the guy is 49 i wouldnt want another child at that age imagine when they are at school and everyone is asking him/her is that your grandad . I had a friend who was obviously a mistake as they used to say and kids being cruel as they are he used to get some stick about it maybe not a great reason but a little food for thought i reckon
Ditto. I had a vasectomy at 45 because the only benefit of having a child at that age is providing a more secure environment financially wise. This does not outweigh having to invest another 25 years raising a child as "grandpa" and the risk of passing away when your kid still needs you. A friend of mine who is the same age (51) had a daughter at 48 with his 33-year-old wife confided to me it was a huge mistake, to make things worst he has a serious heart condition from coke/meth abuse in his 20's and thirties, which could void his life insurance policies and he's basically devastated on the brink of major depression despite his wealth: he owns a successful Dodge/Ram/Fiat dealership and has the for convincing people that the Dodge Journey they want is not suited to their lifestyle and they drive off the lot in a massive RAM Guzzler pickup instead, just like me who has no use for a jumbo pickup in a large city but hey, "won't get stuck in snow"
Won't get stuck in snow that's for sure, ain't got any snow in KC. Anyway what I meant is that middle-aged men are best suited for reaping the rewards of reaching the pinnacle of their career, which is not compatible with raising your children, not to mention the generation gap issues that are sure to rise over the years. Imho 30 is the age to start a family of 2 kids, yould in your early 50's when they leave home, with plenty of energy left for work. 20-somethings won't relate much to their geriatric dad living in an old folks home Pine Meadows (Stinking Spruce Swamps would be more befitting) that reeks of ether and mothballs and is barely heated in winter. To top it off they don't allow Old Daddy to smoke his beloved Cuban cigarillos smuggled in from Canada hidden in Ram pickups (those are made in Canada) within 30 feet of the building but anyway he's strapped to his bed for making lewd advances to that hot but snubbish orderly which he dared call "sweetie" instead of Miss Catastrophopopoulos because he can't pronounce that name and yeah, he thinks Miss C is hot. Big deal. Regardless, he was deemed a "sex harassment threat" and put on the Missouri Registered Sex Offender List.
Vasectomy, that's the way to go. Be free, be productive, call any woman you like "sweetie" (in a respectful yet lascivious manner, (avoid "hey bitch") and sweetie smiles back or giggles, works every time when you're middle-age, the gal knows you're just being facetious... or who knows, maybe she likes middle-aged dudes, many do. We got more cash to sweeten a romantic rendez-vous at a fancy French restaurant, young dudes take them to Taco Bell... And you, you know darn well that your sex drive is not just intact, it's a friggin' ball of fire. Young studs have stamina. We have stamina AND experience, and we still look good if we take care of our body, I do and look 10 years younger. Got no grey hair due to genetic factor so that helps but my goatee is white.
Vasectomy.
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