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The Feeling of Anal Sex

lecroute said:
Not guy and not gay. But with so many things, I tried this once out, in a way "both ways". My experience was similar to this

No idea what expression my guy was wearing. I guess an anxious one because he was worried about "doing it right".
Then we tried the prostate thing, and that he did enjoy. For me it was a game of actually feeling where his prostate was. It's not that easy to find, at least not with one gloved finger.
So the result of that experiment was that he liked it, but only with one finger (two were too much) and I found more excitement in the situation itself than the actual act.
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I've given guys prostate stimulation with a finger or two plenty of times, and I've experienced it too. Getting a BJ while your prostate is stimulated gives a mind-blowing orgasm. I have never been able to full get over the fact that anus = shit. It has gotten better with the years, but it still mildly grosses me out. The bottoms I've been with fortunately cleaned themselves out, but it's never that clean. I don't derive a lot of psychological pleasure from doing ass stuff to bottoms. I pretty much just want my dick in there and that's about it.

I guess sex just always has an underlying gross factor and the whole thing is weird if you take a step back from it, regardless of it's MSM, MSF or FSF.
 
Foreigner said:
I'm gay and bottoming feels like hell for me... like I'm being ripped apart inside. I was never able to get it to work properly, and trust me I tried. Topping on the other hand is a dream.

The guys I've been with who are obsessed with bottoming say that it feels really good to them... I guess because you're gliding over their prostate via the rectum which gives a tiny jolt like the sensation of cumming (except you don't cum). A man's g-spot can only be accessed that way. I've also been told that if they are super into the guy, like they find him gorgeous or they have a love connection, then the intimacy of having him inside is super erotic. I can understand that.

For me... receiving anal is a big nothing burger. It feels like stabbing, burning, and incontinence all at the same time. The few times I tried it, the guy topping me looked really blissed out, while I was just suffering and waiting for it to end. No thanks.
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It's not for everyone. You have to work out your preferences individually. For myself, it's uncomfortable, no matter how much lube, preparation etc. But I still do it every now and then because the intimacy and emotional connection is hot. I prefer prostate stimulation with a slim toy or fingering, though.
 
I also notired and heard that, no matter how well people clean themselves, there's always that anal gland smell. Which is not unpleasant in itself, but it's definitely connected with the anis.
 
TheUltimateFixx said:
It's not for everyone. You have to work out your preferences individually. For myself, it's uncomfortable, no matter how much lube, preparation etc. But I still do it every now and then because the intimacy and emotional connection is hot. I prefer prostate stimulation with a slim toy or fingering, though.
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I don't like to be penetrated in any way. Simple dick in vagina does nothing to me. The anal experiment at least had some kind of feeling, maybe because the anus is tighter, less lubricated, there are other types of receptors there (?). It might also have been a psychological thing, idk.

But I get how penetration can create that feeling of togetherness, after all it's someone being inside someone else. And in that case it doesn't matter what part of someone goes into what hole of another?
 
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TheUltimateFixx said:
It's not for everyone. You have to work out your preferences individually. For myself, it's uncomfortable, no matter how much lube, preparation etc. But I still do it every now and then because the intimacy and emotional connection is hot. I prefer prostate stimulation with a slim toy or fingering, though.
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Prostate stim works much better for me than a whole penis. I agree, it has to be worked out individually. I think it's fair to say that some people are not cut out for anal sex, either because of their rectal shape or their sensitivity.
 
Foreigner said:
Prostate stim works much better for me than a whole penis. I agree, it has to be worked out individually. I think it's fair to say that some people are not cut out for anal sex, either because of their rectal shape or their sensitivity.
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My butt is like a vice. XD The first time round we had to 'abort the mission' because he was complaining that his dick was getting its circulation cut off
 
I love anal sex. I am always a top. Never tried it as a bottom, though.

A lot of women say my dick is too big, so it's pot luck if an escort agrees to do anal with me. Many transgender sex workers wouldn't say no.
 
Did he have a gastric condition thereafter? :LOL:

If he needed something to eat, the Filling Station was just up the road a bit. ;)
 
ive always wondered about this..

originally i thought it would feel like that sensational when you take a dump and then when i started boofing gear just putting the tiniest syringe up there felt completely awkward and uncomforatble. I cant imagine how getting fucked by another man with a big dick in the arse is enjoyable.

credit to those that can do it and like it.
 
It is tricky to get right, i find its 90% mind power 10% stimulation. Then once u get it you get to excited about how good it is then loose it…. now you understand female’s frustrations!
Well done we’re learning!
Get yourself a Small hard Gspot vibrator (angled egg on stick style) they’re literally $10-$20 people. Put it in move it until u find the spot that feels like u need to pee alittle. There you go.
I found leaving the toy or cucumber or broomstick or whatever else people just shove up themselves 🤷‍♂️ in pretty much one spot worked best.
Don't thrust with it only adjust it to follow the pleasure, add small movements once your ready, but let your internal muscles do work.

Took me maybe 3-4months and way to many stimulant fueled 48hr wank sessions (you know the ones dont lie) to go from “not bad feeling” to full stroke loss of motor control…
 
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