Oh My! I feel I've eavesdropped on a boy's locker room conversation, and what a different planet it is that you blokes live on! I am just imagining asking a girlfriend whether or not I should consider posting pictures of my trashy, cheating ex boyfriend giving me a spot of cunnilingus - get this - to make HIM look bad! *chuckle*. I mean, come on.. you'd be willing to show the world your willy just to have her face juxtaposed next to it? Legal or not, you don't have the moral right to degrade any woman that way, even if you're happy to bare yourself.
You do sound bitter. Rangrz should know, he's been there too by the sounds. You could both learn a lot from Double Ewe: Living well *is* the best revenge.