gayorstraight
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Unused desk? Hmmm... Is it stealing if no one owns them?? 

Still got a 3rd op in 3-6 months time when they close up the loop ileo and the j-pouch becomes a functioning bowel of sorts. There will likely be less pain but maybe more of an ordeal getting it to work, pooping from my bum using muscles that haven't seen action for over 12 months. But I'll be ostomy bag free, and never suffer a bout of colitis again, so it will hopefully all be worth it.
Thanks for the messages of support guys![]()
Still got a 3rd op in 3-6 months time when they close up the loop ileo and the j-pouch becomes a functioning bowel of sorts. There will likely be less pain but maybe more of an ordeal getting it to work, pooping from my bum using muscles that haven't seen action for over 12 months. But I'll be ostomy bag free, and never suffer a bout of colitis again, so it will hopefully all be worth it.
Thanks for the messages of support guys![]()
Start clenching and doing yer kegels in advance, it might help a little.
You seem in an insanely positive mindframe considering all you've been through. Hope your recovery continues to go well![]()
Nah RJ I'm serious, I'm not league-tabling the pain, I remember saying something similar to Atm23 that you're saying to me, but in this case really do think you've helped put some perspective on things for me. Fundamentally, I need to get a grip and you've just helped me towards that. It's weird, someone told me last week I needed to get a grip and frankly I could have punched them at the time. Turns out they might be right. Funny old world.