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What is YOUR sexual fetish?

Nice, Becky. I am truly happy that you have found a partner who's got your "sexploration" going. Again, even if it feels strange, awkward, embararssing or what not at the start, a life lived without ever trying shit is...well the beginning to some sad cliche ;)

As with (3), well just remember that the person physically put in the submissive role (be it tied up, blindfolded, or various) actually maintains the psychological power. Assuming you are in a good relationship where you are open about sexuality (and share an escape word regarding such sexual stuff), your (showingly dominant) partner can only get off as much as you let him. Enjoy the submissive role and he will enjoy the dominant role more. BD(SM) MUST be a two-way street or else it's not cool.

I wrote a huge thing in SLR about the power-struggle (or power-relationship) between dominants and submissives a while ago, but I cannot find it at the moment. But just know that (3) on my list is best done when BOTH parties enjoy it equally as much; one physically dominant and one psychologically dominant, switched-up when needed.

Again, good to hear you've got a guy for sexploration :)
 
holy fuck the human race is a bunch of sexual freaks =)

Id pretty much try 90 percent of the things on here ^_^

Hottest thing evar is other people who really love sex.

Number 4 "That shit is hott and I don't care what people say. If I have a partner that I desire, I want to know what her breath, tongue, mouth, teeth, etc. taste like."

Omg our drool must become one! I so know wtf your talking about. I only get like that with girls I got chemistry with though, or its like eww take a halls or something.
 
Awesome thread.

Personally, i like threesomes.

Two guy threesomes.

There is just something about seeing a girl getting nailed by two.

Nothing aggressive, nice and cozy.
 
painful, angry, aggressive sex that draws blood...it really is not possible to get too rough with me. slammed against a wall, bent over anything that will stay put scars from biting or scratching..hair pulled out...burns...yanking her into a closet or somewhere like that in public and fucking her mercilessly..i want her to be sore and reminded what just happened with every step she takes for the next few days. and vice versa. teasing for hours to the point of torture and begging to get off while restraine...stopping repeatedly right before she's gonna come and repeating it til she gets pissed and has to make herself come while i watch...strap-ons, giving and receiving. causing her to bleed..and kissing it/licking it away. just fuckin vicious.

gentle romantic lovey dovey a la cruel intentions is nice too though...gotta keep it balanced. <3:)
 
Mariposa said:
This is going to sound very vanilla, but I love to have my hair brushed and styled, even platonically or by a hairdresser. I need to be very relaxed during sex to enjoy it fully. Pet, brush, or wash my hair and I become a blubbering mess.
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Oh me too! I especially loved it when i had waist-length hair- I would get SO excited about going to the hairdresser, i'd almost be beside myself. =D I would constantly ask anyone who was around me to brush/play with my hair and don't even get me started on when i'd have pills, lol.

I have a bit of a thing for dominance and submission - and like to mix it up.
 
Do girls like watching guys wank?

Draigan said:
holy fuck the human race is a bunch of sexual freaks =)
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Nar, we're pretty tame. Think about hippos. What do they fuck? Other hippos. Wild and freaky stuff that. At least we don't fuck hippos.

I know for many guys it's a turn on to watch a girl finger herself. But how about you girls? Does it do anything for you to watch a guy wank, or could you take it or leave it and rather move onto something else?
 
Sex with a really strict religious girl...Christian preferably. She can keep the crucifix around her neck on.

A few girls mentioned liking it a bit rough and being dominated. Reminds me of this bit Louis CK did in his standup routine. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=za7jQ1s1BV0
It's a short clip...only goes for just over a minute. I'm not suggesting anyone here is the type Louis' complaining about - it just gives me a giggle! :D
 
Hmmm I could go hours on this but i wont.

I really have a thing for cute girls who wear Ugg Boots. Its like guys who like women who wear high heels but for me its uggs.
 
Definitely into roleplay, choking till the point she ALMOST fades out then releasing while absolutely jack hammering her, face fucking (force feeding) , bukakke, and overall being dominant.... The roleplay can stretch miles though ;)

Mild fetishes would be tattoos (even HALF as many as I have lol), small tits and waist with a nice big ass.. Love submissive women.
 
RedLeader and captainbackfire: yes, yes, yesssss! (though probably not as much drawing blood as captainbackfire... it sounds hot though)

Having broken up with my boyfriend after 4 years of vanilla sex (he just didn't want to play!) I'm getting into bondage with my current lover, as well as lots of ass play and anal, sub/dom, doing it in public places, We're also hoping we'll find someone for a threesome...

I'm quite promiscuous by nature and I have a thing for one night-stands, I get off on the anonymity of it and the smell/taste of a new man, especially knowing I'll never see them again - lol I usually act like a typical guy and never call back, and I'm really cute and petite and innocent-looking, it's fun to pretend to be shy with a new lover just for them to find out I'm filthy in bed :)
 
lola said:
RedLeader and captainbackfire: yes, yes, yesssss! (though probably not as much drawing blood as captainbackfire... it sounds hot though)

Having broken up with my boyfriend after 4 years of vanilla sex (he just didn't want to play!) I'm getting into bondage with my current lover, as well as lots of ass play and anal, sub/dom, doing it in public places, We're also hoping we'll find someone for a threesome...

I'm quite promiscuous by nature and I have a thing for one night-stands, I get off on the anonymity of it and the smell/taste of a new man, especially knowing I'll never see them again - lol I usually act like a typical guy and never call back, and I'm really cute and petite and innocent-looking, it's fun to pretend to be shy with a new lover just for them to find out I'm filthy in bed :)
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Will you marry me? :p
 
Lol maybe I should, I can see you're a fellow fan of face-fucking, and I've got a couple of small tattoos ;)

Then again... it would mess up my whole non-monogamous lifestyle :)
 
RedLeader said:
(6) "Climaxing Mutual Masturbation." OMG is this hot, and people don't even know about it. You and your partner lay in bed next to each other and begin to pleasure yourselves. You can look at each other, but no touching. You get yourselves worked up and learn to do it in synch...and 20 seconds before orgasm you switch hands over and onto each other. Fucking hell does it feel good for both parties to have foreign hands on privates about ready to go off. You can time the orgasms right and it's pure ecstasy for both <3
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That sounds good, files under 'to do'!

I wouldn't say I have any particular fetish other than that I'm generally pretty filthy and like sex to be rough and dirty. The bigger the puddle of bodily fluids we end up in the better. Never done any watersports but it intrigues me for sure, scat is a step too far me personally but definitely want to try watersports (receiving or giving) with the right person. I've been on the receiving end of rimming but never given, definitely willing with the right person though.
 
MynameisnotDeja said:
There is a difference between a turn on and a fetish. Not to be nitpicky but I think what a lot of people are describing are just average turn ons, not an actual sexual fetish.

Bondage, submission and helplessness are a big fetish for me. Usually if I look at porn/erotica it's more of the fetish/s&m variety than sex. Straight sex porn doesn't do much for me. I haven't yet really explored this idea with a guy too much as most guys I wouldn't trust enough to allow to tie me up. But it really arouses me, the idea of being tied up and made to be the sexual "slave" of someone I really love. In a loving and gentle way of course. I want to be teased and tormented until I'm begging for it, and then when I can't take anymore and am near tears from the begging I want to be released and have the hottest most passionate sex of my life. MMmmm yes.. thats definitely my fetish.

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Now that's hot!
 
This is my kind of thread...

I think that there's not much that I'm not into, honestly. I draw the line at a few things, but the key word there is "few."
My biggest fetishes:


  • Biting
  • Blood
  • Bondage
  • BDSM
  • Pet Play
  • Multiple Penetration
  • Needles
  • Edge Play
  • Rape Fantasy
  • Giant Stuffed Teddy Bears Equipped With Strapons
  • Forced Orgasms
  • And three really questionable fetishes...

I also have a lot of minor fetishes/turn ons and could talk about this FOR DAYS, but there's a brief list.
 
I like how this thread evolved 1. page was "Oh I like stockings".
Now the stockings are off!
 
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