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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

I enjoy the period of singledom where you are moving on from an old love and aren't thinking about any potential new loves. It's so.... free
 
You two are hitting on each other aren't you. What better place to pick than this thread ;)
 
Hi everyone, I'm back! :D

I just had my first proper grown-up relationship in ten years and it is pretty much over....he is an awesome dude and I do care for him a lot, but I have realised now that I have had someone in my life, I don't really want someone in my life. I hope we can stay friends because I do really like him, and I am glad that I have had this experience because it has taught me not to be too sour on the concept of relationships..

I am also okay with it being over though; it was good while it was there and it has definitely served a purpose, but that purpose has been fulfilled methinks. Time to move on to the next level in this crazy platform game called life. :)
 
things are so complicated right now


one girl wont even speak to me shes mad at me (the most important one...the one I actually want)

one girl I think I blew it coz I was drunk the other night and acted bit weird

ma big black sexy mama - well, I'm waiting for her to wake up to my SMS...

and I just found my my friend's ex who is pregnant with his child holds a big of a flame for me...shou;d've seen that coming really - been chemistry for a long time, and we kissed properly the other night...

WHY DO I DO THIS!??!?! lol - Shit's weel.

Now gotta uncomplicate all this.... cut some people out the picture this week - well/ sex/relationship-wise at least.
 
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I had to break things off with mr intense musician poet (I'm such a sucker for the creative types) Just friends from now on. Our connection wasnt doing us any good inner self wise really *sigh* not that he was my bf anyway (at my insistance) but still ... that makes it 4 breaks now.... must stick with it this time... obviously it's not right.

Why is it that in the first time in my life (when i really think about it) I'm finally not seeking any company of a partner and i have two men in my life that have proclaimed to be "in love with me" and i'm not even interested? Are they just too available? Do i just feed on the drama when i'm not sure or when it's not working? When they are good to me i find it "boring"?

Has anyone here read "Women who love too much" - it explains a lot of my past patterns... and "He's not that into you" is my freaking bible these days... yet they are doing all the things in the book that say they ARE into me but i don't want them. The 1st one even buys me sunflower seeds and plants them in a pot at home and nurtures them to seedlings and then plants them in my garden.... (sunflowers are my favorite by the way) HOW can i NOT be falling for either of these men? I don't want to fall for an arsehole again.... maybe my defenses are just up from the last 2 yr toxic relationship and i truley ama changed woman and instead of letting everyone in oh so very quickly like i used to i'm all closed up.... hmmmm

*sings* "sisters are doing it for themselves...."
 
Oh yeah i've learn a massive relationship lesson this weekend. It would seem i've been re-dumped by default. Who knew the old phase-out/ignoring methods were still in use? certainly not me. Lesson learnt: No answer, is your answer.

Anyway I think being single for Summer is def not a bad thing.
 
raverchik said:
Oh yeah i've learn a massive relationship lesson this weekend. It would seem i've been re-dumped by default. Who knew the old phase-out/ignoring methods were still in use? certainly not me. Lesson learnt: No answer, is your answer.

Anyway I think being single for Summer is def not a bad thing.
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They went out of use? Every girl I've dated and most of the ones I ever wanted to date have used it on me at one point or another, no matter how much we hit it off or how well things seemed to be going.
 
So from the moment I decide to no longer seek a relationship or even sexual encounters, I am being propositioned and sought after.

Murphy's Law much?
 
Yeah dude I KNOW!! ^

I was saying i needed to focus on getting a new job, and my art...

Then so much stuff happens..

It seems there are 2 possibles on the horizon...one definite...and one almost-certainly...

Might not be in htis thread much longer! Found an awesome girl who makes me smile :) (not that anyone has given me any advice at all).
 
It's amazing how sad I've been over the last few days over everything that happened with my first love. It's this raw pain that won't seem to heal. At first I was excited that I could feel so intensely for another person but now I'm kind of over it and just want to move on. Easier said than done though.
 
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