KittYkittY6789
Greenlighter
Why does my boyfriend want to fuck all the time instead of making love to me?? ????
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So tired of fucking
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ChemicallyEnhanced
Bluelighter
...they're the same thing?
awesome31311
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I always do both at the same time usually. I'm assuming fucking for OP means just penetration
SamanthaB
Bluelighter
Hi Kitt,
Can you tell us what you mean by "fuck all the time?"
Can you tell us what you mean by "fuck all the time?"
tathra
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ageingpartyfiend
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OP wants her partner to connect tenderly and lovingly with her but he's just into the animal sex bit, is my guess.
Quickfixgrrl
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How could any of us give you advice with the lack info you've provided?
Sounds like you should be asking your boyfriend...
Sounds like you should be asking your boyfriend...
winteriscumming
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How old is your boyfriend?
KittYkittY6789
Greenlighter
What i mean is he doesn't make love to me anymore all he does is fuck me sexually. Why is that?
tathra
Bluelighter
can you explain the difference between fucking and making love, as you understand it? to make sure we're all on the same page here
BehindtheShadow
Bluelight Crew
Why dont you tell your bf this?
Alternate between the two?
Alternate between the two?
Bagseed
Bluelighter
You should really provide much more detailed information about the situation and your feelings... how are people supposed to give you advice when they know neither you, your partner nor anything about your problems. one sentence posts are not good enough to give a stranger relationship advice you know?
RhythmSpring
Bluelighter
He doesn't know what he's missing, honestly.
Jabberwocky
Frumious Bandersnatch
he doesn't deserve your love, fuck him!
F.U.B.A.R.
Bluelight Crew
Heh, that's exactly what he wants by the sounds of it, none of this 'making love' bollocks...
endlessnameless
Bluelighter
Not at all. Fucking is typically rushed, meaningless sex that can be done with anyone. Making love is a far superior experience than just 'fucking'.
34-dihydroxyphen
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Personally, I can't think of anything more boring than "making love."
But I'm into some pretty fucked shit, so regular things just don't do it for me. Ymmv.
But I'm into some pretty fucked shit, so regular things just don't do it for me. Ymmv.
Lucy20
Ex-Bluelighter
I'm in love with my boyfriend so fucking is making love imo
CoastTwoCoast
Bluelighter
There's definitely a difference. Fucking is hot if it's done right, but making love is when you feel more connected emotionally.
If he's always going at it like a jackhammer and not looking into your eyes and showing you affection, that's no good.
Has he ever made love to you before? Some guys just suck at sex. Or it could be that he's not really emotionally invested in you. You know your relationship better than us. If he generally acts like a dick to you and acts like he doesn't care about your feelings, there's your answer.
"You don’t always have to fuck her hard.
In fact sometimes that’s not right to do.
Sometimes you’ve got to make some love
And fucking give her some smooches too."
You should play that tasty jam for him.
If he's always going at it like a jackhammer and not looking into your eyes and showing you affection, that's no good.
Has he ever made love to you before? Some guys just suck at sex. Or it could be that he's not really emotionally invested in you. You know your relationship better than us. If he generally acts like a dick to you and acts like he doesn't care about your feelings, there's your answer.
"You don’t always have to fuck her hard.
In fact sometimes that’s not right to do.
Sometimes you’ve got to make some love
And fucking give her some smooches too."
You should play that tasty jam for him.
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