PD has gone through its fair share of waves of elitist mentality though. Guess this is the next wave.
Don't let it become what you've seen MagickalKat, I've only spent a few days time reading through archives back in '04-'06 but shieeet, you were here then so you were feeling this place real-time, all the older BLer's mold this place into what it is for when the new people come, like how you all molded this place when I came kind of thing.
Stop armageddon D-DAY Mkat, use the force like that is really all I can say, I believe in you bby
Benny I really like ED, when you mentioned this it kinda just fully clicked into place for me... that place was really where I linger to the annoyance of some but I know what these kids feel like when they post a comedown thread. The same questions are being asked a lot "what did I take/will I ever be normal again" you are right, but I've been in that exact same boat a few times of my life where I do worry "Shit, I've cooked it well and truly this time. This is the one time you fucked up. You had your brain and you screwed it this time", that, is, a scary feeling.
Some people's anxiety eases up so much more about a comedown when it is on their thread and the answers are tailored directly at them reassuring "everything is going to be alright".
I like supporting these kids just saying "everything is gonna be alright" because that is all it takes sometimes... just some random dude on the internet to type those magic 5 words and for some reason... everything is gonna be alright. It seriously is so amazing how just that can stop some people from doing some crazy shit or it will just help them go to sleep tonight and take the next day as it comes.
Its weird and there's strong arguments on both sides. All I can say is that I've been here for almost a year and this community is just incredible and that is what has made me stay here. Can't let this place die.
Why don't we just make more stimulating threads?
ARGUMENTS ON ALL SIDE OF THE FENCE!