Me neither. Even libertarianism is less odious and self-centered than anarcho-capitalism.
Oh, and verso tooled this thread on pg1 proving that funny + smart > badboylolfail.
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Me neither. Even libertarianism is less odious and self-centered than anarcho-capitalism.
Oh, and verso tooled this thread on pg1 proving that funny + smart > badboylolfail.
StrutterGear
Bluelight Crew
Ahh.... From the UK?
I guess it might be a lot different there than America. There is a pun in America that keeps passing down from previous generations about the idealism of the British being "too polite"
I'm not sure where it came from.
But nonetheless, I will show you what a UK badboy looks like from an American point of view.
You can immediately notice their character traits based on how they present themselves.
In the UK, if you're talking about girls liking "bad boys" it essentially means they like guys who will treat em mean to keep em keen. The type who cheats, treats her like shit, but is considered a "hard man" which turns em on. Massive fail on females part, why would you want somebody to treat you like shit? Pitiful if you ask me.
llama112
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I really don't understand all the stereotypes. It isn't one or another. You can be manly, confident, able to look after yourself, etc. without being a "bad boy". When I think about what I look for in a guy, I want someone who can look after himself, who is confident, who is able to protect me, that kinda thing ... but also someone who is there for me, who can communicate with me, who enjoys spending time with me, etc. I don't want someone who is always getting in trouble. If I was dating someone who got in trouble, like if he went to jail, well that is a big problem for me! I am independent but still, having that one person who is supposed to always be there for you, well having him in jail, that isn't good!
Every girl looks for different traits in a guy. Some look for badboys, some look for "good" guys, and some look for in between.
Every girl looks for different traits in a guy. Some look for badboys, some look for "good" guys, and some look for in between.
CoffeeDrinker
Bluelighter
I ammmm an anarchist... and whatknot....merry christmas all you doomed lovers out there. Just because the guys might be right in saying that the bad boy is bad for the chick doesn't mean that they don't have an agenda involved...lol
I keep watching all the cute girls left here my age do this. It's fucking obnoxious. Girls, stop falling for this crap. He might be hot or cute or whatever, but do you think he's going to buy groceries? Getting laid is as easy as you remember it being...go out, point at victim, use, release. Nothings changed in a million years.
In other words RAISE your standards....THIS is why even a hot good guy has a shot in hell with a super hot girl....
In other words RAISE your standards....THIS is why even a hot good guy has a shot in hell with a super hot girl....
CoffeeDrinker
Bluelighter
It'll be alright man. Just find a girl whose aim is a little skewed and tends to miss a lot and show her a good time.
StrutterGear
Bluelight Crew
Once they hit maturity (20's onwards) they'll begin to realise, don't worry.
IF directed toward me...HILARIOUS....if directed toward someone else.....even more hilarious
Girls in their 30's haven't figured this shit out man...not saying they're not out there, just saying I haven't bumped into one yet and I've been ALL OVER the US.
CoffeeDrinker
Bluelighter
It's cause girls are mad whimsical. That's the bottom and short of it I think. I wish I was half as full of whimsy, but what can you do? Just show them a good time and try not to get yourself killed I guess.
eh we're all crazy, just as to what level is acceptable
Tech Kinetics
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What?!? Are you kidding me?
If women raised their standards any higher they would be lesbians.
You know the reason why the good guy/bad guy persona exists is because of the standards set in place by society.
It wasn't always like this ya know!
The flaws in judgement are coming from mothers giving their sons bad dating advice, as well as internet advice given online that completely contradicts what females really want.
Haven't you noticed how the dating topics on this board seem peculiarly similar?
It's always about the guy walking on eggshells in the relationship and coming off too needy.
MyFinalRest
Bluelighter
I am the badboy of anti-reductionist science and OP couldn't handle me!
You say if they raise their standards any higher they'd lesbians? ARE YOU SERIOUS? If you're a male you know damn good and well that's not true. I would disagree with you COMPLETELY. If these girls can watch this garbage Jersey Shore shit, mock it, and then say the guys are hot...GIRLS: YOUR DOIN IT WRONG....PERIOD.
Raise your standards NOT YOUR SKIRTS....after all the reality checks women want men to have....it's about time for them to open their eyes too. Stop being ho's.
I see you have some post counts and joined in 01 (can't recover my former Pillyo account from anout the same year, so I had to start over).....which means you probably have some age and experience. I'm simply surprised you said this. EVERYONE is entitled to their opinion and I respect yours.
I see the only reason a good/bad boy exists is because someone is willing (motivated by whatever or not) to go against the norms of society and be DIFFERENT (to what extreme varies). It's exciting to girls to date someone like that. I can see it...but damned if they don't know it's destined for a short finish, yet do it anyway.
artic
Bluelighter
Ha. Really, not at all. I've dated girly-girls before. They are just so fucking useless. All they do is get you into trouble and never have your back. Bad girls get me into trouble too, but at least they will throw a punch or two. Plus, I like rough sex and being dominated. Girly-girls have a tendency to lie there like a dead fish, IME. You aren't the first girl to tell me that I'm looking for a "buddy with tits", but it just isn't true. Real femininity is about more than being a nurturer. I wouldn't trust a woman with my children who wouldn't be willing to kill anyone who threatened their safety. Not to say nurturing isn't important, but a woman needs to be in touch with both sides before I will pay any attention to her. I ain't always going to be there to protect her, and she ain't always going to be there to pat me on the head and tell me everything is okay. Life is more complex than playing some bullshit role like that. When shit goes down I'll take a woman who is handy with the chrome over a hug any day.
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Ha. Really, not at all. I've dated girly-girls before. They are just so fucking useless. All they do is get you into trouble and never have your back. Bad girls get me into trouble too, but at least they will throw a punch or two. Plus, I like rough sex and being dominated. Girly-girls have a tendency to lie there like a dead fish, IME. You aren't the first girl to tell me that I'm looking for a "buddy with tits", but it just isn't true. Real femininity is about more than being a nurturer. I wouldn't trust a woman with my children who wouldn't be willing to kill anyone who threatened their safety. Not to say nurturing isn't important, but a woman needs to be in touch with both sides before I will pay any attention to her. I ain't always going to be there to protect her, and she ain't always going to be there to pat me on the head and tell me everything is okay. Life is more complex than playing some bullshit role like that. When shit goes down I'll take a woman who is handy with the chrome over a hug any day.
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BOLDED: damn right sir. that's what YOUR GIRL is SUPPOSED to do for you. She MUST be down to ride, no matter what.
man...this thread is fucking ridiculous.
could we possibly fit any more lame stereotypes, cliches or traditional gender roles into one discussion?
i've got nothing against heteronormative lifestyles (some of my best friends are squares) but the whole "bad boy" thing is surely the attractiveness of risk-taking embodying some people's notions of masculinity. yes?
all this "girls are this" "boys are this" claptrap makes me want to vomit. like getting your understanding of the world from glossy magazines or the church or something. oh...right.
i'm a misanthrope, does that count as a "bad boy"?
could we possibly fit any more lame stereotypes, cliches or traditional gender roles into one discussion?
i've got nothing against heteronormative lifestyles (some of my best friends are squares) but the whole "bad boy" thing is surely the attractiveness of risk-taking embodying some people's notions of masculinity. yes?
all this "girls are this" "boys are this" claptrap makes me want to vomit. like getting your understanding of the world from glossy magazines or the church or something. oh...right.
i'm a misanthrope, does that count as a "bad boy"?
artic
Bluelighter
^^Isn't it great? And yes sir, I do believe being a misanthropist qualifies you as a "bad boy", but not necessarily true B.M.F. material. Doesn't disqualify you either. Same to mendicants I guess...
"Ima quit this bullshit and travel the world helping people like a fucking super-bum, or some such bullshit. I'm still gonna need this Bad Motherfucker wallet, though." - Probably a quote from Pulp Fiction
"Ima quit this bullshit and travel the world helping people like a fucking super-bum, or some such bullshit. I'm still gonna need this Bad Motherfucker wallet, though." - Probably a quote from Pulp Fiction
You are just going with an extreme of a genetic disposition....a reproductive one at that.
Bad boys are for bedding--on the side--and not for making meaningful relationships that can stand the test of time.
I think you'll grow out of it, if you have the insight enough to see past your hardwired inclinations.
Bad boys are for bedding--on the side--and not for making meaningful relationships that can stand the test of time.
I think you'll grow out of it, if you have the insight enough to see past your hardwired inclinations.
MyFinalRest
Bluelighter
^Whoa...remember, I am the bad boy of anti-reductionist science, and this kind of lame "reductionist" genetic theorizing that excuses irresponsible behavior in modern society would get Noodle into some trouble with my "bad" self in RL.
...must be GENETIC!!! J/K LOL! Hell no, this poster has been QFT'd cause all (really just most) of you in this forum are so full of shit that it is almost hilarious, but like I said before...I don't find tragedy amusing!
BL SL&R is like a glossy shit mag like Cosmo or Maxim and BL CEP is like an issue of Newsweek magazine, but I'm going to change all of that...hopefully...no, I don't really have any hope for it.
...must be GENETIC!!! J/K LOL! Hell no, this poster has been QFT'd cause all (really just most) of you in this forum are so full of shit that it is almost hilarious, but like I said before...I don't find tragedy amusing!
BL SL&R is like a glossy shit mag like Cosmo or Maxim and BL CEP is like an issue of Newsweek magazine, but I'm going to change all of that...hopefully...no, I don't really have any hope for it.
StrutterGear
Bluelight Crew
As I said the "UK" definition of a bad boy is different, and very real. Since I can go off my own experience in the matter I'll stand by what I said, and I don't read Cosmo or Maxim 8)