Captain.Heroin
Bluelight Crew
Yes captain you are right WE deserve better... i am so angry with him at this point rrrg I feel like any other guy would have been a better sperm donor.... I just want him to go away.... and yes i have tried to do an intervention with my parents (his are in cali) and to no avail.... honestly at this point i hope i didnt make a mistake but putting him as the father on the birth certificate (i dont want problems later on)
Have a real intervention with a real bottom line. Have a condition that if he doesn't seek help, that you'll do something that he is not going to like. Like, filing for custody for your child so he's out of the picture (what I would include in my bottom line if I was in your shoes). Have a condition that you don't want to be a part of his life as he is throwing away the gift that is his life.
That, or just do it assuming he's not going to be able to reach out and accept the help that's out there for him.
Just my 2 cents; do what you will. Trust your gut instinct, do what feels right, and I wish you and your son the best of luck
