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Cos they all say the same bloody thing,
"sorry your not my type"

Sorry im 6 foot 1, fair hair, blue eyes fairly slim, but slowly arms bulking up,
Wtf is your type then biatchesss

, in fact the only time i get complimented (not that i have anything against gays) is by gay guys..

Lol......
 
darksidedsam said:
Cos they all say the same bloody thing,
"sorry your not my type"

Sorry im 6 foot 1, fair hair, blue eyes fairly slim, but slowly arms bulking up,
Wtf is your type then biatchesss

, in fact the only time i get complimented (not that i have anything against gays) is by gay guys..

Lol......
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Hmmm what type of girls do you go after?

Personally, when I used to hit on girls at raves, I would always start up the conversation introducing myself with a handshake, and then complementing them on their outfit/kandi/whatever, which would then lead to a conversation. I'd only ask them to dance after I was talking for at least 5 minutes. Or if I kept making eye contact with a girl dancing by herself, then the conversation part was skipped haha.
 
yeah i do the same as you, but it never really goes anywhere, then they sod off.

Even when im not on shit,

haha i sound like a right cunt
 
darksidedsam said:
yeah i do the same as you, but it never really goes anywhere, then they sod off.

Even when im not on shit,

haha i sound like a right cunt
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Shit happens man, its best just to shrug it off. Getting rejected is a major part of the pick up game because it allows you to see what mistakes you made and where to learn from then. You don't sound like a cunt, you sound like you're just not going for YOUR type of girl.

Or, perhaps you're just ridiculously unlucky and every girl that has said that to you doesn't like to dance in the fashion that you do. I'm assuming grinding?
 
tried a few different ways, its not the dancing,
its just me i think haha.

I get awkward easy, in a constant battle in my mind, (Too much or too little) Lol
 
darksidedsam said:
tried a few different ways, its not the dancing,
its just me i think haha.

I get awkward easy, in a constant battle in my mind, (Too much or too little) Lol
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Could be a variety of things. (Demeanor, lack of emotion in your words, body language)

Check this site out. I found it randomly while searching for a completely non dating related phrase. He has a book too, and I'll give you the download link if you want it.
 
Yeah but folley, as ive found recently with someone else,
its hard landing straight in the friend zone when you fancy someone a lot.
 
darksidedsam said:
Yeah but folley, as ive found recently with someone else,
its hard landing straight in the friend zone when you fancy someone a lot.
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Let me tell you a little story about the only girlfriend I had in highschool.

Her name was Erica, and I had known her since 7th grade. We lost connection for about 3 years, and started talking again/became "friends" in the summer during junior year. Of course I was insanely into her, but her having a boyfriend made things not work out.

She tried to put me in the friend zone. She texted me one day saying, " Jackson I'm so glad that we are such good friends" after I helped her out with some issue she was having. You know my reply? "I guess." Long story short, we ended up dating, but I dumped her when I found out that having a girlfriend in highschool sucked lol

Girls only put you in the friend zone if you let them.

And I would just like to add that I am not a jerk when it comes to girls, but I was once (and still am, though I'm getting better) just like you in the nervousness and not knowing what to say factor.
 
freehugs said:
Let me tell you a little story about the only girlfriend I had in highschool.

Her name was Erica, and I had known her since 7th grade. We lost connection for about 3 years, and started talking again/became "friends" in the summer during junior year. Of course I was insanely into her, but her having a boyfriend made things not work out.

She tried to put me in the friend zone. She texted me one day saying, " Jackson I'm so glad that we are such good friends" after I helped her out with some issue she was having. You know my reply? "I guess." Long story short, we ended up dating, but I dumped her when I found out that having a girlfriend in highschool sucked lol

Girls only put you in the friend zone if you let them.
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Not true. If you've dated before, this is a possibility, but if you've had absolutely no sexual contact at all, girls can friend zone you randomly.

I've had girls I was talking to start sleeping with some loser and completely disappear off the face of the planet from me.
 
Renz Envy said:
Not true. If you've dated before, this is a possibility, but if you've had absolutely no sexual contact at all, girls can friend zone you randomly.

I've had girls I was talking to start sleeping with some loser and completely disappear off the face of the planet from me.
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That is losing interest. The friend zone is different.
 
I'd say they both run on the same mindset

Loss of sexual interest.

I was only friendzoned once and it was hardly even friendly. I'm too obvious about my intentions 8)
 
If you classify it like that, then yeah that's true.

But hey, at least you don't hold anything back! Being friendzoned once is pretty solid.
 
Folley said:
I get friend zoned EVERY FUCKING TIME GOD DAMN IT

like full on. They still expect me to be their friend and be there for them, even though shes telling me about her 2 year anniversary coming up

why would I put the work in if I get no reward? Fuck that
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You're too slow with your advance. And after you realize you've been friendzoned, do you actually feel any attraction towards being her friend even though you know you won't hook up with her? Because if not, just stop talking to her.
 
freehugs said:
You're too slow with your advance. And after you realize you've been friendzoned, do you actually feel any attraction towards being her friend even though you know you won't hook up with her? Because if not, just stop talking to her.
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I was slow the first time it happened, the second time I didnt even realize it was happening till it was too late lol.... and the third time I fucking swooped in there, and everything was going great, but then it never went anywhere no matter how hard I tried

and shit Id rather be her friend than nothing, but I cant do both... I was pretty much just a second boyfriend who only gets hugs to her. Then when I stop talking to them, then I dont talk to them enough anymore and they miss me :|

fuck bitches, too confusing
 
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