Sorry Skinny, but I don't feel the need to apologize about anything I stated in my previous post. I don't think anything I said
wasn't indicative of the personality you've exhibited since you joined bluelight. You DO have a lot of attitude; people WILL treat you like shit around here with that attitude; pinger IS an intelligent, helpful, caring individual.
What exactly do you think I should apologize about?
Skinny, you have this obsessive need to make everybody conform to your way of thought. That in and of itself isn't that unusual, most people have the same tendency. However you've determined that anyone with a differing opinion who questions you should apologize for doing so AND submit to your "intellectual dominance." Sorry bud, that'll never happen on this end because you've come across a larger ego than your own...and frankly, I've got more to back it up. Of course I'm only basing this on our online communication, but what else can I base it on?
I wouldn't mind EXCEPT EVERY GAY person I've ever met was a rude asshole.
I really doubt that. I've met a lot of people who I didn't know were gay until after I got to know them. Perhaps you were only aware of flamboyant/flaming homosexuals. I'd assume that you've met gay men without ever knowing it, and they were just as likely to be pleasant as rude.
It's estimated that 10% of the population is gay (just to make sure you understand, that's 1 out of every 10 people)...but there are really no other statistics about them. They are not rude as a rule...neither are they flaming as a rule. They are just like you and me and everybody else in society, except they happen to be attracted to the same sex.
If you have met rude homosexuals, that means nothing...it's hardly indicative of the whole gay population. In fact, I've met many gay individuals who were as polite and respectful as anyone else I've met. I've also met some rude ones as well, but I'm enlightened enough to realize that they are not the representatives of all gay people. Gay people on the whole aren't rude or pleasant...they are just people.
For instance some fag was dancing around me at a club trying to hit on me. That was very rude considering he didn't even know if I was gay or not.
Just as a parallel, have you EVER hit on a girl...even a little bit? I'm not talking about just giving them a line and hanging all over them to the point of annoyance (although that would apply as well), I'm referring to talking to them with the intent/hope of future dating. Of course you have. That being a given, did you ask them if they were straight or gay first? If not, then according to your statement, you were being rude.
Besides, you've been pretty fucking rude several times on this board already, so being rude is hardly something you can hold against anybody else.
I'm sure he could tell that I was straight too. I don't look gay at all.
Sorry me boyo..."gaydar" is a joke...not a hard and fast rule.
Also my mom had a gay friend and he kept saying, Oh god! Your song is sooo cute!
I'll assume "song" was supposed to be "son." First of all, I don't look the least but gay...I look like a grunge band reject, but I've been hit on by gay men. I've even known gay men say to my brother, "Mmm, who's THAT?" But I don't take it poorly. On the contrary, I view it as a compliment. Why can't you? They are no more likely to rape you than the average male rapes women, so where's the fear coming from? And yes, I'm implying you fear your own sexuality.
My point is that I am NOT prejudice against gay people at all but I have had ALL BAD experiences with them so I would rather not be around them UNLESS I knew that they weren't going to do anything stupid.
Yes, Skinny...you
are prejudiced against openly gay people. That doesn't mean you are going to kick their asses or kill them,
it means you have pre-conceived notions about them. That is what prejudice is. If you don't believe me, here's the definition:
1. a preformed opinion, usually an unfavorable one, based on insufficient knowledge, irrational feelings, or inaccurate stereotypes
2. the holding of opinions that are formed beforehand on the basis of insufficient knowledge
Look it up if you don't believe me.
I mean a lot of gay people are pretty damn funny and I have to give them that so I wouldn't mind being around them if it wasn't for that stupid shit that a lot of them do.
Then why do you hang out with people at all? Everybody I know does stupid shit, but you can't hold an entire group of people accountable for the actions of a few. Well, I guess you could, but you couldn't call yourself open-minded if you did.
But I can see most of these messages defend gay people and that's because all thse people are probably on beans and are gay themselves. You're not real like that.
Jesus Christ, you have the deductive reasoning of a 5 year old. Just how old are you?
I've been taking ecstasy once a month for over 5 years, but I don't consider myself gay; I've been heterosexual for as long as I can remember. I'm involved in a 4.5 year relationship with a woman...and I've never been the slightest bit attracted to a man unless he looked just like a woman.
No I'm not gay...what I am is tolerant, and fully confident in my sexuality; that is why I'm not offended by homosexuals hitting on me. What's your excuse? I really doubt it's only because you find it rude...
Ecstasy makes you fake and turns you gay. Luckily I was so staright to begin with that it never did that to me.
My god, I never realized just how limited your scope of thought was until this post. It really makes me think I'm wasting my time trying to talk to you at all.
Ecstasy does not make you fake...it makes people more outgoing, so you can witness them -and- their flaws to a greater extent. In otherwords, if you are fake, E will accentuate it.
I personally think I am a very "real" person, and I've done more E than most of the people who post on this board. I think for myself, I'm tolerant of other people and their lifestyles, and I don't put up a front in order to convince people I'm something that I'm not. I have no need to prove to other people just how "hardcore" I am...I'm just me, take it or leave it...but I don't flaunt it in order to get people to notice me. And again, that's directed at you.
If you agree with Pinger still, then it's either one of these two things...
1. Most gay people are prejudice against straight people, and that's another reason I wont like most of them.(including you and pinger)
Wow, you're stupid AND you've got shitty perception. What exactly DO you have going for you? Oh yeah...you're cute enough for homosexuals to hit on you....
Just because somebody defends homosexuality doesn't mean that they are homosexual...try to get that through your narrow little brain, moron.
2. OR you're both just not too smart and I'll forgive you anyway. It's not your fault that you can't understand simple english. Maybe you need to go back to school? Or maybe you should start hanging out with more intelegent people. Because what I said wasn't hard to understand.
You're right, Skinny...it's not that hard to understand. After all, it reads on a 3rd grade level and the concepts are transparent and immature.
If this -wasn't- a pubescent attempt at an insult, and you truly believe I'm stupid, then I can't even conceive of how utterly moronic you really are...it literally boggles the mind.
So if you can't understand, then please get smarter, because it will help your life a lot and also maybe i can sign some message boards without getting bitched out.
Heh heh...I pity you Skinny. Actually, I shouldn't even pity you...the retarded and mentally inept never understand just how ridiculous they are. You truly are the living enbodiment of "ignorance is bliss."
Well Skinny...you've hardly impressed me thus far with your stay on bluelight. However, you do amuse me with your pathetic attempts at questioning my mental capacity, while championing your own intellect and debating skills. Have you ever heard this little phrase? "Better to be silent and thought an idiot, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt."
Think about that for a little while.
Respond if you must (and I'm certain you will), but I've wasted far too much of my time acknowledging your presence. Anything else you say will fall upon deaf ears. I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt, but you've proven to be a wormy little shit dangling from the ass of existence.
Good luck with your life, Skinny; you, more than anybody else I've ever met, are gonna need it.
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"...I guess it was the beatings [that] made me wise..."
