badandwicked
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Whats Behind The Dirty Things We Say During Sex?
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aussie101
Ex-Bluelighter
I love it when chicks say "pull my hair" whilst doing them doggy style.
akautonomics
Bluelighter
Rangrz, obviously I do agree with you that saying nice, cute things during sex is the best. However I don't want to write off dirty talking entirely and I don't agree it's a sign of low IQ. If it's porno cliches, or something like just monologuing about what you're doing, then it's probably indicative of a lack of creativity. I don't even think it has to be raunchy if done the right way. For example, something along the lines of "Fuck me like a whore and jizz in my ass" or "I want to fill up all your orifices one by one with my throbbing BBC" could be cute/hot if said in the right manner. I think it's the silly words like cock-hole, meat-sword, butt slut, etc. that make dirty talk sound ridiculous. With the exception of including silly terms, I think any phrase can be done in a non-raunchy way, just like how pretty much any act in our repertoire, despite how objectively raunchy it is, can be made cute by the way we do it. Last night when I was subbing, some of the things you said to me could be considered dirty talk, like for example, I had my kegel balls in and you asked if they needed some company then stuck a dildo in my ass. it was cute. In a raunchy porno, someone could have said the EXACT same thing and I would lol/facepalm.
I don't particularly get off on humiliation, nor do I like forceful dominants, so 'on your knees bitch' doesn't do much for me. I would say it to a guy (or a girl) if he or she liked it, and don't find anything wrong with it. If I was taking two cocks at once or being gang banged, it might be sort of hot to be called a whore or a slut, but only if it was in a sufficiently nice way, eg. Does my little slutty whore want another cock? Be good and take 2 more. Something like that would be a lot hotter to me than being slapped and called a dumb filthy bitch. Some people DO get off on that though, and I don't think there's anything wrong with it if it's consensual and want.
Point being, rangrz I agree with you that most dirty talking that you hear in mainstream porno is at best silly, and at worst demeaning/hurtful. But what real people actually do is probably ok, and if they like it, then good for them, and hopefully they are able to get creative with it, cause that's part of what makes sex fun.
I don't particularly get off on humiliation, nor do I like forceful dominants, so 'on your knees bitch' doesn't do much for me. I would say it to a guy (or a girl) if he or she liked it, and don't find anything wrong with it. If I was taking two cocks at once or being gang banged, it might be sort of hot to be called a whore or a slut, but only if it was in a sufficiently nice way, eg. Does my little slutty whore want another cock? Be good and take 2 more. Something like that would be a lot hotter to me than being slapped and called a dumb filthy bitch. Some people DO get off on that though, and I don't think there's anything wrong with it if it's consensual and want.
Point being, rangrz I agree with you that most dirty talking that you hear in mainstream porno is at best silly, and at worst demeaning/hurtful. But what real people actually do is probably ok, and if they like it, then good for them, and hopefully they are able to get creative with it, cause that's part of what makes sex fun.
rangrz
Bluelighter
Fair enough autonomics.
I usually link lack of creativity to lack of IQ anyway however, and I think you can understand why.
As for badandwicked...well a) she was condescending about me. b) based on her overall presence on BL I've concluded she is intellectually deficient and more generally, she is the prototype specimen of "life unworthy of life"
To address the rest of your content. I mean yes, what we did last night for e.g. was not raunchy but could of easily been so. That is always true. But IMO, and I think you'd agree, the average person seems to be hell bent on making things as raunchy as possible. (remember the last time at the lifestyle club?)
I don't care if people do stuff that's consensual and harmless as such. I mean I am happy they are enjoying themselves. But at the same time, I will still say some of it is not hot, and I will judge their aesthetic appeal and yes, even intelligence based of their actions in life in general, and sex is not exempt from that.
I usually link lack of creativity to lack of IQ anyway however, and I think you can understand why.
As for badandwicked...well a) she was condescending about me. b) based on her overall presence on BL I've concluded she is intellectually deficient and more generally, she is the prototype specimen of "life unworthy of life"
To address the rest of your content. I mean yes, what we did last night for e.g. was not raunchy but could of easily been so. That is always true. But IMO, and I think you'd agree, the average person seems to be hell bent on making things as raunchy as possible. (remember the last time at the lifestyle club?)
I don't care if people do stuff that's consensual and harmless as such. I mean I am happy they are enjoying themselves. But at the same time, I will still say some of it is not hot, and I will judge their aesthetic appeal and yes, even intelligence based of their actions in life in general, and sex is not exempt from that.
badandwicked
Bluelighter
Wow I'm flattered lol.
Tell me more. Tell me more about why I'm unworthy of life. I genuinely want to know what conclusions you have drawn from my overall presence on BL. As much detail as possible please.
rangrz
Bluelighter
I've never seen any post by you that addressed any non trivial subject in an intellectually rigorous manner. I've also never seen a post by you which was affirmative towards another person.
As such, you appear both dim witted *and* belligerent, and therefore I believe it would be a net gain for the world if you stopped living.
As such, you appear both dim witted *and* belligerent, and therefore I believe it would be a net gain for the world if you stopped living.
aussie101
Ex-Bluelighter
^ LOL
I'm curious about when girls say "blow your load inside me". I know that doesn't mean they wanna get pregnant, i think its just some kinky shit that chickas say some times when they are enjoying the moment.
I'm curious about when girls say "blow your load inside me". I know that doesn't mean they wanna get pregnant, i think its just some kinky shit that chickas say some times when they are enjoying the moment.
Illyria99
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I believe the girls who say that have watched a lot of bad porn, and think it'll turn the guy on.
Frankly, that phrase makes me picture an exploding penis.
aussie101
Ex-Bluelighter
haha. I slept with a catholic virgin once. We were fucking on my friends couch and she goes "ohhh fuck cum inside me, cum inside me...oh shit no don't"... I was like well you can't have it both ways haha. I was on drugs that didn't allow me to blow any way
badandwicked
Bluelighter
You are laughable, a mere caricature.
As such you do not merit a heartfelt response.
I'll tell you one thing, your relationship will end before 12 months have passed. Your girlfriend will tire of you and your incredibly boring egotistical personality. My predictions are rarely incorrect, be sure to come back tell us when it is proved correct. You hate me because you know I speak the truth.
That one's for free, enjoy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aF4CWCXirZ8
aussie101
Ex-Bluelighter
^ get a room you two
Cornishman
Bluelighter
Why is IQ so important to you rangrz?
It's clear I'm not the only one who expected better of you as an academic who's very much part of bluelight.
If you read back over page two, B&W offered you a chance to play ball nicely and straight away you knee jerked.
Resorting to low brow name calling and concocting slanderous fabrications regarding her personal life.
Okay, her post may (or may not) of been condescending.
Either way, I would expect someone who clearly values intelligence (or IQ results at least) to at least contemplate tact when replying.
B&W should of just reported you to begin with.
$0.02
It's clear I'm not the only one who expected better of you as an academic who's very much part of bluelight.
If you read back over page two, B&W offered you a chance to play ball nicely and straight away you knee jerked.
Resorting to low brow name calling and concocting slanderous fabrications regarding her personal life.
Okay, her post may (or may not) of been condescending.
Either way, I would expect someone who clearly values intelligence (or IQ results at least) to at least contemplate tact when replying.
B&W should of just reported you to begin with.
$0.02
badandwicked
Bluelighter
Just like wealth, those who really have a high IQ don't need to shout about it.
Why would I report him Cornish?
I respond to him as sport, he's amusing.
Lets meet at Michael Wood services on the M5 and talk pure filth to each other, higher vertebrates that we are
Why would I report him Cornish?
I respond to him as sport, he's amusing.
Lets meet at Michael Wood services on the M5 and talk pure filth to each other, higher vertebrates that we are
Illyria99
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People can say the most ridiculous things while they're fucking. Sometimes it's sexy, other times not.
It's kind of hard to not laugh when a guy is pumping away, while moaning, "You want this cock, you like this cock?"
Seriously...not a turn on.
Cornishman
Bluelighter
Just like wealth, those who really have a high IQ don't need to shout about it.
Why would I report him Cornish?
I respond to him as sport, he's amusing.
Lets meet at Michael Wood services on the M5 and talk pure filth to each other, higher vertebrates that we are
Haha, see you there you obscene mucky strumpet.
aussie101
Ex-Bluelighter
Yeah that sounds like they have been jacking off to porn too much. I don't remember saying anything like that. Its more like "fuuuuck thats so good" or complements/something similar. Or changing positions and being witty about it, makes it fun. Sometimes just moaning is good enough, no need to spoil the moment. Chicks biting and scratching me, fkn lol thats always funny. Another funny one is making noise in the Uni dorms whilst fucking then having people knock on the door when in the middle of it and girl saying "fuck off we're busy" lol
rangrz
Bluelighter
You are laughable, a mere caricature.
As such you do not merit a heartfelt response.
I'll tell you one thing, your relationship will end before 12 months have passed. Your girlfriend will tire of you and your incredibly boring egotistical personality. My predictions are rarely incorrect, be sure to come back tell us when it is proved correct. You hate me because you know I speak the truth.
That one's for free, enjoy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aF4CWCXirZ8
Cool story bro. It's been 5 or 6 years and we're still not sick of each other and rarely fight in a way that lasts more than a few hours.
@Cornishman: I engaged because she was being a condescending cunt. I see no issue in doing so, and thus far I've fabricated less shit about her personal life than she has mine.
@B&W : I never claimed I had a exceptionally high IQ, only that yours appears exceptionally low. To use the rich analogy: I'm not claiming to be Warren Buffet. I'm just noting that someone wearing ripped and filthy clothes, picking up cigarette butts and and asking for change is dirt poor.
rangrz
Bluelighter
I think it would really hot if on her trip to see Cornish, it was pissing rain and the roads as wet and slick as her puss was from thinking about Cornish. Then her front tire.has a blow out, and combined with the weather, causes loss of control of the vehicle. It goes veering towards a concrete barrier, the passenger side of the vehicle impacting it, and the rapid deceleration ejecting her thru the wind screen.
She collides forcefully with the pavement, and a beautiful, deep crimson pool forms near her head. Her pupils dialate and gaze becomes fixed, and she archs back and extends her limbs in the usual sense of decerebrate posturing. Her breathing becomes gasping and laboured and irregular, one could use the term agonal respiration...
mmm, fuck... I gotta go fap now.
She collides forcefully with the pavement, and a beautiful, deep crimson pool forms near her head. Her pupils dialate and gaze becomes fixed, and she archs back and extends her limbs in the usual sense of decerebrate posturing. Her breathing becomes gasping and laboured and irregular, one could use the term agonal respiration...
mmm, fuck... I gotta go fap now.
akautonomics
Bluelighter
Badandwicked, rangrz doesn't really mean that, he's just trollin'. He interpreted one of your messages on the first page as condescending. I didn't see it that way but your later messages sort of were (trollin' back I guess?). But admittedly that's what is part of what makes him fun, even if he does go a little overboard sometimes. Regardless he is actually quite intelligent and interesting and I like him. I agree mostly with his positions in this thread (not 100% though as I mentioned earlier). But I do think you are both just trollin' and should chill.