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NerdOnDrugs said:
not to mention, imo, chicks make for THE BEST dealers. No drama, always chill, smart, not non-functioning addicts, not as much ripping off... and half of the time they are cute to boot.

I have friends IRL in agreement too on this..
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What is this BL IRL mecca for women? I have missed the proverbial boat here. Where do I find these awesome people to become BL friends with?!?
 
tacybear714 said:
What is this BL IRL mecca for women? I have missed the proverbial boat here. Where do I find these awesome people to become BL friends with?!?
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Ah I'm strictly talkin IRL female dealers..

I'd say most of the ones on BL are too smart to slang... and/or have real jobs.
 
Rabidrabbit said:
Don't sell yourself short!!! :p ;)



So, so, so true. I mostly have met other dope using females through my male friends who have girlfriends who are also into it. Some of them are cool chicks and some of them are space cases. Kind of like with any other drug users.

I agree though. It would definitely be awesome to meet up with KNOWLEDGEABLE drug-using females around my own age. Not those chicks who just sniff whatever their boyfriend puts in front of their face or whatever, but a girl who can start the party AND keep everyone safe. They're out there. It's a guy's game, they'd have you think, but some of us females have learned how to play as well. :)

In the real world, I think they all work in bookstores. ;)
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It's definitely the "one of the guys" type of girl you're talking about, there's always been one or two in my group and they get treated pretty much like a dude with boobs after a while, same amount of respect. Just usually this type of girl just gets drunk and smokes, and tends to be more tomboy than feminine/cute... the harder drug using people that have their shit together are harder to find... male or female.
 
NerdOnDrugs said:
It's definitely the "one of the guys" type of girl you're talking about, there's always been one or two in my group and they get treated pretty much like a dude with boobs after a while, same amount of respect. Just usually this type of girl just gets drunk and smokes, and tends to be more tomboy than feminine/cute... the harder drug using people that have their shit together are harder to find... male or female.
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I am one of these :D I mostly hang out with guys and I wear t-shirts and soccer shorts or pants all the time and I don't wear makeup. In my experience, I have found intelligent, stimulating, fun females who condone hard drugs/injecting to be far and few. There were a couple girls I used to shoot dope with, but they were just thieves and hustlers with no interest in learning or bettering themselves. But as "tomboyish" as I am, I still get hit on ALL the time. I wish more guys could just be friends.. But then once they get rejected so many times, they learn that I'm pretty much "one of the guys" so they see me differently. Plus they all know I'm in a long term relationship with a man I love so they give up. This makes me think that most females are sluts since they would let guys get with them so easily... I judge my own gender too harshly, I think that's probably why I feel more comfortable with males.
 
I'm a female, and byfar not the "over weight ugly" type.. I have a vast knowledge of many drugs, side effects, etc. I'm an over achiever at every single thing I do, and am newly separated from the street drug scene.. But i have a vast knowledge... I used to use stimulants to help me study for exams and get a deeper understanding of class work material when I was in college.. with an above 90 average.. nobody every suspected anything, I just got tired of being broke all the time. I've seen the good, the bad, and the ugly.. and love the idea of sharing my personal experiences to help people through their paths of experimentation, we are all human.. whose to judge what your personal euphoria is? The best people I know love to get fucked up.. I think with higher intelligence comes higher need for release.. and, correct me if I'm wrong, but ladies we love to go hard just as bad as men do!
 
deidara said:
This makes me think that most females are sluts since they would let guys get with them so easily... I judge my own gender too harshly, I think that's probably why I feel more comfortable with males.
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Hell if my penis was as powerful as a good set of boobs and ass in this world... I'd use it to get what I want too. Boobs are like a set of ticking time bombs, their power fades. Does speedo make shorts? Maybe I just need to highlight the bulge more..
 
I've learned I can't fool myself and ever truly believe that I'm seen as "one of the guys," especially once I moved out and beyond the cozy stoner world. I know my own experience in the land of drug use has been heavily influenced by boys/men I chose to associate with, and I'm sure the same applies to the experiences of other girls/women... Maybe I've made it my own now, but it's taken time.


There are several seemingly intelligent, very eloquent and compassionate BLers who happen to be female... maybe IRL they just keep to themselves. Like a couple posters mentioned, it can feel like dudes (whether dealers or "friends), are constantly trying to get somethin-somethin from us. Sometimes it's just easier, and better, to stay under the radar.
 
iliketoast said:
I've learned I can't fool myself and ever truly believe that I'm seen as "one of the guys," especially once I moved out and beyond the cozy stoner world.
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I guess it really depends on the group of guys. One on end of the spectrum are college educated drug nerds and on the other GED educated unemployment check/part-time working scumbag burdens to society. Although the educated can be scumbags too.

But the type that make their way to BL tend to be the more intelligent type, and it's those IRL groups that will treat the females in their group better.
 
School because I'm a student..
Bars because I like to drink.

That's where I'm at.

Oh and work because.. I have a job.
 
Bitching up against each other, rubbing up against the males, no female comradie for the most part. In other words, like real life.
 
Ninae said:
Bitching up against each other, rubbing up against the males, no female comradie for the most part. In other words, like real life.
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On bluelight? I dont see any of this happening, and despite not posting frequently, I am on this site daily. Maybe in the lounge, but other than that i find the females on here very supportive of each other, mostly because weve all been thru the same shit.
 
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