Relationships are overrated. Friendships are underrated.
.... relationships are overrated cause there is talking involved. Silence is underrated...
I just wanna listen to music and do drugs
A while back, while I was in throes of lonely solo drug use I struck up a conversation with a woman online and we seemed to click and I invited her over genuinely thinking it would just be so nice to have genuine company when 4 AM came around. Sadly she kept making it about the sex I was allegedly going to be expecting at some point. But I can honestly say I would have had to have been held at gunpoint to want to fuck at that stage. I just wanted honest open non-judgemental company.Relationships aren't overrated. Sex is though. :D
But then given how obsessed society is with sex it'd be very hard for it not to be overrated.
I think that has to do with how Amphetamines/Dexedrine makes people talk, or more social, and your inhibitions get lowered? Alcohol can be this way as well.I can talk to women without being on dex no problem. But I get the impression I’m more impressive and likeable to them after about 15 mg.
That's the worst side-effect of fucking. All that talking..... relationships are overrated cause there is talking involved. Silence is underrated...
I just wanna listen to music and do drugs
A bit off-topic but in my country (Romania) hookup culture isn't really a thing as most people ( ~80-90% ) are looking to get themselves into formal monogamous relationships. The gay society seems to be more open-minded about casual sex though - this can be easily seen if you are using apps like Grindr - yet still nowhere near Western levels. But in general, it's considered that mostly uneducated/dumb mainstream-type people engage in it (regardless of orientation) and it's been true from my experience (traveled to a few European countries). So if you want to stick to smarter, nicer people, don't do it 'cause they don't hook up.
I'm just extrapolating the mentality I grew up with to other countries and cultures. But I think most people will agree with what I've said. This holds true for both straight & gay people.
Don’t get me wrong, dating apps attract the worst kind, but I agree, I’d rather know something about someone before talking to them and getting to know them before meeting them is... well it doesn’t rule out the nasties but... well it still beats walking blindly up to strangers or waiting for them to walk up to you.
This makes sense, I am knowing what you are talking about, but not women are like you described, there is a certain percentage of women who are looking for soul mate, sex, something, anything. Many women also use hookup sites and apps, not just dating. I suppose they have feelings but also have urges as we do...
That is very true.You could if you wanted to, you just don't want to.
What's the issue here? There isn't one. Its just getting older, happens to everyone regardless of sexuality. Just accept it and move on.