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vasectomy issue?

before my vasectomy I had sperm cryogenically frozen just in case I ever decide to have more but if anything ever happened between me or my wife well it's not the other girls business if I'm cut or not they need to be with me for me not my sperm.
 
Abject said:
Shoulda got it when he was 23 ;)

Seriously though, why do you want to procreate?
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Why is it that you must have your own child just to have a child? What is wrong with adoption? If you adopt, you actually save a life rather than create another one. Why do we need to keep creating more and more children when there are so many unwanted children and homeless children who would love a home??

chinacreek said:
so I've had a vasectomy I personally would not disclose this unless asked cause if she turns up pregnant then I'd know for sure she was screwing around. and it's none of her business if we're just dating once married then sure.
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Probably something you should talk about as soon as you are discussing the future together. I'd like to know if a partner had a vasectomy because then I could get off birth control and we could stop using condoms, win-win for everyone, I think!
 
So he was 44 when you met...I was unaware he was under any obligation to tell you he had a vasectomy. You seem a bit shadey to think he owed you an explanation or even owed you a heads up...especially at the age of 44. If you had asked and he lied about it, then I could understand...but from the sounds of it, you didn't. So you have nothing to be upset over. You're being silly in my opinion. If a woman said she was going to leave me over something that stupid, I'd tell her to hit the door.
 
This seems like a double standard. Women lie about being on birth control and then have an 'accident' and the unwilling father can't do a thing about it. Then this man waits to tell you until the relationship seems serious enough for you to meet for the first time and you freak out
 
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