I have a couple things to say, you need to read the longer post.
I don't really need to because it all boils down to what it said below.
You said, you will only sleep with a biological, XY male. That means you exclude trans men. That makes you transphobic. So what you have trans male friends, no one is talking about that. You would never consider a trans male as a sexual or romantic partner. You exclude us based on our trans status, end of story.
I sleep with men that have real dicks. That, by virtue, must be XY men. What part of that are you not understanding?
I exclude you based on the fact that you don't have a dick.
Sorry that you are butt hurt about it but that doesn't make me transphobic. It means I have sexual preferences.
Your line of reasoning would be no different than straight women saying they feel discriminated against because I won't date them.
You aren't entitled to denigrate men because they won't sleep with you. You are delusional.
Oh my god if you're going to accuse me of thinking things go back to my big post, put that ginormous huge intelligent brain of yours to work and *actually read* it is not that hard. Maybe someone can read it out loud to you. I do not think me and cis man are the same and I literally have never said that. God. Damn. It's like I'm talking to someone whose form of argument is to just make up statements the other person didn't say to try and make them look unreasonable. It's definitely *a* strategy but I'm dubious it's a good one. That is around the fifth time you've done that. I had to correct a few in the bigger post too.
You acknowledge that you and cis men are not the same yet you call me transphobic because my sexuality is governed by that
very difference. You are delusional.
Tbh if you don't go and just read the longer post that already covered everything you just typed out in detail even you could understand then we can keep going, because a debate where you go 'WHY DO YOU THINK THIS' and I go 'i never said I think that, please provide a quote' and you never do is lame. Super lame.
All of your posts exhibit the same cognitive dissonance. I could pick any post as an example. Reading a longer version makes no difference.
You acknowledge that you are not the same as a cis man yet you call me transphobic for pointing out that very difference.
Man I came here because I thought this would be a challenge but it's barely even an exercise in disagreement. You literally make stuff up to get mad about, why? Be mad about actual things.
This line doesn't even make sense. I am directly responding to things you have said. I'm not sitting here typing to myself.
Maybe the trans revolution is doomed to fail. I wouldn't know, I haven't been paying attention to that. It isn't really my thing, I've told you I'm not progressive here I'm far too cynical for that, I'm a realist. But it does suit your attempt at an argument by portraying me as some kind of radical. Swing and a miss buddy. I mean, based on your repeated firm statements of being an ally you'll probably be at the revolution before me! Let me know how it goes. I look forward to hearing about it. (But really I'm being 100% honest here the most I've been to is a Pride March lmao).
Well, you use the same flawed reasoning as radical leftists to condemn people who won't have their sexuality forcibly conformed in order to make you feel better about yourself. Telling a gay man that he's transphobic because he only likes to sleep with men who have real penises is the very definition of HOMOPHOBIC. You want the world to bend to your delusional reality and I refuse to do that.
Gender dysphoria is a psychiatric condition and it's very clear why. You deserve dignity, respect and people who will give you the kinds of relationships you want, but this coercive, contrived way of of making anyone who won't sexually consider you look like a bigot is, IMO, a sign of mental illness. I'm not buying into it. I live in reality and you clearly live in some altered version of it. I'm glad you can find men of all ilks to bang you. Just because they will doesn't mean I am transphobic because I will not. You need to get that through your thick skull.
It doesn't matter how much I explain to you that I will only be with men who have real dicks, you see it as hateful. Oh well. That's your problem. Trans men are men but they are not the kind of men I will have sexual relations with. Yes, I exclude them all, on the basis that they don't have dicks, which is a product of them being XX. I don't have sex with XX humans. God, why does it have to be explained to this level? Because you are delusional, that's why. If you had a real dick I might consider you, but you don't. C'est la vie. Don't blame me, blame God, or nature, or whomever/whatever made things the way they are.
TL/DR!