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Sadie
Bluelight Crew
I know it sucks but things will work out. Is this a temp move?
Sadie
Bluelight Crew
So, ya think she'll move to you hopefully?
Ouch - yup it's brutal (no point sugar coating it). Skype etc can make things a lot easier but it can also hurt both parties as it just reminds you of how alone you are when you say good night etc. I've said this before in the SLR section about skype (and I feel it can really help) - try not to use it as a telephone call, don't just call up to chat, talk about your day and then log off. If your both at home (depending on time differences) then skype and go about your normal routine - if your working or even watching TV then do it together.
Try and work a few things out prior though - how long this will last, what are the end goals, are you going to have FWB's etc
What a lazy day I've had, I'm really struggling settling into a daily routine again after being on the go for the last month or so. It doesn't help that I'm struggling with jet lag (It's 16:04 at the moment but my jet lag has me at 10pm 
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I'm going to have a few drinks and then see if he fancies going for a massage - (I quite like it when the massage guy rips my paper knickers- he says its to get to my glutes yeah yeah if I had a penny for every time I've used that line)
). I'm going to have a few drinks and then see if he fancies going for a massage - (I quite like it when the massage guy rips my paper knickers- he says its to get to my glutes yeah yeah if I had a penny for every time I've used that line)
Sadie
Bluelight Crew
This made me laugh more than it should have.
Skype is a good thing. Sadly sham can't get it to work bawwwhahaha. We call on lunch breaks and several times a day. Just chatting like the other was next to them. It is difficult but hopefully you'll not have too much time apart. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, I think it blows. A lot of pining but all that fades away once you're together again.
I thought you two squirrels were living together now? If Skype if bugging then try 'Viber' (same stuff different name). If you sort stuff out before hand - end game, rules etc then it can be doable but it's fucking tough on those nights when you just fancy chilling and cuddling up on the sofa.
Paper Knickers
- the funny thing is the guy that I go to for a massage is really cute and such a nice guy. Ok sir, can you turn over 
- err what ? No just do my back a bit longer.
Sadie
Bluelight Crew
Bawwwhahaha, well every one loves a massage but it seems some more so than others ;-)
Yeah, we have moved in as such but we spent so long working on a long distance relationship. Also, the boy wonder still has to go back from time to time to sort things out. It's all worth it though.
Yeah, we have moved in as such but we spent so long working on a long distance relationship. Also, the boy wonder still has to go back from time to time to sort things out. It's all worth it though.
Sadie
Bluelight Crew
Well that's great news sj. Time is really the only thing that sucks. It'll fly by hunnie. Xx
Don Luigi
Bluelight Crew
I'm glad to hear you got that resolved, man
Nice to see you back!
Am I the only one who believes that consumer's IT guru is Boris from Goldeneye?
Alan Cumming is class, also.
ordinary mind
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YES! I am invincible!!!
Itsgoneundertheboa
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Guess I'm in the edge of BL category. Not a big poster not a lurker. I can't contribute daily nor do i want to but it has been just over a year since I found this site stopped lurking and tried to contribute something.
What can I say. Thank you is probably apt. Yep guess what i occasionally do drugs, funnily enough that is why I'm here, to make sure that if i choose to do drugs I choose correctly what i think I'm doing, i know the effects, i know the risks and i get the best possible education. If i can pass that knowledge on even better. I can tell you now this site works, end of.
Do i believe drugs are bad of course everything is bad, including religion and the internet. The line between use and abuse is always fine. Its understanding and having the rational ability to understand that line; having that knowledge readily available, being able first hand without the drama and doom. We all know when we opened that pandoras box and smoked that first spliff we were lied too. This place gives an informed decision, often it takes others to tell you you crossed the line or give you a clear warning of the danger. The key being you listen. This place does all that end of.
Everyone has the right to their own piece of this little planet we live on, everyone has a right to voice their views, everyone should expect that not everyone will see the world the same.
After 40 years of my own ego and my own view this place has taught me way more than LSD, mescaline Ayhi etc everyone is different everyone has a view and everyone has a right to speak provided that it doesn't harm others. Yeh we all lose it occasionally thats a given thats life but we learn, or at least should, everyone has a right to their own views, everyone has a right to voice them provided these views are not counter productive. This place isn't anyones its created by the people that use it. Yes the likes of Sadie, consumer, shambles, fubar ordinary mind etc. etc. we wouldn't ever share the same place but we can collide and interact. Sometimes with fireworks sometimes like bubbles morphing into each other.
Great to see you back consumer, glad its all sorted, Stee you have taught me more about benzo and addictions and reasons why (real life) your an absolute must for a site like this, Sprout wherever you maybe you are Sprout end of people don't like that see above, Sadie well you are simply empathy, i missed that once still feel bad, Bear the reason why i wound up here thanks to all your hard work on PR. I could go on and on and yeh fuck it i'll give you some cred Fubar your comedy genius and sorely missed.
Yeh shit happens, its scary it feels like an invasion of your mind space because you trust people are what they say they are, that they come here with good intentions. Sorry not the case never will be - choose your friends wisely winter and summer them as the saying goes. Alas there are people afflicted with sociological and psychological issues. This place also taught me that they are more prevalent than I thought. People are indeed out there with nothing better in life than to seek attention and cause others harm and disruption. In real life I've met a few over the years, here harder to spot them because we lack that essential factor of body language relying on written words. The predator will always prey on those they see as weak or in the way of their own agenda, alas drugs make us weak simply because they make us unlock our selves drop our social guards and be open.
Yep I'm pissed now some fucker please tell me how to get an avatar and please for christ sake can i change my name, it was another pissed night a long time ago and a mistake - we all make em please forgive me.
What can I say. Thank you is probably apt. Yep guess what i occasionally do drugs, funnily enough that is why I'm here, to make sure that if i choose to do drugs I choose correctly what i think I'm doing, i know the effects, i know the risks and i get the best possible education. If i can pass that knowledge on even better. I can tell you now this site works, end of.
Do i believe drugs are bad of course everything is bad, including religion and the internet. The line between use and abuse is always fine. Its understanding and having the rational ability to understand that line; having that knowledge readily available, being able first hand without the drama and doom. We all know when we opened that pandoras box and smoked that first spliff we were lied too. This place gives an informed decision, often it takes others to tell you you crossed the line or give you a clear warning of the danger. The key being you listen. This place does all that end of.
Everyone has the right to their own piece of this little planet we live on, everyone has a right to voice their views, everyone should expect that not everyone will see the world the same.
After 40 years of my own ego and my own view this place has taught me way more than LSD, mescaline Ayhi etc everyone is different everyone has a view and everyone has a right to speak provided that it doesn't harm others. Yeh we all lose it occasionally thats a given thats life but we learn, or at least should, everyone has a right to their own views, everyone has a right to voice them provided these views are not counter productive. This place isn't anyones its created by the people that use it. Yes the likes of Sadie, consumer, shambles, fubar ordinary mind etc. etc. we wouldn't ever share the same place but we can collide and interact. Sometimes with fireworks sometimes like bubbles morphing into each other.
Great to see you back consumer, glad its all sorted, Stee you have taught me more about benzo and addictions and reasons why (real life) your an absolute must for a site like this, Sprout wherever you maybe you are Sprout end of people don't like that see above, Sadie well you are simply empathy, i missed that once still feel bad, Bear the reason why i wound up here thanks to all your hard work on PR. I could go on and on and yeh fuck it i'll give you some cred Fubar your comedy genius and sorely missed.
Yeh shit happens, its scary it feels like an invasion of your mind space because you trust people are what they say they are, that they come here with good intentions. Sorry not the case never will be - choose your friends wisely winter and summer them as the saying goes. Alas there are people afflicted with sociological and psychological issues. This place also taught me that they are more prevalent than I thought. People are indeed out there with nothing better in life than to seek attention and cause others harm and disruption. In real life I've met a few over the years, here harder to spot them because we lack that essential factor of body language relying on written words. The predator will always prey on those they see as weak or in the way of their own agenda, alas drugs make us weak simply because they make us unlock our selves drop our social guards and be open.
Yep I'm pissed now some fucker please tell me how to get an avatar and please for christ sake can i change my name, it was another pissed night a long time ago and a mistake - we all make em please forgive me.
Sadie
Bluelight Crew
Alan cumming is awesome af!
Shambles
Bluelight Crew
Very true and very well put
Been ages since I set my avatar up (only 10y or so now 8() but I do believe you go into your profile and edit settings. Somewhere in there will be a box where you place the URL of the image you choose as your avatar. Just bear in mind that avatars are not the same as profile pictures - you can have both, either, or neither and they can be the same or different as you choose. Sorry I can't be more specific but has been a while - check the Support forum cos they have all kindsa useful tips on stuff like this
PS: Good call. Nobody counts as a proper BLer until they have an avatar. Join us... JOIN US!!! MUAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA!!! etc
PPS: Namechanges are simple but a little pricey. The only to go about it is to a) start a new account and just let people know who you were and now are (this is the free option) or b) drop a staff member a PM with the name you wish to change to and be aware BL charges $25 for name changes. Yeah, I know but the previous situation was that no name changes were allowed other than option a) so... You pays yer money... or not, I'm afraid
I quite like your moniker. Conjure's images of great big boa constrictor's and also of Fulham Football Club's former Portuguese striker, Luis Boa Morte.
Sadie
Bluelight Crew
Indeed they are Tinker. You'd really think it would harden a heart but despite the battering one can get some still carry a delicate heart.
It's always better to keep love in your heart rather than hate. Even if some people feel the need to rape you of it.![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
It's always better to keep love in your heart rather than hate. Even if some people feel the need to rape you of it.
Sadie
Bluelight Crew
At me? I made no mention of avatars. Is this a request or statement. Sham and boa were talking about avatars.