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Should I report all the posts here that are rude and disrespectful and downright discriminatory?
I am personally highly offended by some of the language used in this thread.
Rather than facts or statistics, I don't see much here beyond baseless slander and attacks without understand. Twitter level drivel discourse.
I didn't see anything rude and discriminatory. People have just been describing incels. Men who want sex but can't get it, and the truth is usually it is because of their terrible personalities which they make no effort to address, while they live in a victim mentality and frame the world as if they have somehow been done over by everyone else. They even talk about things like 'mewing' which is supposedly some position some men hold their lower jaw in which makes them unappealing to women, and how to fix it.
I mean, I am not an incel and I'm trans, and statistically speaking many people do not want to have sex with me, however my personality seems to be viewed as not unappealing enough (despite what some people here may think but they aren't the ones fucking me nor do I want to fuck them) for people to decline me upon meeting me and most people I hook up with willingly give me their contact details so we can move off grindr and keep in touch other ways and meet up again. Or off other apps.
I've had like, 6 girlfriends in the past, countless partners, and I find it no issue to organise a hook up.
If incels are doing worse than trans people, should I use the mindset some people seem to have that we are allegedly completely unfuckable, then there is clearly a factor at play here which unites them in unpleasantness.
And having met incels, and read blog posts and having looked at incel forums and whatnot, I can report that yes, they tend to share a distinctly distasteful set of personality traits.
Even really ugly people I've met have ended up happily married, because they're likeable people.
If being an incel bothers someone so much (not saying you do identify as one, but your desire to report all of the comments in the thread describing incels seems to indicate that you do), then I would suggest on working on the things that people find universally a turn off before throwing out statements that social commentary upon incels warrants being reported.
Incels don't fall into any protected groups in the forum rules, because it isn't a trait or set of traits inherent to a person's being or person like race, sexuality, gender identity, disability, and sex. It's simply a collection of like-minded individuals who share the same extraordinarily negative opinions about women and why no one wants to fuck them while simultaneously being completely unwilling to do any kind of positive work on these traits society finds unappealing.
There's a difference between being attacked for something a person cannot change, and something that they can, but choose not to, because it's far easier for them to blame society, women, other men, and anyone else in the world than be willing to admit that perhaps if they looked in the mirror at the vibes they are putting out and made some adjustments that they would no longer have the same issues.
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