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Can't feel shit with condoms

JessFR said:
I think he just thought to himself "I have a right to sex, which in practice means I have a right to pay women to have sex with me".
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Again, you're saying it means he has a right to pay women to have sex with him even if they don't consent to said transaction...?

Nope.
 
birdup.snaildown said:
Again, you're saying it means he has a right to pay women to have sex with him even if they don't consent to said transaction...?

Nope.
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I don't think he thought about it at all, as I've repeatedly said.

I just think he thinks the world owes him some way to access sex and doesn't think about it any further than that.

And that he doesn't think about it further is itself the problem. I feel like you're not "getting" what my problem here is.
 
OpiateKiller said:
Pay extra for no condom - or ask her to give you a handjob or blowjob at the end
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If a handjob or blowjob don't work effectively, have her give u a toot job with it. That seems to work wonders. A pussy getting penetrated along with the ass, or the cockis being blown or whacked off quickly with the ass getting fingered is the recipe for a legendary ejaculation.
Btw, nice ass. I would love to farvis it
 
birdup.snaildown said:
Okay, he did say it. He's a rapist. You got me. Clearly he was saying he's entitled to have sex with people against their will. All men are rapists.



Sounds like a rapist. Clearly the world entitled trumps everything else he's said and it can be taken out of context and twisted around to mean that he wants to fuck people against their will, even though he has explicitly said otherwise... Keep crucifying men in the name of feminism or grammatical pedantry or whatever happens to float your boat.
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Hey birdup not all men are rapists. That's not cool of you to be so judgemental like this. When I was 9 i was raped by my older cousin who's a female then her best friend also raped me. It wasn't a normal rape either, they intruded my anal cavity with their fingers as I cried. I don't consider all women rapists because I was raped by 2 in the same week. I was also raped by a heavy 350 lb white woman from outwest when I was 20. Stop being such a B and stop labeling every man a rapist because not every man is!
 
Tuwon Farks 00 said:
Hey birdup not all men are rapists. That's not cool of you to be so judgemental like this. When I was 9 i was raped by my older cousin who's a female then her best friend also raped me. It wasn't a normal rape either, they intruded my anal cavity with their fingers as I cried. I don't consider all women rapists because I was raped by 2 in the same week. I was also raped by a heavy 350 lb white woman from outwest when I was 20. Stop being such a B and stop labeling every man a rapist because not every man is!
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I didn't say all men are rapists. I've been arguing the opposite point throughout this entire thread. You misunderstood me.
 
JessFR said:
I don't think he thought about it at all, as I've repeatedly said.

I just think he thinks the world owes him some way to access sex and doesn't think about it any further than that.

And that he doesn't think about it further is itself the problem. I feel like you're not "getting" what my problem here is.
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Who fucking cares? You literally spent 3 days of your life trying to figure out what a random person on the internet meant to say, thought to say, was thinking, whatever. Who cares.

You have completely derailed the thread as well with your Dr. Phil nonsense. The thread is called "Cannot feel shit with condoms". Not..."Analyze me".

Back to the topic - Sex and condoms.

I agree! Condoms suck!
 
TheInvisibleStoner said:
Who fucking cares? You literally spent 3 days of your life trying to figure out what a random person on the internet meant to say, thought to say, was thinking, whatever. Who cares.

You have completely derailed the thread as well with your Dr. Phil nonsense. The thread is called "Cannot feel shit with condoms". Not..."Analyze me".

Back to the topic - Sex and condoms.

I agree! Condoms suck!
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There is no thread to get back too, the thread was someone's question, that someone is (thankfully) gone.

Why do you care what we debate here?
 
Audiobook said:
I mean, I can see why you think the way you do.

But obviously this is a topic that has impacted her.

So I can see why she has continued the convo for that long.

I’m kinda bowed out (not completely tho) but if something like this has had a impact on you then I don’t think it’s unreasonable to see why someone would stay in the convo.

But it’s probably not healthy. Especially since on the internet you won’t change anyone’s opinion most likely. Because those are largely formed by IRL experiences from what I understand.
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I stayed on the thread because it became interesting, the original poster left, so it didn't seem to matter if we got use out of the thread discussing side shit. If we hadn't I have zero doubt that instead of being 9 pages it'd have died on page 1.
 
We could always split the earlier part of the thread into its own thread seeing as it apparently offends @TheInvisibleStoner so deeply.

Thing is it's not for me to do that, I'm not a SLR mod neither am I a SLR srmod.

But if you're so troubled by not staying on the topic of some random dude who left a week agos condom sensitivity, you are welcome to request a thread split of the SLR mods.
 
I don't care. I am just saving you from further humiliating yourself is all. Its painful to read.

Argue your nonsense in PM's.
 
Michael_25 said:
I fucked a couple of more escorts over the past two week. But I can' feel shit! It's like slinging a sausage down a hallway -- no sensation. After about 7 minutes of pounding away I lose my stamina and ask the girl to get on top ... how do I overcome this condom problem problem? I can't shoot my load with one on.
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I don't perform nearly as well with condoms either, but it has nothing to do with my stamina. If by "stamina", you really mean "erection", they make pills for that. If you actually mean stamina, then I'm sorry to say that a condom isn't your problem. You are simply out of shape.

Here are some other tips that might help that I didn't see already suggested:

-Squeeze the reservoir on the tip of the condom prior to rolling it down the shaft to get rid of air pockets which will cause even more unnecessary and unwanted friction between you and the condom.

-Cialis

-Sex doesn't require intercourse. Get your frottage on. Get a hand job. Get creative.
 
w01fg4ng said:
I don't perform nearly as well with condoms either, but it has nothing to do with my stamina. If by "stamina", you really mean "erection", they make pills for that. If you actually mean stamina, then I'm sorry to say that a condom isn't your problem. You are simply out of shape.

Here are some other tips that might help that I didn't see already suggested:

-Squeeze the reservoir on the tip of the condom prior to rolling it down the shaft to get rid of air pockets which will cause even more unnecessary and unwanted friction between you and the condom.

-Cialis

-Sex doesn't require intercourse. Get your frottage on. Get a hand job. Get creative.
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If hand jobs and suck jobs don't work he can always have her give him a Toot Job. Those are the best when a naked lady sucks ur dick! It's even better when she soaks her finger in hydromorphone syrup then shoves it in going 3 times fast, pause and repeat twice!
 
Tuwon Farks 00 said:
If hand jobs and suck jobs don't work he can always have her give him a Toot Job. Those are the best when a naked lady sucks ur dick! It's even better when she soaks her finger in hydromorphone syrup then shoves it in going 3 times fast, pause and repeat twice!
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Condoms are used in oral sex as well. It's often times flavored to taste like a banana or strawberries.
 
w01fg4ng said:
Condoms are used in oral sex as well. It's often times flavored to taste like a banana or strawberries.
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Yeah when i fucc around with a stranger or hooker, she will put the jimmy on her finger, give me a tootjob with it to wake up my cock muscle, then when about 5 mins after giving me my tootjob, she'll take her finger out, take bummy flavour condom of and put on my hammer. I will fucc her face till my cock muscle is really awake and warmed up . Then I fucc the shit out of her!
 
JessFR said:
I just think he thinks the world owes him some way to access sex and doesn't think about it any further than that.
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The fact that someone repeats your words back to you doesn't mean they think like you. Michael_25 was being oppositional and childish and you said "you think you're entitled to sex" and he said "yes I am entitled to sex"; that doesn't mean you had a rapport, furthest thing from it really.

Epistemologically, what does it mean to "[think] the world owes you some way to access sex"? How do we observe a mental state relating to an existence function on the set of human actions? Obviously it can't just mean that you'd be happier having sex than not; that's everybody. It also doesn't mean you think you can just have sex with someone against their will; that's just being a rapist, and you spent two pages denying that's what you mean.

I'm trying to relate this to observables; we have "he thinks (unobservable) the world owes (unobservable) him some way to access (unobservable) sex"; a thought about a debt of a possibility. The only people this framing works well for are the self-congratulatory schadenfreude memeposting crowd, and they never really contribute to progress.

I have written three paragraphs of logic but I don't need logic to tell you that Michael_25's problem is envy, and you'll make a lot more sense of it if you use the normal words and refer to the extensive prior art in this field; to wit:

thou shalt not covet
 
@atara
Dude I've already had one bigass argument over what the original poster may or may not have meant. I'm not getting dragged into another. When the OP likely returns as he seems to have periodically for the last couple years to sprew misogynous crap we can ask him ourselves. Tell then it's pointless to keep arguing something we can't confirm.

But speaking broadly as far as human psychology, what does it mean to think the world owes you sex? You're trying to come up with rational implications for what it means to think that. It's not rational though.

You know how you can have an attitude that you're superior to everyone else? You can say "but how does that make any sense? You don't make more money, you don't have a job, you have no friends, you're have no education, it's not logical".

And logically all of those are good points, but it doesn't matter cause the person still feels superior. Feeling entitled to sex is the same. It's an abstract attitude. It's not about rationally thinking you have a right to force any given specific person into sex in any given specific situation. It's about a general attitude that the world/women owe you sex. It's a mindset that doesn't get any more specific than that.

Being able to pick apart its inconsistencies don't mean it isn't the case that people feel that way.

As to whether the OP feels that way? I still every reason to think he does yes. But you're free to disagree.

EDIT: BTW I love your signature. <3
 
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