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SNOO V8 - In the bathroom smashing glasses

Yup yup, we all got our flaws it's the best part sometimes. I've been told 'you're not perfect, but you're perfect for me' which I thought was sickeningly adorable :D
 
See to me, flaws and all is what makes one perfect! Sham is absolutely perfect for me. We forgive each others flaws to see the bigger picture.


.................. I love what I see!
 
Yeah, it keeps stuff interesting, I love all the daft little stuff about mine, how her face goes all dark when she's in a mood,, or how she can't walk down stairs properly (i didn't tell you that) or whatever. Makes me smile.
 
snolly said:
This is the attitude to have in relationships I think <3
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Word. If someone doesn't love you for who you are then get them to fuck. I've been in relationships where they have tried to 'change' me or fucking 'tame' me or whatever - look, don't put your pussy in the cage with the tiger in the first place if you don't want to play with the big cats.

I have a mate, one of my best mates actually, known him for over 20 years, I was best man at his wedding in Spain last year. As much as I like his wife and everything, she really does have him on a short leash. It's like he's actually scared of her; he does have a tendency to make a complete arse of himself whilst drunk and has embarrassed himself and her on many an occasion; however, she knew what he was like before being married. Same goes with him I suppose, he knew that his life would need to be 'subdued' if being with her. Maybe he likes being trampled on, he probably gets some kind of sexual gratification out of it the dirty bastard.
 
Yep, you need to know and embrace em or at least make peace with it. My missus knew I had a drug problem when she met me, took me on regardless, and holy shit here we are two years later and I'm clean. Would even piss clean right now, nothing in me bar the codeine. And it's all cos of her. Conversely, a friend of ours is getting married next year and I can't see it happening because his partner is wholly unwilling to help him through his substance use and mental health issues but is martyring herself by posting about it all over social media, how she has to work extra shifts cos he's on sick, and she's recently told him point blank to go back to work while he's still recovering from a breakdown. So yeah. It makes a difference, you get that shit sorted fast or split because otherwise you end up in the above situations! You can know a person has issues but you have to be ready to deal with them when they become more of an issue

In snooier news, I got more written in the past hour than I really expected to, and without any more assistance than a coffee. Lot less panicky about looming deadlines now!
 
Your mate's wife sounds like a tit, no offense. Not just because she is handling your mate's issues badly, but going on Facebook and posting shite about extra shifts etc - I can't stand that kind of attention seeking, no wonder your mate's on drugs, how can he cope without?
 
Oh no offense taken, I'm of exactly the same opinion, but obviously it's a sensitive subject so we're just sort of hoping he realises! Not sure what to do in situations like that really, nothing if previous experience is any indication.
 
It's the kind of thing my Granda did, 1/4 bottles of vodka planked about all over the place. Walking about half-cut most of the time, which was obvious to me, but he somehow managed to pull the wool over my Gran's eyes.
 
I think maybe they don't wanna see it, I've heard loads of stories where someone has hidden a massive drinking habit and yet their partner has been genuinely surprised when it all comes out, and I'm thinking 'how do you miss it?'
 
My Granda had his first heart attack when he was 40, he's dead now and lived into his 80s surprisingly! After he took his first one my Gran became all super healthy, and still is to this day, she's in her 90s but is unfortunately in hospital now riddled with cancer and has a touch of dementia. :(

Although, I think she actually drove my old Granda to the bevy with her strict healthy eating. He did get another 40 odd years of life out of it, even with the hidden voddy.
 
Guys that sounds rough! I'm so lucky to have a partner that not only sees drug and alcohol abuse for what it is but has battled through it himself ALONE might I add! Any issues either of us ever face we'll do it together with understanding and love. I couldn't imagine being unkind to someone facing issues.

Even my ex I still emotionally support and hug often when I know he needs it because I know he's not in a good place.

Never change anyone. If that's not the person you want to love then don't love them....
 
It's a horrible thought to me. I couldn't imagine my partner going through this stuff alone, nor giving up on her or blaming her. Stuff has been hard, stuff will be hard again, but support is what's got us through. Am the same with my ex, though she's not big on drugs she has her own issues and I guess who better to know you than an ex? She does the same for me and isn't afraid to tell me to shut up and get over it if I'm just making a thing about nothing, which I wouldn't take from anyone else very well but which I do from her. In fact I just went to message her about something, started typing it and then deleted it because I knew what the advice would be and exactly how she'd react and it'd be spot on, which really is an excellent ability for someone to have =D You're right tho, never change anyone, let them grow, but don't change em. Tiny little habits used to bother me til I realised actually if she was gone, I'd miss them so much.
 
Me and my ex-wife both were into drugs and liked our drink, we met at Uni and were part of the whole party atmosphere and were friends before we got together. However, there were issues that should have been sorted a long time ago that unfortunately weren't, even though we were compatible in many ways things still broke down in other ways. Relationships are complicated.
 
F.U.B.A.R. said:
Heh, a fellow Sagittarian (mine's the 19th). You do know we're all fuckups don't you?
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You're a Sagittarian, I'm an Ophiuchusian.

Ophiuchus holds apart the serpent which with its mighty spirals and twisted body encircles his own, so that he may untie its knots and back that winds in loops. But, bending its supple neck, the serpent looks back and returns: and the other's hands slide over the loosened coils. The struggle will last forever, since they wage it on level terms with equal powers
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I do believe that fairly well defines a fuck-up all the same so there would appear to be some crossover there ;)

Sadie said:
Maybe...... But he's my adorable fuck up and I wouldn't have him any other way. <3
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You can have me any way you want me, m'dear ;)

Can't wait to unwrap my b'day prezzy!!! Snoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!! =D<3=D
 
Shambles said:
You're a Sagittarian, I'm an Ophiuchusian.
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Bugger! I want to be one as well, but I've missed out by two days so I'm stuck with being an archer with equine attributes on my lower body :(

(Actually, I think I'd rather have a horses cock than wrestle a snake for eternity)


Edit: been mulling over the implications of our respective star symbols. I'm represented by a warrior who's hung like a horse - whereas yours suggests a very confused guy in a state of denial about his latent homosexual tendencies and represented by the constant struggle with a blantant phallic symbol ;)
 
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