TheUltimateFixx
Bluelighter
I consider myself 'old-fashioned' in fact; in the sense that I require absolute commitment from anyone who wants to say we're 'together'. I am a very loyal partner.Ye like I said I think I’m just old fashioned.
If you’re both ok with it then it’s a good match, better than one or both lying snd cheating.
How long have yous been together?
Does she make them use condoms or she come home with next man’s load in her?
But I do not equate the physical with the emotional, because those are two different things to me. And certainly someone's previous sexual experience DOES NOT 'taint' them in any way. If somebody commits to you, they COMMIT. That's all you need to know or judge according to the terms you negotiate in that specific relationship.
PS I'm a bisexual male and have had two serious relationships only in my life.
The first was with a girl, who I actually planned to marry ; but things did not work out. She completely equated sexual fidelity with love as well, whereas to me those are two separate things. I'm now about to get married to my current male partner. We both have a huge libido and are fine with either of us 'messing about', but I can tell you there'd be absolute hell to pay if I ever caught him having serious feelings for anyone other than me (and vice versa).
... And nope I never would get all neurotic about 'another man's load' because I'm just not so biologically motivated. With my man it doesn't matter ; if my first love had become my wife it also wouldn't matter, because I'm fucking infertile due to a genetic condition.
I neither CAN make screaming drooling shitting little humans, nor do I remotely WANT to make any. I consider my infertility a blessing and oh yeah, the girl I adored like a goddess when I was around 18 also had her heart set on a stableful of snotty toddlers. We'd never have been happy together.
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