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Bluelighter
*disclaimer* Not being homophobic as such. I'm not judging filthy, raunchy sex as being bad/immoral/whatever. IDGAF what someone does in bed as long as it's consensual and not harming anyone. I know not all gay men in into filthy, depraved sex. But in my observation, a lot more of them are than are not, and a lot of more of them are than hetero people, lesbians or bisexual females (bisexual men for the purposes of this thread are going under gay men, you'll understand why when you read my post) So please don't strawman this thread as being a homophobic gay bashing fest. (I'm not, I'm not judging anyone for it) or whatever.
Like seriously, I've always wondered this, and Ms.G agreed with me and wondered it too.
Like I've been to bath houses (mainly for the lulz, also to find my friend tina back when I was really into her
), and been in private with gay guys who where banging out, and watched gay porn..and like what the fuck! Legitimately every time I've seen it IRL, it's been pretty depraved. Bare backing strangers, jizzing up their asshole, sucking the jizz and lube out of their asshole and spitting it on their face. Ass to mouth, gagging them on the cock freshly out of their asshole and then blasting piss down their throats, rim jobs on a dude who was just working labor for 12 hours and did not shower let, laying on a dirty men's room floor, in the puddle of urine and water, sucking a strangers ballsack. Ridiculous dirty talk "OH YEAH FUCK MY SHIT HOLE STRETCH IT OUT BIG AND GAPE IT AND GAG THIS LITTLE FAG ON YOUR BIG SHIT COVERED COCK! Unnnhhh! AAAH!"
Gay porn...again, same shit. It's usually places an emphasis on the "dirty" aspects things. TBH so does a lot of hetero porn, however there exists a lot more hetero and girl-on-girl porn that places an emphasis on either affection and cuteness or just enthusiastic people having fun and getting off, vs emphasis on degradation, or grossness, or shit like 7 people's jism dripping out of a gaping asshole while they blast piss down the guy's throat. TL;DR..most gay porn appears to be like Max Hardcore but with men on men, whereas that is only subset of hetero and girl/girl porn.
I have this "Str8" friend (hence, why I'm placing bi guys under gay, more to follow) who likes to hook with guys. So, I've been at his place a few times when he's had guys over and they hooked up. As per above, every time, it was hours of animal like grunting and absurd dirty talk. Then like a few times after the dude left, I had to go get him up, and I'd find him passed out on the floor, condoms and jizz everywhere, depraved porno playing on a laptop, etc.
Ditto, Ms.G had a friend who did the same..."Str8" but putting up ads on Craigslist m4m casual encounters like " slut Bottom needs a BBC to ream his tight asshole out and make him his bitch. PNP++"
So, for the lulz, we decided to check craigslist m4m ads, and read them and compare how raunchy and depraved they are compared to m4w w4m and w4w.
The results of experiment confirmed our hypothesis that gay men really are far more filthy and dirty with sex than any other group. We also confirmed the "bi" aspect, as so many of the ads mention they are either "bi" or that they are "str8" or looking for "str8" guys.
Combined with our prior observations of IRL gay sex, which for me is quite a lot, and our observation of the nature of gay porn and the extreme difficulty of finding any that in anyway shows a hint of affection, we've concluded that as a population, gay men are far more likely to be inclined to this kind of sex than other groups. We're more or less convinced that lesbians have sex so infrequently as to make any analysis of it statistically insignificant and meaningless, so we used bisexual girls as a model for girl/girl homosex. Based on our large amount of experience with it- personally and via other people and media such (amateur) porn, erotic fiction and web forums where people post about their sexual stuff (like SLR), that girl on girl homosex is much less likely to be anywhere near as raunchy or depraved. We've also grouped heterosex as being approximately in the middle. It's not just the acts themselves we're gauging, it's also how they're done. I.e. it's not per se raunchy to rim someone, and it can be the total opposite and be really cute and romantic if done one way (think, like lots of touch and caressing and not yelling stuff out "uunh! clean my filthy asshole with your tongue!" to a stranger you just met up with in a men's room of a 24 hour donut shop via a CL ad), but the general trend we've observed is that gay guys aim to maximize the depravity of any given act.
So, does anyone have insight into this phenomena? Why do gay guys seemingly want to have the dirtiest, hardest, most degrading and depraved sexual encounters possible? While personally, I find this kind of sex really off-putting and do not want, I am not judging anyone for liking it, I am just curious as to why it seems to be such a big thing in the gay male population.
Like seriously, I've always wondered this, and Ms.G agreed with me and wondered it too.
Like I've been to bath houses (mainly for the lulz, also to find my friend tina back when I was really into her

Gay porn...again, same shit. It's usually places an emphasis on the "dirty" aspects things. TBH so does a lot of hetero porn, however there exists a lot more hetero and girl-on-girl porn that places an emphasis on either affection and cuteness or just enthusiastic people having fun and getting off, vs emphasis on degradation, or grossness, or shit like 7 people's jism dripping out of a gaping asshole while they blast piss down the guy's throat. TL;DR..most gay porn appears to be like Max Hardcore but with men on men, whereas that is only subset of hetero and girl/girl porn.
I have this "Str8" friend (hence, why I'm placing bi guys under gay, more to follow) who likes to hook with guys. So, I've been at his place a few times when he's had guys over and they hooked up. As per above, every time, it was hours of animal like grunting and absurd dirty talk. Then like a few times after the dude left, I had to go get him up, and I'd find him passed out on the floor, condoms and jizz everywhere, depraved porno playing on a laptop, etc.
Ditto, Ms.G had a friend who did the same..."Str8" but putting up ads on Craigslist m4m casual encounters like " slut Bottom needs a BBC to ream his tight asshole out and make him his bitch. PNP++"
So, for the lulz, we decided to check craigslist m4m ads, and read them and compare how raunchy and depraved they are compared to m4w w4m and w4w.
The results of experiment confirmed our hypothesis that gay men really are far more filthy and dirty with sex than any other group. We also confirmed the "bi" aspect, as so many of the ads mention they are either "bi" or that they are "str8" or looking for "str8" guys.
Combined with our prior observations of IRL gay sex, which for me is quite a lot, and our observation of the nature of gay porn and the extreme difficulty of finding any that in anyway shows a hint of affection, we've concluded that as a population, gay men are far more likely to be inclined to this kind of sex than other groups. We're more or less convinced that lesbians have sex so infrequently as to make any analysis of it statistically insignificant and meaningless, so we used bisexual girls as a model for girl/girl homosex. Based on our large amount of experience with it- personally and via other people and media such (amateur) porn, erotic fiction and web forums where people post about their sexual stuff (like SLR), that girl on girl homosex is much less likely to be anywhere near as raunchy or depraved. We've also grouped heterosex as being approximately in the middle. It's not just the acts themselves we're gauging, it's also how they're done. I.e. it's not per se raunchy to rim someone, and it can be the total opposite and be really cute and romantic if done one way (think, like lots of touch and caressing and not yelling stuff out "uunh! clean my filthy asshole with your tongue!" to a stranger you just met up with in a men's room of a 24 hour donut shop via a CL ad), but the general trend we've observed is that gay guys aim to maximize the depravity of any given act.
So, does anyone have insight into this phenomena? Why do gay guys seemingly want to have the dirtiest, hardest, most degrading and depraved sexual encounters possible? While personally, I find this kind of sex really off-putting and do not want, I am not judging anyone for liking it, I am just curious as to why it seems to be such a big thing in the gay male population.
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