Well it’s very popular with both men and woman
you have to be properly lubed up……Mentally, and spiritually, like LSD & Cannabis are peaking and you’re rock hard ….my girl has been giving me slow, deep, proper BJ’s and once had a lubed condom over her middle finger and was massaging my prostate if you will lol, but no doubt with all the nerve endings anal sex is Sooooo erotic, taboo still, kinki, and feels amazing while stimulating other areas.….never came so hard
a candle stick you used lol, go to supermarket and buy a firm cucumber, long and not too wide, put a condom over that covered in warm baby oil or lube lol
as I’m passionately tongue kissing my GF I have this cucumber with warm baby oil and I play with her big juicy ass, and slide that thing in, deeeep, all the way, slowly, moving it around, stimulating her ring, anus, it’s hot as @*#*$