so still young. But looking at everybody buying houses and me being dirt poor because of my bad choices throughout my 20's makes me regret a lot.
Don't compare yourself. Stop that shit immediately. You
never know what is going on behind closed doors and behind the mask, people put on all sorts of facades. The greatest argument for what I've just said is the known amount of individual personal debt people have, known savings amounts, and known spending habits. The majority operate on the principle of comparison, it drives their entire behaviour (including finances), and they all suffer for it.
This is how the system is so messed up, because the financiers understand we're social creatures and vulnerable to comparison (especially women), and they prey on that impulse. So, you get people marrying when they shouldn't, and getting tangled up with mortgages, children, and all the rest. Don't be in a rush to burden yourself with something that the state can leverage against you whenever it fancies. Fuck that, for as a long as possible.
Mortgage comes from old French and means 'death pledge'.
Also, life is not a linear thing. Shit can happen, so any plan you lay out has to be flexible enough to take that into account. The one thing you have that a lot of people don't, is that you 'wasted' your 20's whereas the flipside is you get legions of people who 'do the right thing' for decades then something clicks in them and they realize they've used the majority of their lives pursuing things that they were programmed to pursue, and not necessarily pursuing what matters (self definition, family, etc).