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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

No real advice here, I'm dealing with the last vestiges of that sting.

From past experience I can tell you eventually it doesn't hurt anymore. But it can take a lot of time.
 
Yeah it doesn't hurt anymore but it does still bother you. The best way I found to get over something like that is to find a new or revisit an old hobby you once had. Spend some quality time with you, learning or reading or walking or whatever.

You'll learn to be happy without someone after repeating the above. At least for a while.
 
Still no sex in a very long time makes poor deeCee a very backed up boy..

But the yummy mummy ffrom a while ago is back up here in a little while.. I guess she is going to cop it ;)
 
They went out of use? Every girl I've dated and most of the ones I ever wanted to date have used it on me at one point or another, no matter how much we hit it off or how well things seemed to be going.

I agree gher,for some people it's never gone out of use :( People,that do it are gutless,rude and disrespectful.You are better off without people like this in your life,but sadly I know it can hurt when it happens.

For myself.I'm single,have been for probably too long, an unhealthy time in fact.No one interests me at the moment romantically.I'm busy doing other things such as:-

*Recovering from a broken left knee cap - The rehab involved in this.

*Getting ready to go back to work from injury soon.I'm sure my co-workers all miss me %)

*Planning to put on another dance party next year.

*Preparing to move into the place I've baught for myself.

*A good mates wedding early 2010.


Anyway,good luck to ALL the single people <3
 
I need some help -

I haven't had a relationship since my ex.
Since her noone has really shaped up to how I felt about her, except one person.

Now, this one person I care about very much is having an emotional rollercoaster of a time right now, so I'm stepping back and seeing if an opportunity opens up again.

BUT there's a big part of me that wants to try out a relationship with this girl a good friend of mine introduced me to.
She's an artist, she's a bit crazy (in a good way though I guess), and I've thought about her a whole lot since we met (we met then she said over mine last weekend), and we got so much in common.

BUT I still would rather be seeing the gal who's head is in a bit of a muddle than her.

I'm going to visit girl 2 this coming weekend at uni for the whole weekend, and have some fun etc...see how it feels.

What I need some help with is - do I not have a relationship with anyone but girl A and wait it out to see where it goes,
OR depending on how the coming weeks and visits go, maybe try a relationship with girl B - therefore opening myself up to new and maybe unforseen feelings, considering I've thought about her a bunch.

Part of me has felt like we could be good together...but I still like girl A more.
Muddlesz.... :(
 
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Finally got to the "totally good without a significant other" stage and was content, then, in typical fashion and as the ever-insightful DQ has mentioned, up pops an awesome guy. Started the weekend before this one just passed as a drunken, messy DRUNKEN hook-up, but clearly there was something else there and we caught up for lunch, drinks and open air cinema last night and I’m happy to report he’s amazing. So nice, and funny, and jumping Zombie Jesus he’s hot. SO much cuter than I remembered. And, AND Scottish so he has that hot accent thing goin’ on. He stayed last night but we kept it wholesome (to an extent ha ha) and we’ll be seeing more of each other very soon. Quietly optimistic about this one, wish me luck :)
 
I've been lurking and reading for a while, thought I'd post and say ohaiiii!

I'm single. Ahh, single life, how I love it.. However lately I've been a tad lonely. Busy with uni and such, haven't had time for friends and now that I'm on uni holidays all my friends are busy with their own lives, lol.. Sucks

Anyone wanna be friends? :-P
 
LOL!

So my location albeit sunny, warm and blue skied is going to determine how potentially un-awesome I could be as a friend? ;) Hahahahaha..

Yahuh, I'm a tattoo artist! I've taken a hiatus from tattooing to focus on other aspects of my life at the moment, but I still do work occassionally at the studio where I did my apprenticeship.. I've got a portfolio and am always keen on drawing up designs for people.

Now, may I enquire as to your location, so I can poke fun at you :D HAHA!

<3=D
 
^^ :) Sorry was just a flippant dig at the Gold Coast, not you <3 It always strikes me as Australia's attempt at a mini-Miami and doesn't really suit me.
 
^ Hehehe, and I was having a good ol' dig at you ;-)
Oh, I totally agree.. It's not called the 'plastic fantastic' Gold Coast for nothing, lol.

If I had my way, I'd live somewhere like Canada, or perhaps the arctic. Mmm cold.. Over this heat! I shall be gracing Brisbane in about a week for around a month! Prepare :-P HAHA <3
 
Of course I am for I have no other prospects. Apparently she's a 19 year old German backpacker, which can be good or bad.

Well the no other prospects part isn't exactly true. I have one girl who I asked a friend to set me up with but that was about a month ago now. By the time it comes back to me I'll have forgotten.
 
I think my mum just tried to set me up with someone at her work.

I think this is a new low for me.

Ive had the same thing before. Slightly disturbing to say the least.

Still single, starting to get over the whole dating game/ being single. Wouldnt mind to meet a nice girl, settle down my partying ways a bit, pass uni and go travelling together.

Sigh. I seem to attract the crazies though, ones with boyfriends and the completey mentally unstable clingdogs.
 
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