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Whats Behind The Dirty Things We Say During Sex?

rangrz said:
She collides forcefully with the pavement, and a beautiful, deep crimson pool forms near her head. Her pupils dialate and gaze becomes fixed, and she archs back and extends her limbs in the usual sense of decerebrate posturing. Her breathing becomes gasping and laboured and irregular, one could use the term agonal respiration...
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What a romantic you are.
 
I don't find talking dirty to be particularly erotic, in fact there have been several times I've busted out laughing--which some people find insulting LOL. I'd rather keep quiet, make out while we're doing it, and stare into their eyes, which, btw, has been proven to intensify orgasm. Guess I just don't like to talk dirty while I'm getting dirty.
 
^^^ lmao yup you got that right, I've laughed out loud when a guy starts talking dirty to me during sex. Its too fake I dont find anything sexy about it, uggh such a turn off. Dirty talk in the bedroom is a dealbreaker for me.
 
I think that Badandwicked is great, love women who won't take any shit and are more than capable of standing up for themselves.
As for dirty talk, my wife used to want to be called a slut etc during sex.
 
chill out children. save the flirting for later;)

there is nothing saying that pretention and intellect/education are mutually exclusive

one of my friends prides themselves on being pretentious, she's a ridiculous beautiful lesbian and last time i saw her she had bound her tits with duct tape before heading out...
 
@ Poe

But agonal respiration is a very specific finding/sign/concept and as such, it has a very specific word to describe it. It's no more pretentious than using a word like "sufentanil" instead of "really potent synthetic opioid derivative of fentanyl used as an anesthetic" or saying "double overhead cam" instead of "things that open and close to allow air in and exhaust out of engine that are worked by a spinning rod with little lobes on it and there are two such shafts".
 
rangrz said:
I think it would really hot if on her trip to see Cornish, it was pissing rain and the roads as wet and slick as her puss was from thinking about Cornish. Then her front tire.has a blow out, and combined with the weather, causes loss of control of the vehicle. It goes veering towards a concrete barrier, the passenger side of the vehicle impacting it, and the rapid deceleration ejecting her thru the wind screen.

She collides forcefully with the pavement, and a beautiful, deep crimson pool forms near her head. Her pupils dialate and gaze becomes fixed, and she archs back and extends her limbs in the usual sense of decerebrate posturing. Her breathing becomes gasping and laboured and irregular, one could use the term agonal respiration...

mmm, fuck... I gotta go fap now.
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Damn,never pre ejaculated till reading this lmao...man your twiztid but hilarious...

ya I always wondered about the pulling hair thing and doggy style to...women just cant seem to get enough, cause hell,they are already getting a more fuller feel of a guys dick with doggy style and they want their hair pulled to, I think females can be the dirtier ones in bed ~.^

Also,anyone ever wondering if actually experiencing the dirty things you say would actually be as good as the fantasy? Some dreams in life dont seem to live up to expectations once fulfilled,is this true of our most carnal desire of sex?
 
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^^^^ I am pretty sure that the stuff I fantasize about would repulse me in person. I get the most aroused reading and looking at scenarios that involve reluctance/non-consent and humiliation.

I like for my partner to take the lead in bed, I like the hair pulling, etc., but if some random guy pulled me into the bathroom at a bar and fucked me senseless I would be devastated. It is fun to fantasize about, but repulsive in reality.

On the other hand, if my husband was the one pulling me into the bathroom, it would be hot. So IDK.
 
^Yeah, it's funny because so many women (me included) have that fantasy of a dark, handsome, mysterious stranger suddenly pushing us passionately against a wall, but pretty sure most of us wouldn't react so well if it happened IRL.
 
This is what always confuses me. I never really fantasize about anything I wouldn't want IRL. Indeed, I've done more or less all of it, and anything remaining is more or less just specifics of circumstance or little nitpicky details that are basically irrelevant and just permutations on stuff I've done.

Why do you ladies (I notice it more in girls, but I know a lot of guys have fantasies they'd not like IRL too...) seem to have these kind of fantasies? I have an extremely difficult time disregarding empirical reality and/or conveniently removing certain implications of situations and romanticize or idealizing them like that.

Like for e.g. Ms.G has a few fantasies that IRL, would be so utterly and completely un-erotic that it's ridiculous... I won't say what they are, but just by accident while horseplaying with her, I did something to her that would be part of said fantasies, except it was very soft compared to what she was talking about, and in her scenario,there'd be like 200 of that act repeatedly done, and she was sobbing for an hour,despite me comforting her and stuff. ...I felt terrible FYI and it was GENUINELY accidental/unintentional.

Can anyone explain how this works, being unable to understand how the fantasy would be IRL?
 
rangrz said:
This is what always confuses me. I never really fantasize about anything I wouldn't want IRL. Indeed, I've done more or less all of it, and anything remaining is more or less just specifics of circumstance or little nitpicky details that are basically irrelevant and just permutations on stuff I've done.

Why do you ladies (I notice it more in girls, but I know a lot of guys have fantasies they'd not like IRL too...) seem to have these kind of fantasies? I have an extremely difficult time disregarding empirical reality and/or conveniently removing certain implications of situations and romanticize or idealizing them like that.

Like for e.g. Ms.G has a few fantasies that IRL, would be so utterly and completely un-erotic that it's ridiculous... I won't say what they are, but just by accident while horseplaying with her, I did something to her that would be part of said fantasies, except it was very soft compared to what she was talking about, and in her scenario,there'd be like 200 of that act repeatedly done, and she was sobbing for an hour,despite me comforting her and stuff. ...I felt terrible FYI and it was GENUINELY accidental/unintentional.

Can anyone explain how this works, being unable to understand how the fantasy would be IRL?
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I agree that an explaination of the largely feminine logic here needs to be explained. Cause personally,about 90% of the things I fantasize about I would try IRL. Granted,they might not be as good in reality than in fantasy and I might regret their implications in my relationship with my gf later. However,even that could possibly be minimized. I think though rangz that a lot of females tend to get off on the thought of an act more(look at how a lot of women detest porn but love pornographic romance novels) while guys prefer the more visual approach and tend to minimize any real world implications.
 
No. I don't mean like that.

As in, the acts themselves would inherently unpleasant... like beach cat said, hers is essentially rape... as for what happened with me? Will, lets just say the fantasy is more like a description of being in Abu Ghraib or in the custody of the Pakistani Inter Services Intelligence agency than a romance novel.
 
I'm not so sure that many women actually fantasise about things they wouldn't want to do/happen IRL.
Coming back to that hot stranger fantasy a ton of women have - honestly, if I were walking down the street as a single girl and saw a really hot guy I'd probably be wishing I could kiss him. So then if he walked up to me and pushed me against a wall and kissed me, I'm not so sure I'd try to stop him. It's not at all the same as a rape fantasy rangrz. I don't understand rape fantasies, I've never had one and never will so I'll let someone else address that.
I dunno. I've had some pretty intense fantasies but it's always been stuff I think I might be up for IRL.
 
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