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Threesomes - specifically WOMEN who like them, in porn, fantasy, and real life

wes1080

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Hi Bluelight, I've been a reader/stalker here for years but it's been a while since I posted anything.

I want to get some opinions from everyone on threesomes. I've been seeing this girl for a while now. She's very...comfortable with her sexuality, which is great, we enjoy a very healthy and fulfilling sex life together. She watches porn, sometimes sending me links to videos that she finds and enjoys :D We've had several discussions about threesomes. She doesn't really care for FFM but really gets turned on by MFM. She enjoys two guys and a girl in porn because there's "more cock". I don't know if it's something she would really want to do, she seems to like it enough but I can tell she's also very shy about the idea.

For me, I'm not too open to the idea of sharing her with another guy. I see the appeal in two guys with a girl, and I could possibly see myself doing it with another couple, I just don't think I could share her. Anyway, I don't think she wants that so I'm not worried about it, just wanted to say I'm attracted to the idea, just not with her.

Most people seem to enjoy FFM threesomes, guys anyway, but how many of you find MFM threesomes a turn on? A lot of ladies enjoy this kind of porn or fantasy or is she unique?

Thanks for sharing.
 
Yes I definitely find MFM/MMF 3 ways to be HOT. I have never done them at all but I'd like to and I've wanted to do this since I was very young. My ex wanted us to have a MMF 3 way where he and I would have sex with each other and a woman; but this never happened. :\

I have never had a MFF 3 way I have seen some of them in porn and it's OK then but it's not on my top list of sexual fantasies or things to do at this time but if one was offered to me or I was in a situation where one was going to happen I would do it assuming I was attracted to both women.

I've only had a few all male 3 ways, and I'll probably have one or two again.

If you don't want to "share her" as you put it or have a 3 way or sex with other partners and her then I would not do it.
 
I understand where you're coming from. Although I'm not an overly jealous person, I don't think I could do a FFM threesome because I don't think I could share my guy. That being said, I would totally be up for a MFM threesome with my boyfriend and another guy. We just need to meet the right guy. (Well we totally found one but now he has a seriously girlfriend who would NEVER allow it lol.)
Never had a threesome yet. Not actively searching for that third person but we both kind of have it in the back of our minds.
I'm not sure if a lot of females find this a turn on, but there are definitely a few :)
 
Sounds lame to me. I dont want 2 girls and I definitely dont want a cock in my sexual sphere!

I always thought about DP and how weird that would feel because you can feel a dick through the ass... So the dudes dicks are rubbing up on eachother inside of her. Plus their balls must clap once in a while or they drip cum on eachother or something like that. I always thought guys who are down for DP are at least partially bi or whatever.

BTW welcome to posting on bluelight. Maybe you should keep that user name ;)
 
My ex fiancé pushed for threesome with me and my friends. But he would do it in a way that made me feel guilty for NOT forcing my friends to suck his dick. That's why he's the "EX". In the threesomes we had, I was always nervous and it felt more like a performance on HIS terms, so I never really got off on it. However, if it was with people I was comfortable with, I'd be open to the idea. My advice is never force your girl to do anything or make her feel guilty about not wanting to do something, that should go without saying, but some people (cough cough ex) don't get that. Make her feel like the star of the show, especially in an FFM threesome. As a fantasy, MFM threesomes are hott, but from my bad experience I didn't enjoy it. If someone wants to show me with "right" wa to do MFM, I'd be happy to try again ;D
 
^ this guy just keeps sounding like more and more of a simple pervert who got really lucking finding you at a vulnerable point in your life.
 
I find mfm threesomes HOT! I've never do it, though. Not into mff threesomes.
 
I love MFM threesomes but prefer FFM threesomes they just turn me on more :)
i wouldnt get jealous of the other girl though... its just fucking around and having fun :)
 
Yeah it would be good times. I have always dreamed of, and ALMOST been party to (twice :( ) MFF threesomes, but MMF (or MMM) threesomes is a big turn on for me too - You wouldn't even have to fuck him too, you could just have him watching (being turned on by his voyeurism) then if you feel comfortable get him to join in DP or splitroast styley.

GREAT FUN! Gof for it man, experience...and don't get pissed off if he makes her moan more than you, don't meet up with him again and make sure you study hard to be a better lover.

Hahah ;)
 
One, two or more hot guys, am keen as hell
A chick in there anywhere, am running like hell
Girls are pretty, occasionally I get a girl crush and get confused lol, even experimented little bit in my youth.
Girls are nice to watch and admire, but when I think about touching their lady area or worse licking it *pulls face* I am no longer confused.
Bring me cock!

The girls I crush on are never "womanly" looking though, thin and androgynous (same with boys actually, not into the 'macho' thing) could be why get confused
 
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I've brought up the idea of a FFM to my girlfriend but she's kind of homophobic, and can't imagine the idea of sharing me. She always seems to counter with "what about me taking 2 dicks?" and I'd totally be down with a MFM but just not with her, so it makes sense I suppose
 
Well don't you think it sounds more logical for women to be into MMF threesomes since guys are typically more into FFM? Makes sense to me anyway :) I know if I were ever to have a threesome it would definitely have to be 2 guys...that said, I don't think I could ever do it with someone I'm in a relationship with.
 
I understand where you're coming from. Although I'm not an overly jealous person, I don't think I could do a FFM threesome because I don't think I could share my guy. That being said, I would totally be up for a MFM threesome with my boyfriend and another guy. We just need to meet the right guy. (Well we totally found one but now he has a seriously girlfriend who would NEVER allow it lol.)
Never had a threesome yet. Not actively searching for that third person but we both kind of have it in the back of our minds.
I'm not sure if a lot of females find this a turn on, but there are definitely a few :)

thats so hypocritical

you wouldnt want another female cuz you couldnt share your man

but want another dude?

even if he is 'ok' with it

he would prob be 'ok' with a FMF threesome as well

thats just extremely hypocritical to me
 
I looooooveeeee 3somes. I've only done it twice, both myself (a male) and 2 females. yeeee... Personally, not to be "hypocritical" but I could never have a MMF. I would be so turned off seeing another guy, nothing to do with jealousy just plain and simple turned off. Threesomes are amazing, to say the least.
 
Me and a buddy double penetrated this girl one night back in high school days with a neighborhood girl, I liked it. Yeah our balls and junk may have touched many times but we didn't care. We were pleasuring her and it made her go wild and she loved it. I am straight enough to even admit that I loved being able to feel the friction of our dicks pleasuring her simulataneously. I would do it again too. My 2 cents...
 
MMF over FFM every time. More potential in the combinations. I'm bi so add in the extra potential for combinations with another bi guy and the mental component of the domination of the F thing and you have any number of filthy horny scenarios available to you. Similarly FFM only really works well if the two Fs are bi too IME.

I always thought about DP and how weird that would feel because you can feel a dick through the ass... So the dudes dicks are rubbing up on eachother inside of her. Plus their balls must clap once in a while or they drip cum on eachother or something like that. I always thought guys who are down for DP are at least partially bi or whatever.

LOLWUT? Rubbish. Course you're gonna have close contact between two sets of male genitalia, and it might be that rubbing against another guy's cock when you're both inside here increases the sensations you're getting but the primary aim which is to pleasure the F, giving her as much as she can take. If both guys are straight the proximity of another cock and occasional contract with it are neither here nor there, completely incidental to the goal of DP. I think your post illustrates your own hang-ups and insecurities more than it touches on the realities of the matter. Christ, God forbid you were ever asked to participate in DV. Your head would probably explode, what with the screaming gayness of it all! 8)
 
I enjoy the idea of FFM & MMF in fantasy and even in porn, but I think if it really came down to it, I'd probably only do a FFM in real life. I'm bi, so the idea of having another girl around while with a guy excites me more than 2 guys. Never had a threesome though, so I'll update once I actually experience something like that.
 
I'd probably only do a FFM in real life. I'm bi, so the idea of having another girl around while with a guy excites me more than 2 guys. Never had a threesome though, so I'll update once I actually experience something like that.
Yep, same. I am bisexual, and most of the time leaning slightly more towards female attraction. Honestly I would probably only ever parttake in FFM, or FFF, i.e. no dicks whatsoever :) In my wildest, most far-fetched fantasies I might entertain the thought of MMF, BUT the two guys would have to be in to each other as well, so bi or gay themselves. However I am totally unlikely to ever find myself in that situation so I don't tend to even think about it.

FFM will happen for me one day though. Oh my yes :)
 
I like to feel catered to, not objectified. MFM makes me feel objectified, FFM caters to my attraction to women. With that said, I love being with another woman and a man simultaneously. Two men and one woman? I have tried this, and I would only do this again if the idea—in all of it's entirety—has been brought forth solely by me.

In FFM threesomes, I find that I get gushing wet making women who are less experienced with women completely helpless with pleasure. I also find that if I am with a woman who is more comfortably experienced with other women, I love it when she is assertive, aggressive, and shows that she genuinely wants to fuck me, and follows through accordingly. Clearly each woman is a bit different anatomically, and I think a lot of women shy away from fucking another girl because they know what it's like to be sexually unsatisfied because of this and other reasons. They know they run the risk of that happening, and women essentially seek a great deal of approval from other women. I enjoy taking the risk, having the other gal take the risk, and just seeing where the pleasure takes us.
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thats so hypocritical

you wouldnt want another female cuz you couldnt share your man

but want another dude?

even if he is 'ok' with it

he would prob be 'ok' with a FMF threesome as well

thats just extremely hypocritical to me

I'm not saying it's not hypocritical. I'm just saying how I feel. My boyfriend would be fine with another guy. He would be fine seeing me with another guy. I don't see what's wrong with it - I am being honest and he understands how I feel and he's okay with it. Yeah my boyfriend would be fine with FMF threesome as well but he knows that I probably wouldn't be comfortable with it and he respects that.

Is it really so wrong for me to have feelings??
 
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