. That’s just me being honest and how I feel about it. One dick is enough for me and my pussy is magic. My mans not gonna want anything else cause I’ll keep him happy. And if a man’s the type to want to watch another man fuck me….that would turn me off so quick it’d be like the Sahara desert anytime he got near me so no I guess I’m just not into threesomes really
 
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