drews_secret
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Alight kiddies...I am going to tell you all two stories and I want you guys to tell me which one you consider cheating.
(I would like a poll started, but am unsure of how to start one)
Story number 1:
There is a lonely house wife who does everything for her family..cooks, cleans, pet chores, PTA meetings, sewing clothes, yard work and more.
She has been married to her husband for almost 20 years and were high school sweet hearts, her husband works a regular job, but is getting no where in his career, in which his spare time is spent with his buddies at sport events and the local bar in which puts a strain on his marriage, comes home most nights late and on weekend doesnt spend time with his family.
Now the wife suddenly takes interest in cooking classes and leaves the husband home with the kids.
She meets the instructor, who is a handsome younger man who takes a interest in the wife and invites her for private classes, she accepts.
Over the next few weeks the wife is gone about 4 nights a week doing private classes, over a corse of time, the instructor starts buying her small gifts, not jewelry or flowers but cookwear and a apron with her name on it.
She begins to spend more and more time with the instructor, laughing, feeding eachother, drinking wine and small outings together in which are apart of her cooking classes.
Her husband finally is catching on, shes not going to the classes for learning, shes going because the intructor gives her undivided attention, physical contact, conversation and alot more that she wasnt getting at home.
So to break this down, the wife and the instructor are not having any sort of sexual relationship, nor talks sexual to eachother, but enjoy eachothers company and conversation in which neither were getting at home..is this cheating?
Story number 2:
A happily married man goes out with his buddies every friday night to watch the game at the sports bar, he loves his wife and his children are his pride and joy, life couldnt get better.
The husband gets home from work to find his wife packing, two of their close friends are getting married and eloping to vegas later that night and had invited them to go.
So they all land in vegas, the men go their way and the women go theirs for a night on the town for bachlor and bachlotette parites.
Well into the night, the ladies night has come to a end, with someone sleeping in the bath tub and 4 people on one bed, as for the guys, theyre still out.
They would up going to a strip club and getting really drunk.
The husband who tagged along to see his friend get married grew infatuated with one of the dancers and was talking with her all night and wound up walking her to her car at closing time.
She invites him to her place for a night cap, he accepts thinking there is nothing wrong with it.
They get there and she changes into something skimpy, he cant keep his eyes off her, she makes the first move and takes his hand and puts it on her breast, he knows its wrong but cant resist....they wind up having sex, with him cheating sexually on his wife.
While he is in the shower, his phone rings and its his wife to see where he is, the stripper picks it up and says hello, the wife hangs up.
To break this down...the husband is a happily married man, good job, wonderful wife and loves his children, nothing wrong with the marriage.
Went home with a stripper and slept with her with out thinking about it, is this cheating?
(I would like a poll started, but am unsure of how to start one)
Story number 1:
There is a lonely house wife who does everything for her family..cooks, cleans, pet chores, PTA meetings, sewing clothes, yard work and more.
She has been married to her husband for almost 20 years and were high school sweet hearts, her husband works a regular job, but is getting no where in his career, in which his spare time is spent with his buddies at sport events and the local bar in which puts a strain on his marriage, comes home most nights late and on weekend doesnt spend time with his family.
Now the wife suddenly takes interest in cooking classes and leaves the husband home with the kids.
She meets the instructor, who is a handsome younger man who takes a interest in the wife and invites her for private classes, she accepts.
Over the next few weeks the wife is gone about 4 nights a week doing private classes, over a corse of time, the instructor starts buying her small gifts, not jewelry or flowers but cookwear and a apron with her name on it.
She begins to spend more and more time with the instructor, laughing, feeding eachother, drinking wine and small outings together in which are apart of her cooking classes.
Her husband finally is catching on, shes not going to the classes for learning, shes going because the intructor gives her undivided attention, physical contact, conversation and alot more that she wasnt getting at home.
So to break this down, the wife and the instructor are not having any sort of sexual relationship, nor talks sexual to eachother, but enjoy eachothers company and conversation in which neither were getting at home..is this cheating?
Story number 2:
A happily married man goes out with his buddies every friday night to watch the game at the sports bar, he loves his wife and his children are his pride and joy, life couldnt get better.
The husband gets home from work to find his wife packing, two of their close friends are getting married and eloping to vegas later that night and had invited them to go.
So they all land in vegas, the men go their way and the women go theirs for a night on the town for bachlor and bachlotette parites.
Well into the night, the ladies night has come to a end, with someone sleeping in the bath tub and 4 people on one bed, as for the guys, theyre still out.
They would up going to a strip club and getting really drunk.
The husband who tagged along to see his friend get married grew infatuated with one of the dancers and was talking with her all night and wound up walking her to her car at closing time.
She invites him to her place for a night cap, he accepts thinking there is nothing wrong with it.
They get there and she changes into something skimpy, he cant keep his eyes off her, she makes the first move and takes his hand and puts it on her breast, he knows its wrong but cant resist....they wind up having sex, with him cheating sexually on his wife.
While he is in the shower, his phone rings and its his wife to see where he is, the stripper picks it up and says hello, the wife hangs up.
To break this down...the husband is a happily married man, good job, wonderful wife and loves his children, nothing wrong with the marriage.
Went home with a stripper and slept with her with out thinking about it, is this cheating?
#2 will learn the hard way.
Did you do #2?
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