What really, really turns you on...

[tokenname]

The one that stands out went like this:

RL: "That's a beautiful tattoo on your right shoulder!"
Woman: "Thanks!"
RL: "Is that from a painting or did you design it?"
Woman: "It's a painting from the ______ Museum of Art."
RL: "Cool (umm must keep it going) Who's the artist?"
Woman: "Umm errr (turning red) I don't remember the name. (turns and walks away)"

Am I at fault here for being too nosy? Or is it strange that she didn't know this?

RL: I think it's strange..but apparently lots of ppl think I'm strange..except for a select few. If I were to put something permanently artistic w/meaning on me..then I'm pretty sure I'd wanna know more...and then be willing to share..but w/e...

The ability and acceptance of being allowed to be who you are...what could be sexier than that?
(to a woman anyway...lol.)

~token

 

[tricomb]

I was going to post a few things but jasper saved me the time a few posts up and essentially nailed my type (pun intended).


Perhaps the most important factor of all is self-respect; if a girl wouldn't be repulsed if I treated her like tricomb's post above, that's a deal-breaker.

LOL that's whats up!

 

[modern buddha]

Physical: (least important)
Eye contact. Color unimportant, glasses are fine.
A genuine smile and an easy, fun laugh. Full lips are a plus.
A natural woman who wears very little makeup and usually dresses casually.
Real breasts with sensitive nipples. Size is not important, but small is better than huge.
A nicely rounded ass. Size not important, but a female butt should look like a female butt.

Intellectual: (more important)
Above-average intelligence. Smart is sexy.
Strong sense of humor, a bit twisted. Loves to laugh.
Open-minded, curious, and interested in a variety of subjects.
Enjoys art, books, films, and music of assorted genres.
Liberal, nonjudgmental.


Emotional: (most important)
Loving, compassionate, kind, empathetic.
Enjoys wild sex as well as cuddling.
Fun-loving, enjoys being out in nature, likes animals.
Passionate, a zest for life. Also able to sit quietly and talk. Or not talk.
Knows what she wants and usually gets it, but can compromise.
Likes to be romanced.

So... where do you live?

 

[treecancer]

a self aware girl/woman who understands the word "FUN" and "Open Minded" with a bit-o Crazy mixed in

 

[tokenname]

a self aware girl/woman who understands the word "FUN" and "Open Minded" with a bit-o Crazy mixed in

Good answer!

I think today I go with:
Whatever I can't have.

Physical: (least important)
Eye contact. Color unimportant, glasses are fine.
A genuine smile and an easy, fun laugh. Full lips are a plus.
A natural woman who wears very little makeup and usually dresses casually.
Real breasts with sensitive nipples. Size is not important, but small is better than huge.
A nicely rounded ass. Size not important, but a female butt should look like a female butt.

Intellectual: (more important)
Above-average intelligence. Smart is sexy.
Strong sense of humor, a bit twisted. Loves to laugh.
Open-minded, curious, and interested in a variety of subjects.
Enjoys art, books, films, and music of assorted genres.
Liberal, nonjudgmental.


Emotional: (most important)
Loving, compassionate, kind, empathetic.
Enjoys wild sex as well as cuddling.
Fun-loving, enjoys being out in nature, likes animals.
Passionate, a zest for life. Also able to sit quietly and talk. Or not talk.
Knows what she wants and usually gets it, but can compromise.
Likes to be romanced.

So... where do you live?

+1

~token

 

[jasper kent]

Chattanooga, TN ...which isn't nearly as bad as it sounds.

 

[sms143]

Chattanooga, TN ...which isn't nearly as bad as it sounds.

I am not far from you at all. Teehee...
Honestly,you just described me to a tee. :D

 

[sms143]

I am a female.

Knee high socks
Stockings
Ugg boots
Boy shorts
Chokers
Guns
Military Uniforms & Police Uniforms
Getting choked
Teasing
The thought of being caught do "something," you're not supposed to be doing somewhere
Deepthroating
Girl on Girl action
Tasteful tattoos in moderation

 

[sms143]

Oh yeah..being handcuffed! :D

 

[_mistresspoppy_]

On women... Tattoos (tasteful and artistic, no writing) corsets, piercings, anorexia. (I know, it's horrible, but something about extremely thin girls is sexy. Not the airbrushed model type, but physically fragile and tiny.) hip and collarbones being visible are also quite sexy.
On guys.. strong, can physically overpower me... That's pretty much all it takes for my man to make me melt, no special requirements on looks. well... I have a fantasy about a nice fluffy male with a shiny black and brown coat, but my boyfriend draws the line at letting me do a German shepherd anytime soon.
Sexually... Being rough and dirty, beastiality, light bondage, firm touches and electrifyingly light caresses, being watched doing anything dirty, well placed clothespins, speculums, threesomes...
Even my long time partner has trouble with some of my kinks. Yes, I'm a freak, and proud!

 

[tricomb]

I am a female.

Knee high socks
Stockings
Ugg boots
Boy shorts
Chokers
Guns
Military Uniforms & Police Uniforms
Getting choked
Teasing
The thought of being caught do "something," you're not supposed to be doing somewhere
Deepthroating
Girl on Girl action
Tasteful tattoos in moderation

Nice list except for the bolded section

Girls always want to cock my shotgun! haha but it would take a real woman to earn my trust enough to touch my Mossberg. You can look but you can't touch....

 

[tokenname]

Nice list except for the bolded section

Girls always want to cock my shotgun! haha but it would take a real woman to earn my trust enough to touch my Mossberg. You can look but you can't touch....

cough...cough...i am an excellent shot...

 

[tricomb]

I miss you already

 

[redhawkum]

I am a female.

Knee high socks
Stockings
Ugg boots
Boy shorts
Chokers
Guns
Military Uniforms & Police Uniforms
Getting choked
Teasing
The thought of being caught do "something," you're not supposed to be doing somewhere
Deepthroating
Girl on Girl action
Tasteful tattoos in moderation

You sound like a lot of fun! Girls with guns are a big turn on for me.

 

[badandwicked]

. I have a fantasy about a nice fluffy male with a shiny black and brown coat, but my boyfriend draws the line at letting me do a German shepherd anytime soon.

Sexually... beastiality

Even my long time partner has trouble with some of my kinks. Yes, I'm a freak, and proud!

Not flaming, but I think most people would have trouble with this one

 

[tokenname]

Not flaming, but I think most people would have trouble with this one

agreed.
I love my dog...but it's a purely platonic relationship we have together.

wonders..how do you know it's consensual....
decides...i'd rather not know..


mistresspoppy be proud of who you are..there is definitely only one of you...

~token

 

[pastelcircus]

i fugging love it when i'm spooning or sitting on top of a guy, and he's running his fingers over my lower back/side and he touches a certain spot. i get this super sensual twitch reaction and it automatically makes my back arch a little. mmmmmmh.

 

[Cohesion]

I'm immediately aroused when I look into the eyes of someone of a different culture from my own. The heat is turned up in .0001 seconds. Sometimes, an explosion.

 

[rangrz]

I am a female.

Knee high socks
Stockings
Ugg boots
Boy shorts
Chokers
Guns
Military Uniforms & Police Uniforms
Getting choked
Teasing
The thought of being caught do "something," you're not supposed to be doing somewhere
Deepthroating
Girl on Girl action
Tasteful tattoos in moderation

You should come visit me at work. *shifts C7A2 around on sling*

me:

Physically...I dunno actually...I guess a preference for girls who are pale/very light skinned, slim and small...like you know, 5'3" and 110lbs with a 32A type small. Pink, not red lips. Well kept and delicate hands with clear or no nail polish. Fit and smooth legs. I'm going for "cute" rather then "hot". Clothing, again, cute, feminine and playful...but not always feminine, I also like a girl who can kick it in 6 pocket trousers, boots and carry a pack around in the sun.

Intellect: Educated in some kind of physical/natural science or closely related and highly technical field like engineering or medicine. I am strict as fuck on that. Curious about the world around us, asks "why" and "how" about everything. Is comfortable with formal systems and context free grammars...i.e. mathematics or programming languages, to at least a basic degree. But playful with it, able to make witty comments and jokes rapidly on the spot. Able to argue well...like as in both making logical and valid points, as well as having a decent grasp of rhetoric and sophistry....I like to sit up late and argue about tl;dr shit no one cares about. Likes big thick textbooks and peer-reviewed journal articles. Not religious.

Social and emotional. PLAYFUL. Must not be srs, must like unkel dolan and similar things. Must like /b/. No butthurt allowed. Should um like rap and dubstep? lolwut. Should be confident and assertive with both me and other people...to the point of telling me I'm a retard and to go fuck myself if I am indeed being stupid. Not into pop culture. Should be critical of other people when they are spewing words and it is obvious they don't have a clue what they are they are talking about. Adventurous and risk taking. Not easily ruffled, not afraid of the world...like i.e. should not think twice about creeping into a derelict building, or walking down an alley at 3a.m. in a rough hood. But should also be super affectionate with people she is close with.

secksea tiems: into an open relationship...hopefully lieks other girls. Assorted kinks, I'm not too picky so long as she is not a boring vanilla type. Hopefully she likes some sm and is a top tho. At same time, should like petting and kissing and stuff. High libido and a high need for physical affection period, including not sex stuff.

I has a specimen that fits the above, so fuck yeah!

 

[Lost Ego]

When i can see up her skirt. Especially when she opens her legs for me to see those sexy panties on purpose. MMM Nothing sends me into a frenzy like that. There's also nothing like watching a girl give herself a big orgasm

And then there's the usual, kissing me on the neck, ears, teasing me, etc. I love when we're making out and i go to take off her panties and they're soaked already. LOVE a wet pussy. I love it when a girl is super horny and slutty as hell and initiating everything.

Eyes. Nothing does the trick better than a long, deep, meaningful stare into each others eyes. Best across a room when no one else is noticing it.
.... and self confident women.
...And most of all hearing/seeing/feeling her enjoying it/coming.

Fuck yeah, that long stare with a girl you dont even know, it's like you're looking into her soul. Makes me wanna make love to her right there and then. Confidence - yes! Making her cum - YES!

I love a girl who will dominate me, i love doing it in public, and i love watching people fuck/masturbate.