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When Girls Ask How Big Your Dick Is..?? (WHAT TO SAY?)

Serotonin101 said:
I'm around 6-6.5inches length and about 5 inch girth. I consider myself average, but I've never had complaints, even with a semi I got girls off. I'm an avid love maker, so I get that oxytocin flowing between myself and my partner and its almost always phenomenal. my last partner I didn't feel the chemistry with, but the one before her... I haven't felt a bond like that in a while... god I miss her...
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Don't take this the wrong way, but are you sure you know how much an inch is?

tbh I don't take conversations like these very seriously, I mean they're kinda fun, but when you're in the moment, not even thinking but acting on your instinctual desires (as I think good sex should be), I really don't think any of it matters at anything approaching the average.

To me, sex should be about getting lost in the moment, turning off the logical thinking part of our brains and just going with it. And in that respect, does it really matter?

Maybe I'm just not picky.
 
^^if you read back a few pages average girth is 4.9 inches. so yes I know what an inch is lol. I used the measuring tape I have measuring other parts of my body for rough estimates of bodyfat.
 
Serotonin101 said:
^^if you read back a few pages average girth is 4.9 inches. so yes I know what an inch is lol. I used the measuring tape I have measuring other parts of my body for rough estimates of bodyfat.
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Yea pay no attention to me my brain was clearly fried when I wrote that. For some reason I was picturing diameter not circumference.
 
a 5inch diameter would be very unappealing lol. I couldn't imagine the damage a cock like that would cause a woman. Ick. I like the size of my cock. I remember when I was with this girl over the summer, she got me so excited I hit about 6.75 inches! god I miss the sex with that girl.
 
^lol, 'impaled'. I've never paid any kind of attention to it personally, unless it's really really thin I don't think it matters much.
 
Tell her the truth and if she doesn't like it, kick *her* to the curb.

Many relationship difficulties begin with not being honest. She's going to find out anyway.
 
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Cess Sesh said:
So recently I started seeing this girl.. we are both head over heels for each other. This relationship started 1/20, so we've only been dating like 3 weeks. We haven't gotten further than deep make-out sessions, and just the other day we started talking about Valentine's Day, she said "There is only one thing I want for Valentine's Day... I think you know exactly what I want ;)" So it's obvious she wants the D, earlier today she told me to ask her anything and she would answer with an honest reply, I said what's your cup size (Just because I knew she wanted a Q like that), she says "36 D hehe, what's your size?". Just to clarify, I said 36 C to mess around and she said not that, something else... So GUYS, what would you say if you got asked that by a girl? I'm only 5 1/2 @ 17, which I'm not sure is good or not, I've been laid only twice, both of which I didn't really get any complaints.. should I come straight out and say 5 1/2? She's a virgin btw, so it makes it even more confusing..
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Because I don't want to read 4 pages. This is real simple, chicks will dig you no matter what your size is. They will all lie and say it's big, no matter what your size is... unless it's absolutely tiny. Then they will still lie and say it's good enough. But what you don't do is lie and say you have a 10 inch dick Bitches know inches... and you're not going to be able to fudge any on this one, so just be honest and confident... confidence is key.
 
I always play it down. I act like its on the smaller side of medium. So when she actually gets to see it she's pleasantly surprised that its on the bigger side of medium.

Depends on the situation though.
 
Wow haven't been on Bluelight in a long time... Valentine's Day went amazing, until we moved to the room. I popped her cherry and she said she couldn't any more, after no even 5 mins ... and she wasn't 16 she was 18 at the time. And her boobs were indeed big.. she wasn't lying o_o
 
Can't remember the last time I was asked this question. I usually drop my trousers in anticipation of the "Wow", which usually follows..not that it matters anyway.

But if asked right now by a chick, I would say something silly like "3 inches.....from the ground". Or something like "big enough to get the job done". Doesn't really matter. She's either puttin out or she's not.
 
HCandKROD said:
I wouldn't worry too much about this. I've read the average size of an erect penis is about 6 inches. I'm 48y/o and have worked with 6 inches my whole life time and haven't gotten any comments or laughs. Funny story, my wife and I were doing a threesome with one of my friends.When he pulled his drawers off he had a dick that he coulda clubbed baby seals to death with!!! I never mentioned it to my wife and she never brought it up. Don't say anything to this girl about it. If she really likes you it shouldn't be a big deal. Good luck and wrap that rascal!!;)
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I wish I was your friend :-)
 
You know it's okay to round up a little. You could just say 6 inches. A 5 1/2 inch penis looks like a 6 inch penis anyway.
 
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