I'll cut your post short here because this is where the logic severely deteriorates.
If I require real penises, then that by virtue excludes trans men.
I am not excluding them BECAUSE they are trans but BECAUSE they don't have a real dick.
Honestly, I give up. You are so delusional that there is no getting through to you. You think that because someone doesn't want to bang you for not having a real dick that they hate you. There's nothing I can do with that level of trauma-informed entitlement. Go see a therapist and stop taking out your shit on me. You're no different than straight women who feel entitled to try and convert gay men.
And no... I don't think that I'm god's gift and that everyone wants to bang me. But I have been approached by trans men before and I have to say no for the reasons I already explained.
The fact that you don't get something super basic as it has already been explained to you 10 times now, just shows you are mentally ill.
Call me transphobic all you want, I couldn't care less. Being insulted by a delusional, mentally ill person who won't unpack their own trauma means absolutely nothing to me. I personally think you are creepy AF and I would not want to be around you even AS A FRIEND let alone somebody who thinks they are en par to a natal man with a real dick and should be treated as such, especially by trying to gaslight people over their sexual preferences. I won't internalize YOUR guilt about being trans. I am happy the way I am and I love men with real dicks. That's NEVER going to change no matter what you call me.
Ugh, you still don't understand what I'm trying to say big brain.
I don't care if you only want to fuck a guy with a real penis. I was pointing out how much you shifted the goalposts from your original position.
First the issue was that you aren't attracted to vagina, which was made crystal clear with you headsmashing the caps lock button.
Then, the issue was that you wanted penis. Not real penis, just penis.
Then, the issue is that you wanted a natal man.
Next, it was that they must have a real penis.
You came into the discussion professing that your only issue with sleeping with trans men was that they have a vagina, which clearly isn't the case.
The fact that you think I think I'm equal to a natal man is fucking hilarious. I have literally written the words 'i accept I will never be a biological man' and somehow you're like 'he's delusional and thinks he's the same as us' I'm actually fairly certain you lack reading comprehension skills at this juncture. I explained in detail that the correct label for my biological sex is 'surgically transgendered female to male transsexual' does that SOUND like I actually believe I am the same as an assigned male person? Good fucking grief. It is like speaking to a child.
The issue is, you can't have your cake and eat it to. Don't be attracted to trans people, whatever don't care. There's other people in the world.
But don't try to say you're not a transphobe when you say shit like 'trans men are part women' like man don't even bother, we actually don't want your support, we'd rather have people on our side who don't misgender us because they're so focussed on the horrible thought that they might even be attracted to a trans person.
You say you've had trans me approach you and you've declined, well that still goes to my other point of wondering where you managed to even meet the trans friends you've got considering you won't fuck any of them, you view them still as their assigned gender, and you hate their political position. Sounds like a firm base for a friendship. The best transphobes always have their token trans friend/s.
I don't feel guilty about being trans at all, I feel neutral about it. It can't be changed, and to be frank I got it pretty good all things considered. I actually am pretty happy being trans much of the time, until I end up in these types of discussions really. You can lay everything on me being delusional, mentally ill and traumatised but the reality is I actually don't get along that well with most of my community and don't share the same views as many of them. Many trans people think it's transohobic to have a genital preference, I don't. Many think that everyone should be okay with fucking them, I don't. I even support the rules in place with sports regarding trans women playing in high level competition where they need to have their hormones monitored and show lower levels and wait out a period of non competing.
But excluding trans people because we are trans, and it is that, as much as you say it's because we don't have a real penis, the reason we don't is directly a result of us being trans and therefore is that, is transphobic.
And guess what, you STILL don't have to fuck anyone because it's such a commonly held belief, even though massive amounts of people also don't care at all. I mean how would you explain that?
If a good percentage of the population don't mind fucking a trans person but you do, and importantly some of those people are gay men who would fuck a trans man but not a cis woman, what other way of describing the reality of that is that those people are not transphobic and you are.
Fuck me, I'm trans and I would love to be biologically male but I can freely and without being upset say I know it'll never happen, yet it's like pulling goddamn teeth to get transphobes to just admit they are.