Dtergent said:
It's like someone mentions I'm vegetarian and another person gets semi-upset and says that vegetarians are fussy, complain about little things, think so highly of themselves, etc. Then they tell me what to eat. This is all before I say even one word! It's annoying... I'm not in their business, grrr they should stay out of mine.
I SO understand what you mean, and I think most of us do. The veggieboards.com forums are full of threads about dealing with meat eaters and their stupid comments.
Its really ridiculous..people are incredibly stupid. Although it can be amusing at times, for example, someone who survives mainly on potato chips, red meat, and soda, expressing geniuine concern towards me that Im not getting "enough nutrients in my diet". LOL
I have no idea why meat eaters (some, not all of course) seem to be so threatened by us. I think a lot of these people have unconcious, underlying insecurities about who they are, their morals, and how well they take care of themselves. They get insulted by our lifestyle because they think we look down our noses at them (not true, at least not for most of us) and that we think we are "healthier" or "better" or "more moral" than them. I have noticed many people like this, and the stupid comments they make to me (most of which are completely not true and there is no science to back them up) just reek with their insecurity. Often times I dont even bother saying anything back to these people.
Iits absolutely NO ONES place to tell anyone else how to eat unless they ask for diet advice. I cant imagine how angry some junk food eaters I know would get if I nagged them about their unhealthy eating habits, yet none of them seem to think twice about making stupid comments to me about my vegetarianism. I could go on for pages about the idiotic things they say but its anything from "animals dont feel" to "You will die if you dont eat meat".
I feel sorry for these types, honestly. I wouldnt look down on anyone for their diet choices, but I do look down on some peoples actions.