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So you don't think I am a jerk, I also am super nice to her, sending her cute cat pictures when she is down, and do compliment her on stuffs, and helped her edit a paper for school.
 
He sent me an e-mail last night about how he really feels like a tool and wants to take me to dinner this weekend. I haven't yet replied. I may not.
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May not, lol. Yeah right you know your going to email him back as you don't have any other prospects. All in all sounds like a perfect time to run because we all know why guys are on a dating site [which would be a major red flag in the first place] because they want to fuck as many bitches as possible. He is probably emailing back and forth with a couple right now that aren't your friends. Which btw is fucking hilarious!
 
bagochina said:
May not, lol. Yeah right you know your going to email him back as you don't have any other prospects. All in all sounds like a perfect time to run because we all know why guys are on a dating site [which would be a major red flag in the first place] because they want to fuck as many bitches as possible. He is probably emailing back and forth with a couple right now that aren't your friends. Which btw is fucking hilarious!
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I'm glad someone's amused. I didn't meet this guy on a dating site (not that it would matter if I did). I met him at a park where I took my roommate's dog for a run. Prospects? I'm not exactly mining for gold here. If he wants to 'fuck as many bitches as possible' (which he may) then he's free to do that. I have not e-mailed him back. Are you capable of interacting with me without insulting me? You're free to put me on ignore, you know. :|

Besides, isn't almost everyone on dating sites a spammer/troll?

Lysis - that's damned tempting, and I know just the place. ;) He could ride into my front yard on a unicorn and I doubt I'd be fazed at this point.

kaywholed - he definitely sent some mixed messages in this regard. I think he does want commitment but is hesitant to give up his bachelor lifestyle. That's fine, he can have his bachelor lifestyle. :) And wow, that chick that gave you the virgin book is cold! Granted, you probably shouldn't have pointed out if she's fat, dumb and hairy (she probably realizes at least the fat and hairy parts) but yeah, way to kill a guy's ego!

I'd really like to get to know a nice, handsome man slowly but surely. Surely there is a single dude out there for me. But yep, until then, back to work.
 
Mariposa you're a classy lady. There is someone out there who isn't a douchebag and right for you. Gotta kiss a lot of frogs and all that fun stuff first.
 
yeah dude you said it yourself - you're quite introverted and you need a lot of you time. SOunds like it was overload and you need to come back to base camp.

DON'T however make excuses. Just be honest - say what you told us - if she's anyone worth being with(intelligent and/or insightful), she will understand that we all need ME-TIME. I wouldn't say I don't wanna see her, or I don't wanna see anyone - but "me-time" is teh perfect phrase and I believe you need to use it.
Psyduck said:
Went to some nice place for the weekend with my gf. We had a splendid weekend. We did a lot of romantic things. We had lots of sex. I suppose we were very intimate those days.

Yet, now that the weekend is over, I feel so horribly depressed. I just want to be alone now. I don't want any contact for the next days. Is this normal behaviour?

I don't dislike her or something. I just want to be alone... I am normally a very introverted person that needs a lot of ME-time. Maybe three days constantly together was too much for me too handle... And maybe the depressed feelings are similar as the day after taking MDMA, where the peak of serotonin is followed by some depressive feelings?

We really had a nice time. But, now, I want to be alone. I am making up excuses to meet with her. I feel a bit like a jerk. I don't want to say "I don't want to see you today" because that will not do any good. Probably everything is back normal in a few days. Just need some alone time, I guess. I don't think it necessarily means I dislike her.

Is this normal behaviour?
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kaywholed said:
One of the girls at work was like, "oh this book is perfect for you" it was "Virgin Cures". I deserved it because I say some terrible things to her ('nice beard' and such harmless but hurtful jokes), but it is saddening to put out a 'virgin vibe' just because I have no girlfriend. :(



I don't know the full story, but it kinda of sounds like because you were not exclusive, he was just keeping his options open. Kinda hard to fault a guy for shutting down all potential romantic friendships just because one wonderful lady might be the one or whatever.
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sounds like some next-level banter. Fuck her if she's attractive - this is old skool (like 5year old) flirting. Play innuendo/dirty talk chicken. The first person to bow out is a gimp, but it often leads somewhere involving being between some sheets, or on a grassy knoll or sumat. DO IIIIIIIIIT.


peace to you all
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
sounds like some next-level banter. Fuck her if she's attractive - this is old skool (like 5year old) flirting. Play innuendo/dirty talk chicken. The first person to bow out is a gimp, but it often leads somewhere involving being between some sheets, or on a grassy knoll or sumat. DO IIIIIIIIIT.
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she works for me, cannot bang. It is basically why I am a jerk to her.
 
kaywholed, do you do the professional, sly boob stare or are you like one of those guys in the office that just stares at the girl's chest when she's talking and looks away when she looks?
 
Lysis said:
kaywholed, do you do the professional, sly boob stare or are you like one of those guys in the office that just stares at the girl's chest when she's talking and looks away when she looks?
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I don't look.
 
Ah, even if my boss sent me cat pics when I was sad, I would not be impressed with the insults. But everyone is different.
 
My team lead calls me "sunshine." Makes me feel better when I'm having a bad day.

I've always been a part of the boy's club at work because I'm usually either the only female or one of 2. lol Never had more than 1 other team member who was a girl. So, if kaywholed was my boss I'd definitely get him the virgin book for talking shit to me. lol I love that she did that. haha
 
llama112 said:
Ah, even if my boss sent me cat pics when I was sad, I would not be impressed with the insults. But everyone is different.
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But it is like sitcom funny. Hard to describe with silly text.

Fortunately she is, 6 years younger than me, has a boyfriend, and works for me, so I do not need to impress her. Only make sure she doesn't call HR on me lolz.
 
So, the other night, Ms.G and I went to have a pint with this gay Trinidadian guy who has a soldier/uniform/boot fetish and keeps creeping on me to dom him.

On the other hand, I replied to a w4w ad to go to a sex club, and she picked us like 15 mins after I sent email, despite being a couple and all. She's cute. We're going tomorrow. We also got asked out on a date by another cute bi with purple hair who's a sub, and We're macking on these other two girls too, one of whom was forward enough to txt us indicating she wants to nom Ms.G's vagoo...she's bi and into kink and a switch.

Sometimes I am doing it wrong (gay boot fetish guy) but most of the time, I am doing it VERY, VERY right.
 
We've been working on her for some time now. But it's looking like we're on the terminal approach...we've been sending her pics of our BDSM sesh's and she's been responding very positively and flirty like. Plus, we asked her if she wanted to join us at the hooka bar on an ad hoc basis as we where going anyway. But she flipped it and was like "We should make proper plans" and then asked us out for next Friday night.
 
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