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Question of the Week Who was your first love & how old were you?

There should not be boundaries for love.There so many examples of people from different religions got to escape from their families in order to be together
 
Nas47 said:
There should not be boundaries for love.There so many examples of people from different religions got to escape from their families in order to be together
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So true my brother and no way could i marry a girl from Punjab with who I shared no common interest while i was with the girl of my dreams i had no attraction to punjabi girls . My wedding day should have been the happiest day of my life but no family was there i was hurting inside. My mom and brothers broke my dads rules and mom was there the next day and told my wife to step outside with me she poured some mustard oil on the front door and we walk back in its a welcome to my wife as family.

I got such good looking kids they got the Mediterranean looks my wife takes them to Sikh gurdwara and also to the catholic church. Money love and music has no color you only fall deeply in love a few times in your life if you lucky i tell my kids to marry who you love . A punjabi wife would have walked out on a cheating drug addict like me but my American wife still holding me up and becaue of her i got what i got . In a marriage trust and truth so important if you not got one of those things the marriage built on sand
 
Same story brother.Without my wife i am a halfman.Without my daughter my life will be without any purpose.Now i know,that i left behind me something much better than me,something beautiful....besides,that build a house and planted a lot of trees.What else could be wish?Peace-asap!
 
Nas47 said:
There should not be boundaries for love.There so many examples of people from different religions got to escape from their families in order to be together
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Or they what a lot of my friends did go to punjab get married come back to states and be in loveless marrigages have kids feel trapped with some domestic violance or my cousin hanged himself because he wanted to marry his Pakistani Muslim girlfriend but for the family left her married a woman he not love drink more do more drugs then one day we cutting him down while his wife on holiday.
 
Nas47 said:
Same story brother.Without my wife i am a halfman.Without my daughter my life will be without any purpose.Now i know,that i left behind me something much better than me,something beautiful....besides,that build a house and planted a lot of trees.What else could be wish?Peace-asap!
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So well said and the truth a wife can be either what makes you or fuck you up . I have a great business in UK and the states 4 kids are my life and who because of my brute of a dad I made a promise to just show them love let them be kids and no matter what their dad and mom will always be there for them. If i got divorced today my wife could have everything because without her i be dead i got up because of the promise i made to her when i proposed no matter how much i do drugs i will give you a good home and you want for nothing.
 
I was 18, I’d graduated HS and I met him at the Ice Cream Parlour where we were both employed.
Our life consisted of me sitting on the beach in a bikini, and him surfing. We were in love, and were each other’s firsts, but about 14 months later, he took a trip to Mazatlan, Mexico. I found out he slept with another girl. He brought me back a nautilus shell 🐚 as a gift to say sorry.
Of course I took the shell, as I’d very much wanted that shell, but I broke up with him. But through college, and later, we’d get back together several times, and we finally broke up when I met my 1st husband.
I’m still exceedingly tight with him, and I stayed in his bed when I left my 2nd husband.
We’re both in relationships now and we talk a few times a month. I’m sure we’ll always remain close.
 
My lovely Angella...I was 22 and she was 19.
We met on NYE at a rave in a club near lima's exclusive boulevard near the Beach down south.
It was insta love when we saw each other, both high as f on MDMA. We went on 2 dates after We met and then I asked her to be my GF. After that we were inseparable....for a year I had the most amazing relationship with this girl although it became really toxic cause I was super addicted to the needle back then and lost her cause of thst :(. She was the love of my life and I'll never be with someone else ever again.
Life goes on though....
 
She was a girl from Canada whom I met in Connemara, Ireland because we were both attending an Irish language course. It was love at first sight. I was 14 and she was 21 and as a matter of fact I was doing the seducing. Xd Fortunately she looked about my age so we didn't get any weird looks. We stayed in touch after the course and 2 years later she travelled over to Wales and we spent a glorious summer together.

Unfortunately I never got to sleep with her because I hadn't had corrective surgery yet and was too scared to reveal my intersex condition in case she'd find my body revolting and reject me. I kept having to make up excuses. If I'd been born normal we wouldn't have gotten out of bed for days. I keep wondering what it would have been like and the thought of what I missed because of a stupid birth defect still hurts after all these years. I had serious plans of marrying her. The relationship broke up before we could meet again because of her mental health issues. I didn't have so much as a casual date for more than a decade after that.
 
yubacity said:
The Punjabis on the Pakistan side are muslims we Punjabis on the Indian side majority Sikh with minority Hindus at 40 percent. We are the same as Punjabis in Pakistan apart from religion and some customs like Pakistani Muslims marry their cousins but we have the gotra system we cant marry in our own village our mother's village or my grandmother's villages or if surnames the small. I was meant to marry this Punjabi girl she was good looking but I liked white girls and married jenny who American but they dutch Catholics got thrown out of the house when i told parents
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I have a friend who his parents are from Kerala and he was super involved in the church of Saint Thomas of India, to the point that he wanted to become a priest and said how his family was not for arraigned marriage, but if he wound up in one and married another woman from Kerala and who was in his sect of Christianity he would be fine with it. He dated and married a Roman Catholic Irish lady and his family almost disowned him and did not talk to him for about a decade, did not attend the events or wedding, etc. They eventually made up and accepted his wife.

I have Tamil hindu friends who said they do not marry cousins, many have arranged marriages that seem to work, but after something like 10 or 11 generations someone is not considered to be a cousin or a close relative.
 
The first girl I'd consider I have loved was my first long time relationship. I was 16 when it began and 19 when it ended. It may have been best for her, since things have went the way they did for me. We are still in contact, she still calls me when she is alone.
She was a jew, her mothers side family had escaped from Germany during WW2.
I beaty up a things for her a lot, it's better that way. If she knew how things have really turned out she'd be broken.
Well.. remember guys, it's easier to raise good children than fix broken adults and I think I may fit the later category.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
I have a friend who his parents are from Kerala and he was super involved in the church of Saint Thomas of India, to the point that he wanted to become a priest and said how his family was not for arraigned marriage, but if he wound up in one and married another woman from Kerala and who was in his sect of Christianity he would be fine with it. He dated and married a Roman Catholic Irish lady and his family almost disowned him and did not talk to him for about a decade, did not attend the events or wedding, etc. They eventually made up and accepted his wife.

I have Tamil hindu friends who said they do not marry cousins, many have arranged marriages that seem to work, but after something like 10 or 11 generations someone is not considered to be a cousin or a close relative.
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We have a clan system in Indian Punjab my village of Dosanjh Kalan my surname is Dosanjh we are the jat clans so we consider girls from our village and mom's village as sisters. We also dont marry in grandmother's villages Hindus do the same its called the gotra system.

My mom and brothers accepted my wife my dad threw me out with clothes on my back i drove a truck for his comp[any so had spending money credit cards but all money went to family business. I had 27 dollars on me and some change. My dad saw my wife at the mall and told her she his daughter now any need call him but he only smoke to me 8 odd years later when daughter was born.

It's a fucked up situation they come to the west we are born in the west we can't be expected to live as we did in Punjab. Us first generation born kids of immigrants had it hard in the UK we had fights nearly every week with racists and at home we expected to be Punjabis when we more western. Take the best of Punjab stick together build a life but admit the west liberal attitudes to women and how we can choose our life not be dictaded to
 
Big Papa DMW said:
The first girl I'd consider I have loved was my first long time relationship. I was 16 when it began and 19 when it ended. It may have been best for her, since things have went the way they did for me. We are still in contact, she still calls me when she is alone.
She was a jew, her mothers side family had escaped from Germany during WW2.
I beaty up a things for her a lot, it's better that way. If she knew how things have really turned out she'd be broken.
Well.. remember guys, it's easier to raise good children than fix broken adults and I think I may fit the later category.
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Your last sentance i love i was beat like a man by my dad but i could have forgiven all if just one hug and i love you son. It has caused a pain that even heroin cant stop . But my kids are told every day i love them and live a life of no fear when i walk through the door .
 
yubacity said:
Your last sentance i love i was beat like a man by my dad but i could have forgiven all if just one hug and i love you son. It has caused a pain that even heroin cant stop . But my kids are told every day i love them and live a life of no fear when i walk through the door .
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I grew up on violent household too. My father actually saa convinced on a court against a case CPS Rose against him.
I have forgiven him, he is a lot like a best friend More than a father.
We even do drugs together.
 
Big Papa DMW said:
I grew up on violent household too. My father actually saa convinced on a court against a case CPS Rose against him.
I have forgiven him, he is a lot like a best friend More than a father.
We even do drugs together.
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My old man died without us having a heart to heart and im sorry your childhood was similar. You must have felt a sense of ending the saga and I wanted what you finally got i used to blame boxing or my brothers if had black eyes or broken ribs. Once thought fuck it asked him dad why you not love me his reply because you a useless cunt . One thing i did was take the beatings never say sorry never bow my head to him got to take the small victories .

IM serious happy that you reconciled with your dad and good mates with him wish my old man had
 
The UltimateFixx said:
She was a girl from Canada whom I met in Connemara, Ireland because we were both attending an Irish language course. It was love at first sight. I was 14 and she was 21 and as a matter of fact I was doing the seducing. Xd Fortunately she looked about my age so we didn't get any weird looks. We stayed in touch after the course and 2 years later she travelled over to Wales and we spent a glorious summer together.

Unfortunately I never got to sleep with her because I hadn't had corrective surgery yet and was too scared to reveal my intersex condition in case she'd find my body revolting and reject me. I kept having to make up excuses. If I'd been born normal we wouldn't have gotten out of bed for days. I keep wondering what it would have been like and the thought of what I missed because of a stupid birth defect still hurts after all these years. I had serious plans of marrying her. The relationship broke up before we could meet again because of her mental health issues. I didn't have so much as a casual date for more than a decade after that.
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Good!This was lovely and interesting story
 
Yea I mean what you said.The story is good.Could be a book......or movie..despite,that the whole things brings you pain or sorrow maybe
 
arrall said:
Thanks to @Nurse Ratched for the thread idea!

This one is pretty straightforward. Who was the first person you fell in love with and how old were you?
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I was in seventh grade, so twelve/thirteen at the time. I know that’s a bit young for it to be considered “love” but it definitely felt like it at the time. I haven’t been in a relationship since.
 
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