Chaos23
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What is YOUR sexual fetish?
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Omg. Just...wow. I would love that lol.
Since this turned into a turn on thread, and I can't find an active turn on thread I'll share some of mine. (I lie, I didn't really look.) Anything to do with more than one man pleasing just one girl. Huge huge deal with me. Too bad my fiance isn't into threesomes. Major turn on to think about when pleasuring myself, though.
I've always had a fascination with public sex. Like being fucked in a room surrounded by windows so people could watch. That would be amazing.
I also love being woken up in the middle of the night. For some reason I become over stimulated and can orgasm from anything.
Lately, and apologies as this isn't a fetish per say, I've had this thing for young cute blondes of the vagina variety (think Katie Cassidy, Dianna Agron, etc). Sometimes with my partner I kinda imagine a blonde of said description joining in. I guess this is more of a deal to me than it sounds as I'm a gay dude and happily partnered. If we were ever to try a threesome I'd nominate a spunky blonde gal to join in 
lil angel15
Bluelight Crew
not in a necessarily submissive way, but in an I-wanna-get-real-hot-n-bothered sorta way....
Yeah I could go some of that
Thanatos
Bluelighter
Big butt and hips with nice legs. I'm not really into women with large breasts but A killer ass is amazing.
I love biting and scratching, that's how you know everything is perfect on both sides. It's sexy as he'll when a girl bites lip, and gives you her puppy dog eyes. Sweet but you know she's a freak underneath it all..
I love biting and scratching, that's how you know everything is perfect on both sides. It's sexy as he'll when a girl bites lip, and gives you her puppy dog eyes. Sweet but you know she's a freak underneath it all..
arthunter888
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LOL... there is some pretty hardcore shit in this thread..... Awesome! I'll jump on the bandwagon this time:
I always wanted the perfect blow job. Preferably the lady wearing some sexy outfit wakes me up on a hot summer morning by kissing me moving top to bottom. Then she starts with a slow, deep, wet suck (lots of tongue and drool). She gets things real wet, maybe adding some edible BJ lotion. And after lots of delayed momentum, teasing, paced action, and deep throats here and there, she turns up the suction when I'm near the end and lets me blow while still gripped in her throat. Yea, I know, kind of graphic.
It's just so unsatisfying to see porn blow jobs with the quick up-and-down boring techniques, and the biggest let down is 99% of the time the guy blows onto rather than inside her mouth. I think guys would be generally happier with the above scenario :-].
I always wanted the perfect blow job. Preferably the lady wearing some sexy outfit wakes me up on a hot summer morning by kissing me moving top to bottom. Then she starts with a slow, deep, wet suck (lots of tongue and drool). She gets things real wet, maybe adding some edible BJ lotion. And after lots of delayed momentum, teasing, paced action, and deep throats here and there, she turns up the suction when I'm near the end and lets me blow while still gripped in her throat. Yea, I know, kind of graphic.
It's just so unsatisfying to see porn blow jobs with the quick up-and-down boring techniques, and the biggest let down is 99% of the time the guy blows onto rather than inside her mouth. I think guys would be generally happier with the above scenario :-].
Mariposa
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Heh, thank you! *blushes* Not a clue why it gets me going the way it does. In non-sexual situations, it even renders me mostly unable to speak.
Another big one for me: a guy who knows about finance and economics. It appeals to the capitalist pigdog in me.
^ +1 finance turn-on. my boyfriend is an investment banker and i love when uses big, confusing financial terminology. as much as i'm sure a feminist would like to slap me silly, in certain sexual situations, i enjoy the feeling of inferiority.
i haven't explored it much, but i'm a total voyeur. watching or hearing people have sex or even reading or graphically being told a sexual experience is a real turn-on. (this thread is actually getting me hot and bothered!)
my newest "fix", if you will, has been having my boyfriend watch porn while i go down on him.
i haven't explored it much, but i'm a total voyeur. watching or hearing people have sex or even reading or graphically being told a sexual experience is a real turn-on. (this thread is actually getting me hot and bothered!)
my newest "fix", if you will, has been having my boyfriend watch porn while i go down on him.
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Mariposa
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Feminism and finance are not mutually exclusive.
I control my meager budget on my own, as every lady should. No need for terminology; I am poor on paper but quite wealthy in life. I would not have it any other way. Guys that have their financial substantiality on lock get my respect. Until I meet one (and I would not work too effectively with one that did not) I'll handle my own bucks, however few they may be.
I absolutely LOVE cute, skinny (not TOO skinny) girls with small tits -- That don't shave.
I LOVE underarm hair and a nice, hairy bush. Dammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmit boy!!
The girl has to be pretty darn cute though. Thick or ugly chicks with hairy pits are a total turnoff.
Hairy bushes are just so rare these days though... Such a pity.
I also hate deodorant. BLECH. I'm not talking about a chick that doesn't shower or keep herself up, but if the girl takes a shower in the morning and doesn't use deodorant --- by the end of the day.. WATCH OUT. Just perfect.
I guess I just like my girls natural, to keep it simple.
I LOVE underarm hair and a nice, hairy bush. Dammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmit boy!!
The girl has to be pretty darn cute though. Thick or ugly chicks with hairy pits are a total turnoff.
Hairy bushes are just so rare these days though... Such a pity.
I also hate deodorant. BLECH. I'm not talking about a chick that doesn't shower or keep herself up, but if the girl takes a shower in the morning and doesn't use deodorant --- by the end of the day.. WATCH OUT. Just perfect.
I guess I just like my girls natural, to keep it simple.
when in rome
Bluelighter
Love outfits and dress up. Not really into role playing though.
RedLeader
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Damn, I know a bunch of financial terms from college, but I've never met a woman who cared to hear me ramble them off. Most just see it as (unappealing) nerdiness if I do go off on those tangents. Interesting fetish though.
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My newest one I've decided is face-licking. I want a partner to lick my face all over...warm breath...stopping for the occasional kiss.
Is that weird?
RedLeader
Bluelight Crew
Okay, so this is going to be one of those posts on BL - where someone with an established postcount comes clean with a bunch of sexual fetishes. I don't care if people who know me IRL read this, and I really don't care if the vast majority of you think I am strange. I'm hiding behind a computer, describing to the world the odd things which get me off and it's ultimately up to you what you think of them.
(1) "Ass-jobs." I use this term in analogy to "boob-jobs." It's where the woman stimulates the man's
by humping it with her behind. No anal sex, no. Just a lubed up situation where the female is essentially riding the man in reverse-cowgirl, but without insertion; the man's is being massaged by the crack of the woman's ass. This can be acccompanied by a "reach-around handjob" where the woman massages the man's as the ass does the work. This is soooooo erotic.
(2) A good Handjob. Nothing beats (pun intended) a woman who really knows how to give a handjob. A good handjob far outdoes a good blowjob in the long run. Why? Well at minimum, a handjob is basically a tease for a blowjob, and teases get people going. With proper lube, proper visuals and proper knowing how it will end, a woman can learn to give a man a HJ better than he ever could work on himself. And I say that physically; throw in the psychological aspect of it and WOW.
(3) Bound and Blindfolded. Total submission on the man's part; the woman can give any form of erotic action as she chooses (sans halts in extreme situations). It's so fucking good to have a woman tear her nails into your back to draw blood, to spank you to the point of nausea, to surprise you to the point of joyful passion, etc. It's fun to be controlled and there's little more erotic than a woman who has that look of "I want to dominate you" on her face. So sexy.
(4) Kissing. A lot of women seem to be shy of (deep) kissing. Not just a peck on the lips. Like..."exploring each others' mouths like teenagers" kissing. That shit is hott and I don't care what people say. If I have a partner that I desire, I want to know what her breath, tongue, mouth, teeth, etc. taste like. In a flaire of sensations; I want her all over me. Of course I love cute pecks and such with partners in public and all. But close the door, set the enviornment and I want some deep kissing. I want to know what my partner's spit tastes like, as creepy as that sounds %)
(5) Anal-Foreplay Man, I love this stuff and I wish more women did too. But of course it's a two-way street; one must be comfortable with one's partner before such happens. I love anal-fingering a partner to her pleasure, and I love a partner anal-fingering me to my own pleasure. Physically and psychologically; it's fucking sexy. Of course each pair must choose how far they want to prepare - from enemas to doing it all-nautral - but it's naughtly and erotic and just sooo good.
To extend from (5), analingus, or the licking of another's asshole (and/or cleavage) is also sexy in the same naughty way
(6) "Climaxing Mutual Masturbation." OMG is this hot, and people don't even know about it. You and your partner lay in bed next to each other and begin to pleasure yourselves. You can look at each other, but no touching. You get yourselves worked up and learn to do it in synch...and 20 seconds before orgasm you switch hands over and onto each other. Fucking hell does it feel good for both parties to have foreign hands on privates about ready to go off. You can time the orgasms right and it's pure ecstasy for both
(7) 69. I just love the position. I love the idea of a partner being comfortable enough with me that she'll plant her ass right on my face - wide open. That's so sexy. And sure, likewise, if she wants me on top, that's a different rush knowing she's that comfortable with me and wants me to do that for her. I know it's hard to do simultaneous oral sex, but the moral of 69 is psychological, not physical...and it's a good addition to foreplay for couples who really want to build the sexual psychology up.
(8 ) Biting. Each other. Wherever, whenever, however. Oh yea :D
(9) Feet. I love licking/sucking a woman's foot/toes. So much can be done with that, and I love enlighting new people on these things. Especially shy new people who are at the beginning hesitent, but at the end moaning.
(10) Ass-cleavage. Damn, does this get me off. I feel lik a perv somtimes in public when I see it, but if a significant other knows I am into ass cleavage and can do it for me at the right times, OMG Seeing the lower-back (perhaps with dimples) come down in a V-fashion to the ass - I just want to turn into a laborador puppy and lap that all up. Sorry to be explicit. But damn...
(11-?) Anything my partner wants. I have wierd fetishes. Almost anything she could ask for I'd do.
Feels good to be open about this all. Wow, I am really a freak
(1) "Ass-jobs." I use this term in analogy to "boob-jobs." It's where the woman stimulates the man's
by humping it with her behind. No anal sex, no. Just a lubed up situation where the female is essentially riding the man in reverse-cowgirl, but without insertion; the man's is being massaged by the crack of the woman's ass. This can be acccompanied by a "reach-around handjob" where the woman massages the man's as the ass does the work. This is soooooo erotic.(2) A good Handjob. Nothing beats (pun intended) a woman who really knows how to give a handjob. A good handjob far outdoes a good blowjob in the long run. Why? Well at minimum, a handjob is basically a tease for a blowjob, and teases get people going. With proper lube, proper visuals and proper knowing how it will end, a woman can learn to give a man a HJ better than he ever could work on himself. And I say that physically; throw in the psychological aspect of it and WOW.
(3) Bound and Blindfolded. Total submission on the man's part; the woman can give any form of erotic action as she chooses (sans halts in extreme situations). It's so fucking good to have a woman tear her nails into your back to draw blood, to spank you to the point of nausea, to surprise you to the point of joyful passion, etc. It's fun to be controlled and there's little more erotic than a woman who has that look of "I want to dominate you" on her face. So sexy.
(4) Kissing. A lot of women seem to be shy of (deep) kissing. Not just a peck on the lips. Like..."exploring each others' mouths like teenagers" kissing. That shit is hott and I don't care what people say. If I have a partner that I desire, I want to know what her breath, tongue, mouth, teeth, etc. taste like. In a flaire of sensations; I want her all over me. Of course I love cute pecks and such with partners in public and all. But close the door, set the enviornment and I want some deep kissing. I want to know what my partner's spit tastes like, as creepy as that sounds %)
(5) Anal-Foreplay Man, I love this stuff and I wish more women did too. But of course it's a two-way street; one must be comfortable with one's partner before such happens. I love anal-fingering a partner to her pleasure, and I love a partner anal-fingering me to my own pleasure. Physically and psychologically; it's fucking sexy. Of course each pair must choose how far they want to prepare - from enemas to doing it all-nautral - but it's naughtly and erotic and just sooo good.
To extend from (5), analingus, or the licking of another's asshole (and/or cleavage) is also sexy in the same naughty way
(6) "Climaxing Mutual Masturbation." OMG is this hot, and people don't even know about it. You and your partner lay in bed next to each other and begin to pleasure yourselves. You can look at each other, but no touching. You get yourselves worked up and learn to do it in synch...and 20 seconds before orgasm you switch hands over and onto each other. Fucking hell does it feel good for both parties to have foreign hands on privates about ready to go off. You can time the orgasms right and it's pure ecstasy for both
(7) 69. I just love the position. I love the idea of a partner being comfortable enough with me that she'll plant her ass right on my face - wide open. That's so sexy. And sure, likewise, if she wants me on top, that's a different rush knowing she's that comfortable with me and wants me to do that for her. I know it's hard to do simultaneous oral sex, but the moral of 69 is psychological, not physical...and it's a good addition to foreplay for couples who really want to build the sexual psychology up.
(8 ) Biting. Each other. Wherever, whenever, however. Oh yea :D
(9) Feet. I love licking/sucking a woman's foot/toes. So much can be done with that, and I love enlighting new people on these things. Especially shy new people who are at the beginning hesitent, but at the end moaning.
(10) Ass-cleavage. Damn, does this get me off. I feel lik a perv somtimes in public when I see it, but if a significant other knows I am into ass cleavage and can do it for me at the right times, OMG
Seeing the lower-back (perhaps with dimples) come down in a V-fashion to the ass - I just want to turn into a laborador puppy and lap that all up. Sorry to be explicit. But damn...(11-?) Anything my partner wants. I have wierd fetishes. Almost anything she could ask for I'd do.
Feels good to be open about this all. Wow, I am really a freak
RedLeader
Bluelight Crew
^
True. Makes dating and relationshipping a bit complicated![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
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Feels good to be open about this all. Wow, I am really a freak
True. Makes dating and relationshipping a bit complicated
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Bomboclat
Bluelight Crew
I have a thing for business attire.
It gets me all kinds of randy
It gets me all kinds of randy