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What Really Turns You Off?

Jaded personalities are a real turn off.

I'm very attracted to openness and kindness
 
Personality flaws over anything physical. Things like liars, trendy people, people that agree just to agree rather than taking a stand on an opinion no matter how screwed it is, flakes and not having the ability to be open to new or different concepts...
 
thujone said:
- lack of common sense
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I am pretty sure that so-called 'common sense' is highly overrated and rarely the latter.

ebola
 
Anorexic girls really turn me off...

Girls who insist on shaving everything off, and can't stand any hair ever...EVER.

I don't go for girls who expect you to be their protector and someone who stands up for them all the time - if they can't stand up for themselves, then I ain't interested(obviously this only goes to a certain extent haha).

littlePenguin said:
lack of interest in activities I enjoy (no effort to join or take interest)
following 'pop' culture/idolizing celebrities/reading tabloids/giving a general fuck about television

attention seekers
seeking/creating/enjoying drama (save that shit for yo' mamma)

fake tan
fake tits
any plastic surgery that isn't reconstructive
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These + overinflated ego
Objectionable girls
Excessive Piercings - I anna be able to actually touch your FACE.
Girls who demand too much planning or expect too much spontenaity.
Girls (and guys) who are total pissheads - I find it unttractive, although it still draws me (I know it's wrong, but it's slightly oedipal)
Girls who have seriously messy rooms - clothes everywhere EVERYWHERE - just can't stand slobs, a certain amount is OK but there's a fucking limit!
Girls who spend way too much time on facebook.
21. Won't let me indulge fully in her naked body/not physical enough/ no sexual appetite or passion<--- so very much yes, one lady I was seeing I was so attracted o but she wouldn't let me digitally make her cum or go down on her...I found out why later, but if I'm gonna be fucking you, I need access-all-areas-pass!

GenericMind said:
I personally won't date anyone in the business of the making, shipping, or selling of pastries.
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Bwahahaha you so crazy, nukka.
 
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That's because her cupcakes will always come first.

*nomnomnomnom*
 
-The opposite of nearly everything myfinalrest posted.
-Hippies
-Stupid.
-not building enough pylons early on in the game
-thinspiration
-BBWs
-Vanilla sex having-wants kids-wants to get married and have a dog types.
-Poor Arithmetic and calculus. I couldn't give a fuck about spelling and grammar mind you.
-Every single post ever made by "Fawkes"
 
1. People with no confidence or too much of it.
2. Compulsive liars.
3. Manipulative/deceitful people.
4. Bad hygiene/greasy hair.. Anyone who doesn't take proper care of themselves.
5. Untamed pubes.
6. Untamed eyebrows (srsly hate dudes with big bushy brows, ew)
7. Poor sense of humor/too serious.
8. Lack of intellect/education.
9. Bossy/controlling people.
10. Fake people. This applies to personality and appearance.
11. Bad manners.
12. Clingy/disrespectful of personal space
13. Jealousy/trust issues. Especially when it's excessive.
14. Selfishness.
15. Anorexics.
16. People who are boring/repetitive in bed.
17. Opposites. I know they say opposites attract, but that's BS to me
18. People who aren't 'open.'
 
rangrz said:
-The opposite of nearly everything myfinalrest posted.
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So you like cleveland steamers and chicks that wear baseball caps? I definitiely need to find out who your commandant is and link him to bluelight!
-Poor Arithmetic and calculus. I couldn't give a fuck about spelling and grammar mind you.
-Every single post ever made by "Fawkes"
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Math skills...that's the first time I've heard that! I'm more of the spelling and grammar type. I love a woman who is skilled with her words and writing.

Yeah, I really hate Fawkes's phillosophy on everything but I love it when she pops in and has something to say. It's instant drama, just add post!
ebola? said:
I am pretty sure that so-called 'common sense' is highly overrated and rarely the latter.

ebola
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True, if "sense" were "common," the world would be a wonderful place wouldn't it.

Another turn off would be:
Poor quality drama, high quality romantic drama every now and then is good stuff!
Future soccer moms/yuppies
And this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G5ZCfo9RzO8
 
rangrz said:
Poor Arithmetic and calculus. I couldn't give a fuck about spelling and grammar mind you.
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What if they are poor in calculus but know it? What if they can only integrate and find the derivative of basic equations, but need to look a lot of things up?

I'm in this boat. :p

ebola
 
Ugly Feet
resistance to my cunning charm
bad teeth
ignorant attitude/elitist attitude
materialistic
white american girls
 
verso said:
^ I'm surprised that you're turned off by men who don't manscape, rocket. I used to be really, really into manscaping. I still am, but I find that I'm less interested in it during the winter months. But I just don't like bodyhair, really. And when I see a good-looking girl with hairy arms, eek... I go cold, man.
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I am interested in it in all the months. All twelve of 'em. If you want oral sex make it happen. When it is put like that, most will fall in line. I don't get why this would surprise you, that I like my partner to trim their hedges...?

@MyFinalRest - just to clarify, the torture porn genre is not people being tortured in a pornographic way (like having to bang Perez Hilton). The torture porn genre is movies like "Wrong Turn," "Saw," and "Hostel."

So, what IS the problem? :)
 
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Cyc said:
Jaded personalities are a real turn off.

I'm very attracted to openness and kindness
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Oh Gawd I am a cynical jaded BITCH but I LOVE kindness. That is the real on the real. 100% attractive, one of the finest qualities that a human being can possess. BUt this is turn offs, so...UNKINDNESS, particularly when unnecessary.

"Your so jaded
And, baby, I'm afraid of you"
--Aerosmith
 
ebola? said:
What if they are poor in calculus but know it? What if they can only integrate and find the derivative of basic equations, but need to look a lot of things up?

I'm in this boat. :p

ebola
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That's okay, need of reference material is okay, as long they can use the reference material.
@MyFinalRest, I said NEARLY everything, not everything. I don't have a commandant, I'm not in the USMC or USCG. But I'm sure my Officer Commanding would approve of my dislike of Cleavelandsteamers and my not minding of chicks that wear baseball caps. (Our Navy's Naval Combat Dress includes a baseball cap so I'd be showing our hot Navy chicks disrespect if I did not like them)
 
D n A said:
1. People with no confidence or too much of it.
2. Compulsive liars.
3. Manipulative/deceitful people.
4. Bad hygiene/greasy hair.. Anyone who doesn't take proper care of themselves.
5. Untamed pubes.
6. Untamed eyebrows (srsly hate dudes with big bushy brows, ew)
7. Poor sense of humor/too serious.
8. Lack of intellect/education.
9. Bossy/controlling people.
10. Fake people. This applies to personality and appearance.
11. Bad manners.
12. Clingy/disrespectful of personal space
13. Jealousy/trust issues. Especially when it's excessive.
14. Selfishness.
15. Anorexics.
16. People who are boring/repetitive in bed.
17. Opposites. I know they say opposites attract, but that's BS to me
18. People who aren't 'open.'
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Hi :)
 
I am turned off by foul language and women empowerment I like the classy housewife type that is dainty and soft spoken.
 
rocketqueen said:
What is "reference material?" (she scratches her head, looks confused)

lol
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*facepalm* Say for example, you are determining the isotope of a sample by its decay spectra, given the HUGE list of isotopes and decay chains possible, you would be unable to memorize this. So, you have it all in a book/database program etc, and once you observe a photon at 142.6832 KeV, you look that up in your reference, and you will see it is 99mtechnetium That is using reference material, but you still require the basic understanding of spectroscopy of such item.
 
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