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where are all these girls in the real world? I'm a girl and I want girl drug using friends but the only drug friendly girls I have found in l.a. are the crack head hookers on the boulevard and the old ass women on skid that remind me of dope sick love.
 
Emily29707 said:
I missed that meeting. I've been doing it for 1 bag and a cup of coffee. I really need to check my calandar more often.
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Don't sell yourself short!!! :p ;)

ohshea said:
where are all these girls in the real world? I'm a girl and I want girl drug using friends but the only drug friendly girls I have found in l.a. are the crack head hookers on the boulevard and the old ass women on skid that remind me of dope sick love.
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So, so, so true. I mostly have met other dope using females through my male friends who have girlfriends who are also into it. Some of them are cool chicks and some of them are space cases. Kind of like with any other drug users.

I agree though. It would definitely be awesome to meet up with KNOWLEDGEABLE drug-using females around my own age. Not those chicks who just sniff whatever their boyfriend puts in front of their face or whatever, but a girl who can start the party AND keep everyone safe. They're out there. It's a guy's game, they'd have you think, but some of us females have learned how to play as well. :)

In the real world, I think they all work in bookstores. ;)
 
Rabidrabbit said:
I mostly have met other dope using females through my male friends who have girlfriends who are also into it.)
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Haha that also goes for me (I'm also female); most of my friends are male especially my drug using friends are exclusively male but the only drug using females that I know are friends of those male friends :p Although some of them have become rather close friends lately I still get the idea that the more (serious) psychonautic drug scene is male dominated.
 
Being a girl in the drug game is hard and easy. It's way easier to get a deal, but most dealers automatically assume you'll suck their dick for a hit and are somewhat confused when you prefer to pay.

I know about three other girls who use drugs (opiates) regularly.
 
^^This.

I hate the thuoght that my drug dealer might expect something...and many many manyyyyy a drug dealer have hit on me. Which is awkward.. you dont want to come of as rude when you dont welcome it, but also dont wan to lead them on.

I'v know many many stoner chicks in my like thats for sure.

And as for bluelight females.....the nudie thread. I'll leave it at that.
 
Mine always expects something - last weekend I went to get a bag and I usually get two but just didn't have the money at the time. He stood there with the bag and was like "I know what you can do to get this." I almost threw up on him before I left.
 
Yeah, I know very few other female drug users. From my experience, it's mostly males. But at least us intelligent females gather here on BL :p :)
 
oxytocin said:
Being a girl in the drug game is hard and easy. It's way easier to get a deal, but most dealers automatically assume you'll suck their dick for a hit and are somewhat confused when you prefer to pay.

I know about three other girls who use drugs (opiates) regularly.
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really? gross..

I got MAD love for BL females. mad love I tell you <3
 
There's a difference between being a girl and being a woman.

There's a plethora of girls on here.

There are precious few postmenopausal women on BL.

You know who you are. I appreciate you, BL women. I don't think I could have lived the last couple years of my life without your help. This is the only place I've ever found women I can talk to who know what it feels like to go through all these changes... to feel out of control and out of my mind. I'm thankful I joined when I did.

Culture puts certain limits on girls while giving them certain freedoms. Then it turns around and puts different limits on mature women with different freedoms. No one told me it was going to be like this and adjusting to the shifts as they come around is hard as fuck.

I love my fellow BL women. Herbavore is one of my favorite people on earth and I don't even know her. I understand her when she writes something. Sometimes I don't understand BL girls.

jmho
 
This also happens to bi and gay men who are addicted to drugs. I have a gay male acquaintance who when he was actively using heroin or any opiates he could get he would hu$tle his ass and mouth for dope and opiates, or just cash to get them if his trick$ or john$ did not have drugs.
 
Women are usually more concerned with lookin pretty.. oops I meant "harm reduction" than us guys. I think that's why u see more of them here than most online forums which are more sausage-centric.
 
I can only speak about the girls\women that I have met IRL that use drugs.

The girls seem to let whatever guy there with tell them everything they need to know about drugs. I could pull out a random drug and my ex would use it after a 1 minute explanation. I would never do this. I think its just has to do with gender roles and the like.

However the more mature women I have met are often more careful of what they ingest in their body. Their worried about something like alcohol drying out their skin, cigarettes staining their teeth, benzos lowering their cognition speed. Women love to worry about things and drugs is certainly no exception.

Much <3 for all BL'ers. Especially the ladies of all ages defying gender roles and societal expectations.
 
I enjoy watching all the horny males swarm in on the females. I've never partake in such an eloquent way of saying hello, but it sure does look fun from here.

weekend addiction said:
I can only speak about the girls\women that I have met IRL that use drugs.

The girls seem to let whatever guy there with tell them everything they need to know about drugs. I could pull out a random drug and my ex would use it after a 1 minute explanation. I would never do this. I think its just has to do with gender roles and the like.

However the more mature women I have met are often more careful of what they ingest in their body. Their worried about something like alcohol drying out their skin, cigarettes staining their teeth, benzos lowering their cognition speed. Women love to worry about things and drugs is certainly no exception.

Much <3 for all BL'ers. Especially the ladies of all ages defying gender roles and societal expectations.
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Odd, I used to hang around with an opi couple and the female always wore the pants when it came to anything opi related. Wether it was how much dope they were going to do, how much money they were going to spend, or how they were going to ROA it. I sure don't miss the continuous arguments they would have while driving them around to cop.
 
JunkieDays said:
Odd, I used to hang around with an opi couple and the female always wore the pants when it came to anything opi related. Wether it was how much dope they were going to do, how much money they were going to spend, or how they were going to ROA it. I sure don't miss the continuous arguments they would have while driving them around to cop.
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Women are just better at household finances, whether it's for dope, groceries, or the electric bill. They've been practicing for generations.
 
I think I get what you're saying. You're surprised at the level of coherence from the female posters. I have been too tbh. I think we can all agree it's not really like this in the real world.
 
serotonin-system said:
I think I get what you're saying. You're surprised at the level of coherence from the female posters. I have been too tbh. I think we can all agree it's not really like this in the real world.
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No IRL even the ugliest dealer has a sack chasing GF... def a higher caliber here.
 
I am a female BLer. Funny, I usually assume that the posters are male unless something indicates otherwise like a poster saying 'I'm a female'. One reason I came to BL is because I got tired of being the stupid girl. I foolishly believed such things in my younger days (because I was told them by more 'experienced' users - usually male) as : you can't od on meth (amp) you'll just pass out from 'over stimulation' until your body can catch up with your heart…sounded perfectly logical in my head. Who wants to BELIEVE they can die?!?! Fast forward several years I worked in admissions in an ER, watched a man stroke out from meth and DIE! *gasp* I vowed to learn about what I was doing and not be 'that girl.'
I also feel the other girls on here that get annoyed with dealers/friends thinking that we would rather whore ourselves than pay. If that's your thing cool, not my scene. I like to know I can be respected for my knowledge not just my body.
Glad that us females are finally making a presence in the industry as well as on the 'big old World Wide Web.' It's amazing what happened when the boys realize that we haven't been making pie in the kitchen for the last 50 years!
Last rant, guys who are on here (99% of y'all) thank you for allowing us to be equals, ask questions, get answers and accepting us for fellow harm reductioners (new word?) instead of just the stupid girls on the scene. It really may have saved lives! :end rant:
 
tacybear714 said:
Glad that us females are finally making a presence in the industry as well as on the 'big old World Wide Web.'
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not to mention, imo, chicks make for THE BEST dealers. No drama, always chill, smart, not non-functioning addicts, not as much ripping off... and half of the time they are cute to boot.

I have friends IRL in agreement too on this..
 
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