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Almost 23 and have never gotten laid

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Well he might not be like that, it's not a universal given about young men.
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He's inexperienced, so a week of abstinence might make him too excited. Only one way to find out.
Also I got viagra from my doctor despite not having any issues, comes in handy when you want to bang on hard drugs like MDMA or coke.
 
Whoa, a lot of great replies, thanks everyone for the congrats.

Actually I hadn't busted a nut for almost a week the first time, the very first time and the night I couldn't cum. We fucked again the next day and I was a lot less nervous and did just fine and came and all that. It was a matter of relaxing. I didn't cum right away either, more like 15 minutes and it was long enough that she was able to as well.

Honestly I feel blessed. Far better than a first time could have been.

As far as her, she fell in love with another FWB and she already has a boyfriend on top of that so I think she is wary of falling for me too. Based on her coy responses instead of straight answers I think she has mild feelings and is keeping a distance. Part of what I need to be is grounded, take this for what it was and be fine with it if she bounces.

And it has changed perspective a lot. I might have just a couple more experiences and then look seriously at what I want in a relationship, and life in general. I regret nothing and all of the Catholic stigma I was fed for years was complete bullshit.
 
I've known ugly bastards who get laid. pick up some weights i can tell you don't lift the testosterone boost will make your confidence increase. also good prostitutes aren't that expensive really ($200, waste of money in all), I've only gone to them during a couple dry spells when i had a bankroll but might get the whole virginity thing out of your head.
 
treezy z said:
I've known ugly bastards who get laid. pick up some weights i can tell you don't lift the testosterone boost will make your confidence increase. also good prostitutes aren't that expensive really ($200, waste of money in all), I've only gone to them during a couple dry spells when i had a bankroll but might get the whole virginity thing out of your head.
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irrelevant now. see above
 
gmlifer said:
2 minutes! I could do it twice in two minutes. ;-)
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I don't even enjoy orgasm to be honest. For one it's proven that a woman's is way longer, number two i kinda discovered over time (especially high) that i actually enjoyed being horny more than the physical release. Also then you can't get hard for awhile and it takes time to feel that elated horny feeling again. Call me nuts =D
 
Oh please, get high and when you fuck stop just before you finish, go down on her taking a break, it called edging. Do that few times and you'll enjoy the orgasm. It gets even better if your partner knows you well and she can do that for you.
Men you have so much to explore I kind of envy you, the feeling of novelty is great.
 
Durzo1258 said:
Oh please, get high and when you fuck stop just before you finish, go down on her taking a break, it called edging. Do that few times and you'll enjoy the orgasm. It gets even better if your partner knows you well and she can do that for you.
Men you have so much to explore I kind of envy you, the feeling of novelty is great.
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I'll try that next :D If she wants to keep this going that is.

I may play the field just a bit I think, because i'm late I have a bit of catching up to do. I don't want to be promiscuous though, ultimately i need to settle for one person, I just don't want do that to soon.
 
I don't think she'll say no to you going down on her, woman can have multiple orgasms and oral is the way to go about it.

Also spoiler alert, one night stands are generally vanilla because you don't know each other, relationship is where the kink happens.
 
Durzo1258 said:
I don't think she'll say no to you going down on her, woman can have multiple orgasms and oral is the way to go about it.

Also spoiler alert, one night stands are generally vanilla because you don't know each other, relationship is where the kink happens.
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Indeed indeed, part of the reason i want one :)

She says i eat pussy like a pro though so i have that going for me!
 
Durzo1258 said:
I don't think she'll say no to you going down on her, woman can have multiple orgasms and oral is the way to go about it.

Also spoiler alert, one night stands are generally vanilla because you don't know each other, relationship is where the kink happens.
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Why do you care if she has an orgasm? Just fuck her and duck her on twitter. I guess if you're trying to wife. I usually just fuck like a beast and seems to work well enough, rough sex FTW
 
Durzo1258 said:
I'm not dignifying that with an answer.
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jr6654 said:
Bingo. I mean I don't disagree that attitude needs changed. I just resent the statement that I could never, conceivably, positively, supercalifuckinglisticexpialidociously get a beautiful and sweet woman, and instead wind up with some ugly fat chick who is always cleaning out my bank account, that's all.
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You are a attractive male, idk why you thought you wernt. You should have no problems attracting ladies, you seem to have confidence about yourself. Youre fine, youre also still young, you may of not been 16 when you lost your virginity but i thknk you can still live a good life once you get a wife in a few years.
 
treezy z said:
Yeah it's less common now that many girls go out to take pictures instead of party but it's undeniable people go to bars and clubs to get laid, and it happens.
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Ladies and their smartphones. Photography used to be an art, capturing something great at just the right moment too. Now all we have is a constant stream of selfies in club toilets and other moments that aren't actually worth capturing at all. /endrant
 
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