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What do guys really think of girl's bodies?

To all the girls out there stuck in the body image trap:

For your your own sake, be fair to your self when you look in the mirror. Not everyone was cut out to become a supermodel. By all means, make the effort to look after your body if it makes you feel good, but taking it to extremes will only hurt yourself.

I don't want to this to sound like a boring lecture (too late:)) but it's in your best interests to meet yourself in the middle and accept yourself in your own skin. Be proud of your form - it is a work of art no matter what shape it is.

Believe it.
 
it sucks that when i was at my sickest from anxiety/not being able to eat, that's when i got the most complements on my body. I feel SO much sexier when i have a little ass on me, and strong muscles from running!
 
Grace Park is attractive and BSG is a great fucking show (best on TV right now IMO), but SORRY, Katee Sackhoff (aka Starbuck) is way, way hotter (as well as less stereotypically 'perfect'). And racetrack is hotter too, but not as hot as Starbuck.

I realize that guys don't care that much about women's bodies -- not to the extent that women think they do, at least. Personally, I think deep down most women realize this, and actually care more about how they are perceived by OTHER women. Females are generally very, very competitive with each other, much more so than men, and appearance is one of the biggest contests.
 
i don't have certain want, or need (as some would call it) in reference to a woman's body type, i've had interest in all sorts:
 
kittyinthedark: i have an eating disorder, its not so easy to just gain weight. but i am going into a treatment program soon, where i will have to (which is fine, its voluntary, not forced, and i want help and what not).

but thank you! comments like that are helpful. i think curves are generally much more sexy, sticks are gross. im not attracted to stickly thin women, and would rather them healthy looking and athletic. i still manage to have curves and be thin, but i dont really see myself as skinny. its fucked. once again thanks hun, you rock.
 
-|Twiztd|- said:
i don't have certain want, or need (as some would call it) in reference to a woman's body type, i've had interest in all sorts:

I agree. Come to think of it I've only dated plump girls.
 
I think its the media/society/whatever you want to call it. Why are so many guys going to the gym these days ? Probably half to get bigger/stronger but also because we are being conditioned to think women only like big muscly guys. Same goes for women. With guys I think its a trophy type of thing sometimes. A lot of guys want to have a better looking girl than their mates , its that competitive nature. Im not saying its right and im not saying all guys think like that but it does happen. Girls give a shit about looks as well. Last week at a club I was sitting on some lounges. During the course of the night I left my jacket on a lounge. When I remembered it I looked over to see four glamours sitting there. You should have seen the look of horror on these girls faces to think a skinny ass bloke like me was approaching them. When they realised all I wanted was my jacket they gave it to me with that type of contempt only really up - themselves , wanna be models can do.
 
crystalcallas said:

I would NEVER in a million years walk up to someone and tell them they were ugly.


Being a fat kid , and having to fight the flab forever as my cross to bear certainly taught me a lot about compassion and acceptance of all sorts of people.

And i agree with everything lacey k posted =D

acceptance?? WTF??

by just reading your past posts you judge guys based on their body what the hell are you talking about?


but back on topic guys care just as much as women care about a guys body
 
A perfect body for me has curves, not meat, not skin n bone. Huge breasts don't particularly turn me on, just enough for a good handful, a few good mouthfuls.

Then again I find a lot of girls stunningly beautiful that others wouldn't consider more than average...I also believe for a girl to be truly 'beautiful', she must have much more than simply being 'hot' or anything like that. Of course it matters, but I see beauty in peoples actions.

One thing that can make the most gorgeous girls unappealing is believing that they arent hot, or saying things like im not hot when people compliment them, or making a big deal about their appearance to get attention and compliments...i hate that.
 
I guess that im a bit fussy, but moreso fussy with their maturity and abilty to think and intelligence. A good body is no good without being able to have a good conversation.
 
allow me to throw a monkey wrench into the gears and Spark it up .
I think, and it is my goddamn opinion (nonhumble) , so you can't convince me otherwise __or can you ? :

all men are subconsciously HORRIFIED by woman's bodies.
they are disgusted by,
terrified by,
mystified by ,
and look down on
women's Bodies !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

they resent them ,

they are confused by them

and yet they are totally FUCKING afraid
to learn all about them

and those who seem to learn all about them
are the worst offenders
(hahah ! yes I am thinking about he film DEAD RINGERS !!! )
cuz most don't truly luv them , they fetishize them .

Now I dont mean to sound like a hardcore feminist girl ( I am not )
or a Misogynistic hardcore Gay Man or Macho Man ( I am not)

I'm just a freak of nature !!!!!!!!!!! but here is my most important point : I typed above "subconsciously"

so it's not a big fucking deal. IOW : Deep down inside I find women's bodies bizarre :
baby factories ,
extra glandular,
menstrual bleeding ,
A cycle keyed into surrounding women's cycle's ,
asses storing fat for some unknown future event,
a vast variety of shapes from twig-like to corpulent !!

but , okay , fact is I
think they are HOT 'n' Loveable !!
and I dont expect their bodies to be perfect. I expect they all have something
like a little celulite (spell?) or dry skin or one breast bigger than other .

it is a shame our
Culture's entertainment system
SELLS US IDEALs instead of REALITIES and BRainwashes us
but fuck 'em for lying !!!

I made prediction to a pal about 10 years ago. no, 15 yrs ago, that the fashion industry woulf no longer have GAUNT models in ten years, because as a RELIEF from the runway skeletons ( who I actually dug at the time )
people would want REAL GIRLS modelling , and the industry would begin SELLING US REALITY , no more airbrushed silicon girls in porn and no more anorectics in fashion
and guess fucking
what
??

BOY O BOY

I was WRONG !!!!!!!
 
A study that was conducted at the University of Pennsylvania asked women to rate, on a number scale, what their ideal body weight was, what they perceived their body image as, and what they guessed men to prefer. The average women said their ideal weight was 2.75, that they believed men to prefer men 2.9, and that they perceived themself as a 3.6. When men were asked what they preferred, it averaged as 3.25.

Why is it that women have this misconception of body image? Well, if you look at supermodels, they are all very thin, thus they assume that men like this ultra thin look. But you know what? Supermodels are generally marketing their products toward women, not men. Therefore, they're trying to look ideal to women. If you look at a perfume ad, then at a beer ad, you'll almost always find the woman in the beer ad to be heavier. The whole Kate Moss look is a joke- guys laugh at her for being so thin.
 
Poison IV said:
American women (and men) are fat. This is a proven fact.
agreed....

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Speaking from personal experience last year when i was a size 10-12 i got a lot more attention from guys as opposed to now, im a size 8. I got sick and lost a lot of my weight and i think some people just look best at a normal size.
 
I'm happy with the way I look...All the gripes I used to have...like not having really long legs (thats about the only one actually) don't really matter. Though I'm very lucky to be naturally thin WITH curves.
Generally I dont care what people think of me, and I don't care if guys aren't attracted to me cos who ever said I NEED to be with someone? It just so happens I DO have someone who is fantastic and loves everything about me including my figure. I think that people attract those that are on their level. The models get the models cos thats what they want...some people only care about looks and they will attract others of that type.
 
For me, it's the brains and beauty combo. Hard to find. Some have the brains, some have the beauty, but to put it all together is a rare breed. Woof!;)
 
i'm just gonna repost what i said in a similar thread...

me! said:
i'm just curious as to why so many girls and boys(cause we are exposed to "ideal male bodies" too!) are weak enough to fall for what the media says is "hot".

as long as your healthy(i.e. not anorexic, not overweight), you will more than likely be attractive. remember, not everyone is genetically able to get all super thin or hard bodied... but you can maximise what you do have through proper diet and exercise...

and wtf is up with this "unnatural" kick? if it exists, its natural. nothing "unnatural" can exist. its the same extreme as "supernatural"... impossible. now if we are referring to what a human animal in it's natural habitat would be like, how many of us actually live in our natural habitat? hell, what is a human's natural habitat? grassland and light forest? wait... i'm not even sure about that one....

one more thing. those models and super models are not there to be paid attention to. they are there to model clothes. most of the designs you see on the runway are extreme versions of what actually gets produced, made that way to accent the lines or cut or other features of the item. models are literally supposed to be walking hangers... if you are ignorant of that pretty much self-evident fact and allow yourself to think thats how you should look, then something is wrong with you.

as far as(most of) the movie stars and such, they are PAID to look the way they do. i'm willing to bet that if you were paid to stay in shape and look fine, you would to.


last off, from what i have seen of the bluelighters (male and female) who have had the balls to post pics of themselves (in ALL states of dress and undress) we are a pretty good looking group...
 
I didn;t have time to read through all the posts ( I will tomorrow), but I honestly think that if a girl has a good personality, they already won me over...

I hate women who have EXTREMELY nice bodies, but are dumber than a box of rocks.

For me, thier personality comes first... It obviously helps to have a nice body, but if you have a killer personality, I would not even notice any little 'flaw' that a girl has.
 
Visually, I'm first attracted to the beautiful, statuesque girls, the natural "head turners". But, upon striking up a conversation with girls that fit this description, almost everytime I walk away disappointed at their distinct lack of desirable personality traits. The girls that come to mind are all very beautiful w/ killer bodies, but I think God actually made them that way as a survival technique. Because without these amazing looks for some guy to be attracted to and then provide for them, these girls would likely starve to death in a back alley.

That might have been a little over the top, but you get my point.

It's all about personality, confidence, and self-esteem. I absolutely hate having to assuage a girl's self-esteem by assuring her that she is thin and beautiful, and thus completely desirable by my sex. If a girl has the audacity to complain about her weight to me, she is likely to be upset when I agree with her that she is a fat cow. It isn't looking like a fat cow so much thats a turn off, but acting/feeling like one.

I've been attracted to 'heavier' girls before, based solely on the desirable personality traits that they projected. It's impossible to love and be loved by someone who doesn't first love themselves.

With that said, I'm gonna have to agree with rhapture's statement that brains and beauty are an awesome combo. Beautiful mind+beautiful body=me following closely behind in full salute, like a horny puppy. :)
 
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