Sammy G
Ex-Bluelighter
Hope it got resolved somehow.
I know I've been guilty of that kind of behaviour before, and it doesn't always mean the worst. Have you tried mentioning that lack of engagement in a non-critical manner? It can be difficult, but it's better than letting feelings of rejection bubble under. If it makes you feel better, I've been shunned for crosswords before. Then asked to fill in the more difficult / cryptic ones. I've also acted like a tit in order to gain attention, and it usually backfired.
Fingers crossed you sort it if it's worthwhile.
I know I've been guilty of that kind of behaviour before, and it doesn't always mean the worst. Have you tried mentioning that lack of engagement in a non-critical manner? It can be difficult, but it's better than letting feelings of rejection bubble under. If it makes you feel better, I've been shunned for crosswords before. Then asked to fill in the more difficult / cryptic ones. I've also acted like a tit in order to gain attention, and it usually backfired.
Fingers crossed you sort it if it's worthwhile.

How stupid!