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Was I wrong to do this

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you hurt two people who hurt you in the past. you could say it's "fair" or "even" but it'd be a lot cooler if you were over her enough to not bother. bitter is a bad look - living well is the best revenge.
 
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Thanks for the advice I will not do anything with the pics, but have showed them to guy Friends who always wanted to see but I was holding back out of respect. Ill just let it run it's course. I did realize I'm not over it but I have no desire to ever be with her anymore
 
Oh My! I feel I've eavesdropped on a boy's locker room conversation, and what a different planet it is that you blokes live on! I am just imagining asking a girlfriend whether or not I should consider posting pictures of my trashy, cheating ex boyfriend giving me a spot of cunnilingus - get this - to make HIM look bad! *chuckle*. I mean, come on.. you'd be willing to show the world your willy just to have her face juxtaposed next to it? Legal or not, you don't have the moral right to degrade any woman that way, even if you're happy to bare yourself.

You do sound bitter. Rangrz should know, he's been there too by the sounds. You could both learn a lot from Double Ewe: Living well *is* the best revenge.
 
Hey, I'm proud of the pics of my dick, nobody would know its me and would be degrading for her. I'm not going to do it and barely even considered it and I know it will make me look like a bad person
 
PS.. Wasn't sure whether to share this.. but the same sort of thing happened to me many years ago. I gave my recently ex'ed-boyfriend lots of little lovebites all around his neck and shoulders. I heard he and the girl he threw me over for broke up soon after. Never found out why. ;-) I know that makes me sound such a hypocrite.. I was so much younger and the choices I made then would not be those I'd make now.

By the way.. I meant to say - I'm sorry this happened to you, but don't let it change you. Anger is such a destructive emotion and is almost always secondary to hurt. Aim for indifference. :-)
 
Thanks for the advice I will not do anything with the pics, but have showed them to guy Friends who always wanted to see but I was holding back out of respect. Ill just let it run it's course. I did realize I'm not over it but I have no desire to ever be with her anymore

Your friend has seen your ex's face a thousand times. I bet he just wanted to look at your cock.

Just saying.
 
Honestly the whole concept of 'dating revenge' is childish. Shit happens, you work through it and move on. It's the cost of doing business in the dating world. But to me, intentionally screwing someone over even if I seems they deserve it, is a dick move. It lowers you to their level. Personally I think it's bad form to ever screw around with someone's partner even if they initiate it. But the guy does deserve to know that his girlfriend is a cheater so I think telling him is ok. In fact if I was the guy I would rather know than not know.

It's usually best to stay away from exes unless there's zero chemistry left for exactly this reason. Plus it sounds like this girl is a snake, so the guy she cheated on you with may have had no idea you even existed. People who cheat show a fundamental lack of respect for their partners. Granted that may be something that comes with age but if someone wants to fuck around then stay single.
 
ITT: My reasons why I'll never put anything on print or trust some dude with images of me/us are reinforced.

Had a girl I would see once a week to talk and fuck, after about ten visits I told her I really like her and she wanted nothin to do with me after.

At least you have 1 smart person in your life.
 
ITT: My reasons why I'll never put anything on print or trust some dude with images of me/us are reinforced.



At least you have 1 smart person in your life.

That's kind of harsh, I'm actually a very nice person and go out of my way to help strangers. Found a wallet with $200 this weekend and Got in contact with person, saved someone from drowning last summer, gave a woman 5$ when she didn't have enough money at grocery store. All I'm actually broke with minor heroin habit.

I've never done wrong to someone who didn't fuck with me first, then I can be mean.
 
Also lysis I didn't post the pics, I will show strangers on here though. Don't judge me you don't really know what you're talking about
 
I can't upload pics I don't have a computer just iPhone. I can only email pics you can pm your addy if you want, i don't know why you'd worry bout that
 
I can't upload pics I don't have a computer just iPhone. I can only email pics you can pm your addy if you want, i don't know why you'd worry bout that
Yeah me neither?! Not like we're on a website revolving around the safe use of illegal drugs and possibly have LEO creeping around the dark corners or somethin! Post up that email man! C'mon we're all perfectly safe around here! smmf'nh ...
 
Ya but it's an email not like his home address, if the Leo are Gunna trace you couldn't they do it through here just as easy as email. Make a fake email address if you really care to see
 
Get over her man, you knew she was with this guy now and you broke her trust. it's not like she was lying to you and being a cunt to you. to be honest i think it's quite nice she still fancied you and was up for having sex and now you just tried to fuck up her day/relationship.
 
id say you planted a seed of distrust in your ex's new relationship.

if thats something youre proud of then good job.

if you feel bad then way to fudge everything up you Chatty Cathy
 
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