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why do men prefer whores/sluts over a good girl with less experience?

JessFR said:
If you ask me men who judge women for being sluts aren't worthy of even a fraction of the respect even the sluttiest woman on earth deserves.

Id actually say it shows far lower self respect that any woman would give such a man the time of day. I certainly wouldn't. :p
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Hi Jess hope your doing well sister, haven’t been on here awhile.<3
 
LordOfThisWorld said:
Hi Jess hope your doing well sister, haven’t been on here awhile.<3
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Eh, I'm OK I suppose. Been increasingly more depressed lately and I fear it's been reflected in my having less and less patience here on bluelight.

How's you? :p
 
PaintTheTown said:
You have to be promiscuous to enjoy anal sex and deep throat? Sounds like the thought process of age related or emotional immaturity.
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So because somebody enjoys something different to you they're immature?

In addition to that being an appallingly bad philosophy by which to live one's life, you're also starting with a fallacy. What makes you think somebody would have to be promiscuous to enjoy anal sex or deep throat?

Rather immature to assume that someone's sexual preferences are necessarily linked to their level of promiscuity dont you think?
 
What constitutes a 'whore' or a 'slut'?
Someone who enjoys sex and choose not to deprive themselves of a simple, carnal pleasure?
Who's not ashamed of satisfying that specific desire?

It's weird how most people have such a skewed view on two naked people (or more; whatever floats your boat). And that's certainly not restricted to religious individuals;
most men dick-swings about their conquests as if it's an achivement to get laid and most women seem to shame each other behind each others back.
Or even worse; they've gotten so fucked between the ears by the dogmas of ancient times and slut-shame themselves.
As if they've committed some kind of sin. As if sex is something sacred or holy. As if scratching that itch is somehow holier than taking a shit when you need to.
If you're hungry, you eat. If you need to talk to someone, you talk. If you need to fuck, you fuck.

Sluts and Madonnas are archaic terms that needs to be squandered and stomped to dust.

Also, your dick of a husband embodies the worst traits in people, whether they've got dicks or cunts. Fuck him.
Not literally; for that, you should fuck the mailman and let your husband know about it -
after that, fuck him.
 
THECATINTHEHAT said:
So because somebody enjoys something different to you they're immature?

In addition to that being an appallingly bad philosophy by which to live one's life, you're also starting with a fallacy. What makes you think somebody would have to be promiscuous to enjoy anal sex or deep throat?

Rather immature to assume that someone's sexual preferences are necessarily linked to their level of promiscuity dont you think?
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How did you get that from my post? At no time did I criticize what you enjoy or not. I clearly said assuming someone is a slut because they enjoy anal and oral is immature. I stand by that and it is. You just repeated exactly what I posted. Over the top at that. Maybe put down your anger and pick up your comprehension before you respond.
 
JessFR said:
If you ask me men who judge women for being sluts aren't worthy of even a fraction of the respect even the sluttiest woman on earth deserves.

Id actually say it shows far lower self respect that any woman would give such a man the time of day. I certainly wouldn't. :p
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I don't get it anyways. We're all silly little monkeys that lost some hair and gained some vocabulary. We're animals, ofc we love to fuck. It's instinct in us.
 
JessFR said:
Eh, I'm OK I suppose. Been increasingly more depressed lately and I fear it's been reflected in my having less and less patience here on bluelight.

How's you? :p
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I’m doing okay Jess, like you I’m more depressed and anxious than ever.
 
Maybe you could adopt a feline. or dog.

Sluts tend to play with fire. Both sexes. It's really warm and probably dry. Sex without love is meaningless. Whores show love. and VD. Happy Vday everybody.
 
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Virgins are either:

A) Boring
B) Confused
C) Closeted
D) All of the above
 
Speaking of resumes and sluts, I realized I was over my head when I got married and saw my exwifes bdsm porn resume. My God, that did not turn me on at all. I was like "wtf? I have to help you"

Anyway, one good thing about marrying a whore, was while I couldn't change her, I did have a lot of threesomes. Maybe you could try having a thresome with him. (Not that threesomes would make you a whore, my ex was constantly sneaking and selling sex)
 
LordOfThisWorld said:
Yes very difficult times, especially with this Covid thing. the doctors should be a little more lax in prescribing anti-anxiety medication.
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@LordOfThisWorld
They should just make some 5mg Valium 4 packs sell them somewhat uncontrolled, or maybe rationed?
Like one pack per household per week. Sell them OTC in the supermarkets next to the aspirin and paracetamol.
At a price-level way over street-price, so "normies" could buy them if they really needed to calm the fuck down.

But make sure the "emergency packs" where way more expensive, compared to blackmarket prices to deter "the real Junkies" and youngsters hoodlums from considering them as a valid option.

And then just keep it that way until the bloody pandemic has past?
 
uivodoet said:
@LordOfThisWorld
They should just make some 5mg Valium 4 packs sell them somewhat uncontrolled, or maybe rationed?
Like one pack per household per week. Sell them OTC in the supermarkets next to the aspirin and paracetamol.
At a price-level way over street-price, so "normies" could buy them if they really needed to calm the fuck down.

But make sure the "emergency packs" where way more expensive, compared to blackmarket prices to deter "the real Junkies" and youngsters hoodlums from considering them as a valid option.

And then just keep it that way until the bloody pandemic has past?
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No a doctor should be more understanding especially now during this pandemic, I’ve always suffered from anxiety and panic attacks, but even worse now.

I hope you were joking with your above post.
 
Nobody likes virgins, male or female, unless they're fucking creeps... But - personally - I'd choose a quiet librarian type over the slutty (not an insult, yay feminism) club chick any time of day.

One significant factor (for me) is STIs. If your partner has had less sexual partners, you're less likely to get chlamydia or gonorrhea or HPV. The latter is set to take over from tobacco smoke as the leading cause of various oral cancers and I'm a fucking hypochondriac.

But - beyond that - I like to be the sluttiest person in the room. The sluttiest one is more likely to take control of the situation. Also: shy chicks are cute. And, perhaps most importantly, I don't have the biggest dick in the world (and I'm not the greatest lover either) so I'd prefer to fuck a woman that appreciates me rather than a porn start that has been banged a thousand times round the sun by Gods with horse cocks.

Having said all that, there are women who have PHDs in the art of seduction and I can't pretend that it doesn't work on me sometimes. I don't like being manipulated. Maybe your husband can't help it? If he isn't fucking them, maybe they are to blame for flirting with a married man? I don't know. Personally, I am so wary of the seductress type that I shy away from slutty types altogether.
 
birdup.snaildown said:
Nobody likes virgins, male or female, unless they're fucking creeps... But - personally - I'd choose a quiet librarian type over the slutty (not an insult, yay feminism) club chick any time of day.

One significant factor (for me) is STIs. If your partner has had less sexual partners, you're less likely to get chlamydia or gonorrhea or HPV. The latter is set to take over from tobacco smoke as the leading cause of various oral cancers and I'm a fucking hypochondriac.

But - beyond that - I like to be the sluttiest person in the room. The sluttiest one is more likely to take control of the situation. Also: shy chicks are cute. And, perhaps most importantly, I don't have the biggest dick in the world (and I'm not the greatest lover either) so I'd prefer to fuck a woman that appreciates me rather than a porn start that has been banged a thousand times round the sun by Gods with horse cocks.

Having said all that, there are women who have PHDs in the art of seduction and I can't pretend that it doesn't work on me sometimes. I don't like being manipulated. Maybe your husband can't help it? If he isn't fucking them, maybe they are to blame for flirting with a married man? I don't know. Personally, I am so wary of the seductress type that I shy away from slutty types altogether.
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I’ll be honest sometimes the eyes of a woman will literally enchant me, like hypnotize me.

I never had a virgin, but id I did meet one and she was over 18 years of age which is almost impossible nowadays, but if I’d be lucky enough to have had one I would like her for who she is, a relationship isn't just about sex.
 
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birdup.snaildown said:
Having said all that, there are women who have PHDs in the art of seduction and I can't pretend that it doesn't work on me sometimes. I don't like being manipulated. Maybe your husband can't help it? If he isn't fucking them, maybe they are to blame for flirting with a married man? I don't know. Personally, I am so wary of the seductress type that I shy away from slutty types altogether.
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While I see your point, I don't think you can put the blame on the women flirting with a married man.
The woman hasn't taken any wovs, has she? I mean, I wouldn't flirt with a married woman (but then again, my pick up skills are like Bubbles in Trailer Park Boys).
 
pulverstaden said:
While I see your point, I don't think you can put the blame on the women flirting with a married man.
The woman hasn't taken any wovs, has she? I mean, I wouldn't flirt with a married woman (but then again, my pick up skills are like Bubbles in Trailer Park Boys).
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While I do agree with you, it shouldn't be the woman's responsibility that the man is cheating on his wife.

I think it would be fair to say that it would be a normal reaction to at least feel guilty about involving yourself with a married man.
 
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