GO TO YOUR REUNIONS!!!!!! even if you hated HS, and most of the people there. i had a blast at both of mine so far, and so did everyone else that went. the only thing you'll lose is a few bucks and a few hours of your time if you don't enjoy it. and if you opt out and then regret not going, you're gonna have to wait another decade for the next to roll around. so gooooooooooo!!!
anyhow, when i was really really little, i wanted to be a cat, and actually thought that i'd be able to turn into one as an adult. then when the harsh reality of life hit me, i wanted to be a vet. but all the negative shit people said about it (how long it takes and how expensive it is) changed my mind. so in highschool, i decided i really wanted to join the army, be an MP, and then be a civilian cop when my time was done. so i joined ROTC in college, but didn't contract after the initial two years, cuz i met my now ex-husband as a freshman, and there went that plan. so since we lived in a small college town and i stupidly thought that marriage = lifetime commitment, i entered nursing school, cuz that would always give me employment opportunity. looking back, i suppose it was a smart decision.