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What Really Turns You Off?

verso said:
THERE WE GO! There's my turn-off right there...
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hahah same for me but I am only 22 so am not planning on kids yet, maybe when I am older (late 20's early 30's then I wouldn't mind dating someone with kids)
 
ugly said:
A perm? Sweetheart, why would I look this way on purpose? Furthermore, WHY WOULD I DO THIS TO MYSELF ON PURPOSE?
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haha i have medium length (just past my ear lobe) curly hair and I would kill for straight hair! (i'm a guy btw) but i just make the best of a bad situation i suppose, I really hate it short though, weird how people with curly hair tend to hate it but apparently others love it....
 
1 more, girls who eat shit i.e. junk food all the time, even if they are slim, it's unhealthy and you will prob get fat and thn tick the boxes of 2 of my turn offs...
 
citizen cained said:
haha i have medium length (just past my ear lobe) curly hair and I would kill for straight hair! (i'm a guy btw) but i just make the best of a bad situation i suppose, I really hate it short though, weird how people with curly hair tend to hate it but apparently others love it....
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Once I was wearing a long "hippy" style dress and a little boy behind me in the grocery store asked me if I was a princess. I thought to myself, if you only knew child, I'm the devil."

But people have preconceived notions of what curly hair, esp curly red hair, represents.
 
^ I'm surprised that you're turned off by men who don't manscape, rocket. I used to be really, really into manscaping. I still am, but I find that I'm less interested in it during the winter months. But I just don't like bodyhair, really. And when I see a good-looking girl with hairy arms, eek... I go cold, man.
 
-too much body hair
-if I see you digging for gold or scratching your nuts
-cracking your neck
 
^how much body hair is too much? And, I don't crack my neck in front of other people cause it looks weird, but sometimes you just got to do it.

If your crack or nuts itches often though, that means there is a problem, and you should avoid those people.

1. Girls who don't dress at least a little modestly, no I don't want to see your plumber's crack!
2. Pretty much most college girls.
3. Girls who dress in lots of hot pink colored stuff i,e. "Barbie's" wardrobe and home decor.
4. Girls who keep talking about "confidence in men" as if they had any clue as to what it means.
5. Girls who try to stay busy all the time. Usually this "business" is highly exaggerated anyway.
6. Girls who keep talking about things they did in the past with other dudes, especially sexual things.
7. Girls who wear pajamas in public.
 
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verso said:
THERE WE GO! There's my turn-off right there...
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*shrugs* Well, your opinion certainly doesn't concern me since I have a man who enjoys being with me and said three year old. 8)

EDIT: Before I had my son, I don't know if I would have been able to date someone with a kid or kids. Definitely makes things more complicated. However, since becoming a mother I have had no problems with any of the men I have dated not wanting to date me because of that fact. If anything, a kid in the picture somehow makes me more attractive to them.
 
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ugly said:
A perm? Sweetheart, why would I look this way on purpose? Furthermore, WHY WOULD I DO THIS TO MYSELF ON PURPOSE?
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Haha, sorry, I too get accused of having perm done, even from my uncles and aunts! Actually yours looks kinda like perm job to me (in a good way). :)
 
I dont like men who think they are porn stars either. Sex should be sponateous and like an act of worship.

I♫♫I wanna be adored.

Even my not naturally beautiful feet
 
thujone said:
WHAT?!
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I'm a Surgeon. My intended point was that I am comfortable with the human anatomy and that there exists things a HELL of a lot more DO NOT WANT than my cute little toes.Like being covered in HIV+ blood, and hell of a lot less likely to be enjoyable than a few rattan strokes, like having having a sternotomy done. Basically, I was trying to say things considered otherwise 'fine' go far beyond kink, and telling the "ew feet ew anal" group to bloody grow up and take a chance on something they may really enjoy and which is of minimal risk.

thujone said:
...are YOU doing this weekend? ;)
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Most likely hydromorphone from the 50mg/ml vial and having sex with Rangrz.
 
YellowPolkaDotHalo said:
I dont like men who think they are porn stars either. Sex should be sponateous and like an act of worship.

I♫♫I wanna be adored.

Even my not naturally beautiful feet
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My feet aren't great but they look a million times better after I've had a pedicure, especially if I get a french manicure look, you know, with white tips, and wear my toe rings. Seriously. I have always hated my short toes and I had damn sure never had a compliment on them until the first time I got a french finish pedicure. I was so surprised when someone told me I had nice feet that I had to say "Pardon?" because I thought I had misheard the speaker!
 
I think I put my weight slightly more on one foot. The other ankle has metal in it so I think my posture is trying to protect it. But its making the heel skin really rough and difficult to get rid of.

Toe rings ugly.. youre such a hippy :D
 
True. Hippie I was born, and hippie I will die. (Yes that's my arm, and that's my only tattoo.)
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