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What do guys really think of girl's bodies?

imho, I like girls to look a certain way, but in reality it doesn't work like that. I do know that my view is somewhat skewered and I go to school at one of the hottest campus's(sp) in the us. It is nice to have standards though...tone/fit/athletic/chubby/tall/certain type of boobs/ass. To each his own.

I've been told I'm pretty picky, but that's just me. I have friends who are chicks that get guys and they are definitely not perfectly formed. Other ones who I think are hot...in shape, toned don't do so well in that department.

I think guys would love it if a girl fit their image of perfection, but they are still happy if that chick doesn't. Total package and not just looks.

If I were you, I wouldn't worry so much about how I look. It's a turn off if a girl is paranoid about her looks and counts calories.
 
werd to the total package...

however that said - i'd also like a girl who knew how to look after herself.
i dont mean that in a shallow kinda way, but if you want to attract the opposite sex or the same sex (whether ur male or female). you will have to dress, be healthy, be confident, shape your body, do your hair, etc to impress.

i like running and going to the gym, and it would be a total turn off if my chick sat home and watched tv and snog out on chips n drinks

i am all up for being comfortable with what you look like and who you are, but face facts - your not going to get very far.
 
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I think it's reasonable for people with similar body types to be attracted to each other. Someone who's buff or toned isn't usually going to want somebody who is fat. If one of a couple disrespects his or her body, that shows disrepect for his/her partner. It's a big turn off for the one who is in shape.
BTW, how come american women are attracted only to millionaires?
 
I personally am only attracted to certain types of girls.
As I'm only about 5 foot 5" I normally go after girls the same height or shorter.
I'm not really into girls with large busts but somewhere inbetween.
I also don't really go for the super skinny model look but prefer a girl with a bit more of a figure, there's nothing sexier than a great shaped ass. As for cellulite, the odd pimple, or any other small detail like that I think you'd be kidding yourself if you ever found a girl that was perfect. If you really wanted to you could always pick something you don't like about someone, but it shouldn't be about that at all.
 
kittymeow said:
The models get the models cos thats what they want...some people only care about looks and they will attract others of that type.
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Not only that, but most models advertise women's products (Clothes, makeup, etc.). They aren't trying to use their bodies to get men to buy their products, they're catering to women's view of what is attractive.
 
When I met my girlfriend and partner . I was not sexually attracted to her because she didn't have a perfect body. I couldn't get past my programmed views on that perfect body I'd been sold. I could handle nothing less than great. No children and stretch marks, perfect boobs and ass.

One day I realized that she was my best friend and I loved her. It has been so hard to get all this programmed shit out of my head. You know, she is by far the most experienced and best lover I have ever known and I still have trouble not wanting her to be my perfect eye candy. I have had to challenge myself on my programming every day. I could not ask for a better person in my life. The hopeful part is that over time I have become more and more attracted to her physically. She really is a sexual being, nothing stiff and plastic about her. In fact she challenges my uptight sexuality all the time. I have never had a fantisy or sexual thought that she has not embraced fully and said "hey yes! lets do it".

So to answer your question. Yes I think most of us men are totally hung up on some stereotype female that exists in some mag or on T fuckin V. And it really sucks and is the cause of much unhappiness and missed connections and real love.
 
Personally I can see beauty in a range of woman. I actually prefer someone curvy, lets say maybe up to size 14 on an average height. Fat is a definite turnoff in males and females because the masculine/feminine look is lost. Put an obese man and woman side-by-side, they look very similar.

I have had sex with several really slim girls ( size 8 ), a couple of average and quite a few fatties. I prefer bigger breasts, but the smaller girls were more energetic, and weighing much less, many exciting positions are possible.

The problem is that fat girls usually don't feel good about themselves so sex is pretty mundane.
 
I like slender girls with the toned curves of leg, ass, and waist that result from real, balanced physical, athletic activity such as yoga for instance (I love the look of a chick who has a dedicated yoga practice). I think part of the reason I like skinny girls is that I am quite a skinny motherfucker myself, and therefore tend to shy away from women I find physically overwhelming. If a girl looks either unnaturally thin, or unnaturally fat for her bone structure, I am not attracted. Despite what you may have gathered from my preceding statements, I am ashamed that I tend to be really critical of girls' bodies, though I rarely vocalize these criticisms because I feel like I shouldn't let them hold sway over me.
 
i should just keep this quote handy whenever another one of these threads pops up... as long as women keep being cool i'll probably like them.

brothermarcus said:
i've made the recent revelation that as long as she can handle her own at the waffle house and the book store i don't care what she looks like, so long as her appearance hasn't caused some sort of permanent psychological disorder that i would have to deal with.

curvy, skinny, why should i care? i'm just looking to enjoy the limited number of weeks i've got on this rock with people that enhance my experience. women rock, i still don't understand why they're not running the planet.
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