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OT: After i got a novel written to me saying that i was ignoring you, i did exactly that, only because my ex used to do the same thing (accuse me of ignoring her) and it turned out to be wicked toxic. Opposite to popular belief, it wasn't premeditated.

Sorry that i left with no words at all, but that's just how i roll.
 
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I know that we agreed that we both need to have the option to hook up locally to take care of physical needs until we can be together, but I'm still terrified to tell you what I need to because I'm scared it might turn into an excuse to reject me. I feel guilty af about possibly hooking up with someone locally though; its your fault my libido is stuck in high gear, and you're the only one I want, but she knows all about you and that I'm in love with you and is still fine with hooking up, and I don't know that I'll be able to stop myself since it's still months away when I get to see you. I'm going to have to ask for your explicit permission, and if you're not cool with it just say so and that'll be the end of it. I really hope you're the woman you've made yourself out to be and that I believe you to be, not that I want to be able to fuck other girls while in love with you, but because I don't want you to use this as an excuse to run away and abandon what we have
 
^ because for most couples, fucking other people is what gets them through the tough times. Builds strong foundations upon which to fuck other people. Now if you both work hard to sleep with as many other men or women as you can, its hard to see how the relationship could do anything but flourish. Or not.

Maybe, people raise these notions not because they want the polyamory but because they had hoped for some reassuring jealousy from their partner & end up snookering themselves, kinda.

Just saying maybe consider a different strategy before committing to that one, unless you are sure its what you want.
 
that's definitely not what's going on here, none of it. in fact I'd like to say that what you describe isn't the case anywhere but I've never dated a normie so maybe normies are like that and that's why they've never been interested in me
 
I should probably just have said that in my experience in my own sheltered world, that every time ive heard that a couple was going to try an open relationship, that it didn't last long after that.
 
unfortunately, i have said it all. . . . and it doesn't even really matter.
looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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Painful One said:
I wish for all my dear friends here to have PEACE.
peace with one another and peace inside of themselves.
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I'm having a peaceful night now. That comment in our thread got me riled up because the random attack didn't make sense to me, but we're all hurting in one way or another. I regret getting that angry. Also, there's a bit of history you don't know about. I just want to get back to love. Leave the past in the past.
 
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