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Lysis said:
I don't know why I thought you weren't even in the US.
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I'll make your back into the St Louis arch with the pleasure ill give ;)

Only playing. I'm single again and acting out :P pagey is the only girl for me. Just as soon as I get my passport back and a plane ticket... ill let her check out my "big Ben" ;) or my "Eiffel tower"
 
Yeah that's cool with me, have everyone come visit me while I chill at home 8)

You should come to Paris though. I know I'm biased but it really is a city worth visiting.
 
Lysis said:
awwww, not spending time with each other sucks. I know that feel. :( Especially when you really like someone.


My little night out was fun. We didn't get to go hot tubbing, because it was closed. haha Oh so funny. I laughed so hard I hurt my stomach. lol I drank good wine out of a paper cup, and he learned that programmers know how to jump god dammit! waao is funny.
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Glad you had a fun trip :)

I still haven't seen New Dude. But I did discover something interesting. Hung out with one of my single girlfriends last night for some beers and bong hits. We were talking about internet dating. She's on plentyoffish and was showing me some pictures of a guy she's been corresponding with. He looked quite suspiciously like New Dude. I asked her what his name was, she told me... and it's him. There was even a picture of him with his dog! BUSTED. She showed me his messages, he said he had started seeing someone but that he wanted to 'keep an open mind' because he's been 'seeing someone who goes out of town a lot for her job'.

FUCK.THAT. I'm not mad - glad I found out in time! He and I have plans tonight to catch up and before I found all of this out, I invited him to the Easter supper we're having at my house (for friends, the best way) tomorrow. I would like to do something to send him a message that this is not how to treat people, especially people who you called your partner. Must not involve anything illegal or that could get me assaulted. I'm leaning toward giving him the direct truth. My friend kindly provided me with a printout of their messages before I went home last night. If New Dude felt neglected by my work and life schedule, well, he should have discussed that with me before trying to meet someone new. I make time for the people in my life who are important. Shame he won't be one of them.
 
Mariposa said:
Glad you had a fun trip :)

I still haven't seen New Dude. But I did discover something interesting. Hung out with one of my single girlfriends last night for some beers and bong hits. We were talking about internet dating. She's on plentyoffish and was showing me some pictures of a guy she's been corresponding with. He looked quite suspiciously like New Dude. I asked her what his name was, she told me... and it's him. There was even a picture of him with his dog! BUSTED. She showed me his messages, he said he had started seeing someone but that he wanted to 'keep an open mind' because he's been 'seeing someone who goes out of town a lot for her job'.

FUCK.THAT. I'm not mad - glad I found out in time! He and I have plans tonight to catch up and before I found all of this out, I invited him to the Easter supper we're having at my house (for friends, the best way) tomorrow. I would like to do something to send him a message that this is not how to treat people, especially people who you called your partner. Must not involve anything illegal or that could get me assaulted. I'm leaning toward giving him the direct truth. My friend kindly provided me with a printout of their messages before I went home last night. If New Dude felt neglected by my work and life schedule, well, he should have discussed that with me before trying to meet someone new. I make time for the people in my life who are important. Shame he won't be one of them.
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Oh wow. I would be heartbroken. Do you love him? That's awful. Really bad luck for him, but it's better you found out now rather than weeks down the road when you were in love or super crazy about him. How crazy is it that it was your friend? lol That's reeeally bad luck for him.

I don't know how you haven't said anything yet. I would probably have a text message out to him like 2 seconds later. lol I don't know why people aren't just honest and instead they just wind up hurting the other person when they could have been honest from the start.

My sister caught her ex-fiance on match.com while they were seeing each other. They were off and on (she's married to someone else now), and she was devastated when she found out. God I felt so bad for her. Same deal too. Her friend found him on Match and told her about it.
 
Mehr. I accidentally hurt Ms.G during a BDSM scene (like hurt more than she wanted...no injury, just pain) and then I accidentally kicked her ankle while she wearing open toe shoes and I was wearing combat boots. She had tears both times. I feel fucking TERRIBLE. She's not mad or anything, but just seeing her in pain is brutal for me, and if I caused it, it crushes me. Sad rangrz is sad.
 
rangrz said:
Mehr. I accidentally hurt Ms.G during a BDSM scene (like hurt more than she wanted...no injury, just pain) and then I accidentally kicked her ankle while she wearing open toe shoes and I was wearing combat boots. She had tears both times. I feel fucking TERRIBLE. She's not mad or anything, but just seeing her in pain is brutal for me, and if I caused it, it crushes me. Sad rangrz is sad.
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I'm eligible for a passport now man. Ill let ya know when I get it and some money together and we can get some fun in. They way you and Ms. G are makes me definitely wanna cum up for a lil get together with you two and a cute female.
 
Lysis said:
Oh wow. I would be heartbroken. Do you love him? That's awful. Really bad luck for him, but it's better you found out now rather than weeks down the road when you were in love or super crazy about him. How crazy is it that it was your friend? lol That's reeeally bad luck for him.

I don't know how you haven't said anything yet. I would probably have a text message out to him like 2 seconds later. lol I don't know why people aren't just honest and instead they just wind up hurting the other person when they could have been honest from the start.

My sister caught her ex-fiance on match.com while they were seeing each other. They were off and on (she's married to someone else now), and she was devastated when she found out. God I felt so bad for her. Same deal too. Her friend found him on Match and told her about it.
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Nah, don't love him. Definitely like(d) him though. More disappointed than anything, really. He's a bit of a jock but not someone I'd consider a 'player' in the strictest sense.

He invited me over after dinner tonight, not knowing I have any idea about this. What I do have are copies of the messages and his profile that my friend gave me. It should be interesting to see the look on his face when I hand them to him. I'm only going over there because I want a couple of my books back, lol. (and perhaps to leave my number for his hot friend/neighbor who IS single)

I really jumped the gun. Oh well, a lesson learned.

That's awful that your sister was engaged to the cheater. Do people honestly think the Internet world is that small, lol?

Hope Ms. G's feeling better, rangrz. Flowers?
 
Ugh Mariposa what a prick. Please tell us how he reacts when you tell him you know!
At least you found out fairly early though.
 
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